🌸🌸𝓙𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓪𝓴 Written Update And Episode Discussion Thread 62🌸🌸 - Page 48

Arshi: Tumne bharosa toda hai, dubara bharosa karne waqt to lage ga na

Ani: Aisa kiya kya hai mai ne

Audience: Ani hum sab jante hai, pre-birthday kaise celebrate kya tha, Kashmir mein kya huwa tha. Tumhari nazarein kise follow karti hai humein sab pata hai.

On a serious note, we may all want Runak, we may all dislike/hate Arshi but by def this is classic gas lighting.

Here me out. From Arshi POV.

I am happily engaged, ready to go for pre-wedding honeymoon with fam blessings, ie we are completely committed! Now my to-be-husband (TBH) meets a young very attractive girl, a good dancer from my fam and sees the signs of pull towards her in my TBH. I notice when he is extra friendly after the dance competition in Kashmir, where J and i win (but after a face-off I do win). I help her to get to the stage but she is actually my competitor and my fiancé is showing extra interest in her. She is me, but maybe even better than me. Both my career and personal life is at risk.

I thought what happened in Kashmir stays in Kashmir, but he brings her to Kolkata and my mother is very upset abt J being a bad girl and she is going to ruin our lives. How am I to react?

Many times I feel Ani is not mine anymore and when I try to talk to him, he sweet talks me. My gut feels that even though he says all right things his eyes speak a different language. I want to break off this engagement but most of my fam and my mom are asking me to continue and fight for my love and not allow J to win. Ani himself is not sure. Maybe J is just a distraction and as Ani said he will always come back to me. I am his wife-to-be, it is my duty to protect him from distractions. I asked J directly if she loves Ani and if Ani loves her, but her response confused me more, I couldn't understand her Himalaya parvat connection.

Yes, sometimes I feel happy when J is put on the spot, (she agreed to reversal rasam, remarrying with uncle groom). I wasn't part of the groom swap but mom says Tejas will be good for J. Why are Ani-J upset about it? Very confusing.

J shows that she is happy that i am getting married and Ani has never broken our engagement. He is willingly participating in all the ceremonies. I feel I being cheated but every proof I see I am being talked out of it. His fam and my mother pulls me back into it. sab kahte hai woh ladki chali jaye bas, aur sab theek ho jayega. I am so frustrated.

J is gone and now I am injured. Even tho he is attentive to me, it doesn't feel right. I give him a way out, but he is ready for SR.

Either Jhanak directly tried to hurt/injure me or not, but Ani's attention to J is why mother might have tried to hurt J ( I know my mother). Root cause is Ani!

Everything was perfect until Kashmir, but Ani is not the same but he asks Aisa kiya kya maine?

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My POV:

Most people find Arshi dumb etc., but I find her caught in the storm called Runak and does not know how to react. I find her lost, with a mother like narcissist Shrishti who wouldn't. I find her frustrated and angry. Her hurt is reasonable where she wants to be married to the man who says he loves her (mom wants me to win, BH wants me as Lakshmi). But still not convinced.... Classic case of some one who is gaslit.

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

Dii, That's one good outcome I am expecting from this track...as they are showing too much emotional and mental torture on Aniruddh...I hope it ends as him realising that these people are not worth his care,love and definitely not his sacrifice...

It is good that his dam of suppressed emotions are breaking.....he is not being able to bear anymore... probably he is just tired

Yes , hope all that he is holding would burst and we get a good reunion of them in mumbai ....

🤞🏻🤞🏻

Originally posted by: MayaFruitbae

He liked to sleep alone....room mein space hoga when guests leave ...😬😬😊😊

Oho Maya! You misread his feelings! He wanted to share the room with Jhanak( guest) only ! But at that time she was so into her shaadi with Avinash , she didn’t give any bhaav to him! So h was feeling upset 🥹🙄

Originally posted by: MayaFruitbae

He hates Shristi ....and may be that is why madam is not coming to BH....

And let her ego also do the necessary....please harm Anirudh in front of Jhanak.

Beti se ziada use j k fikar ha, kase uske news mile aur woh phir se use destroy kerne ka plan ker sukay

Originally posted by: szsiddiqa

Arshi: Tumne bharosa toda hai, dubara bharosa karne waqt to lage ga na

Ani: Aisa kiya kya hai mai ne

Audience: Ani hum sab jante hai, pre-birthday kaise celebrate kya tha, Kashmir mein kya huwa tha. Tumhari nazarein kise follow karti hai humein sab pata hai.

On a serious note, we may all want Runak, we may all dislike/hate Arshi but by def this is classic gas lighting.

Here me out. From Arshi POV.

I am happily engaged, ready to go for pre-wedding honeymoon with fam blessings, ie we are completely committed! Now my to-be-husband (TBH) meets a young very attractive girl, a good dancer from my fam and sees the signs of pull towards her in my TBH. I notice when he is extra friendly after the dance competition in Kashmir, where J and i win (but after a face-off I do win). I help her to get to the stage but she is actually my competitor and my fiancé is showing extra interest in her. She is me, but maybe even better than me. Both my career and personal life is at risk.

I thought what happened in Kashmir stays in Kashmir, but he brings her to Kolkata and my mother is very upset abt J being a bad girl and she is going to ruin our lives. How am I to react?

Many times I feel Ani is not mine anymore and when I try to talk to him, he sweet talks me. My gut feels that even though he says all right things his eyes speak a different language. I want to break off this engagement but most of my fam and my mom are asking me to continue and fight for my love and not allow J to win. Ani himself is not sure. Maybe J is just a distraction and as Ani said he will always come back to me. I am his wife-to-be, it is my duty to protect him from distractions. I asked J directly if she loves Ani and if Ani loves her, but her response confused me more, I couldn't understand her Himalaya parvat connection.

Yes, sometimes I feel happy when J is put on the spot, (she agreed to reversal rasam, remarrying with uncle groom). I wasn't part of the groom swap but mom says Tejas will be good for J. Why are Ani-J upset about it? Very confusing.

J shows that she is happy that i am getting married and Ani has never broken our engagement. He is willingly participating in all the ceremonies. I feel I being cheated but every proof I see I am being talked out of it. His fam and my mother pulls me back into it. sab kahte hai woh ladki chali jaye bas, aur sab theek ho jayega. I am so frustrated.

But now I am injured and even tho he is attentive to me, it doesn't feel right. I give him a way out, but he is ready for SR.

Either Jhanak directly tried to hurt/injure me or not, but Ani's attention to J is why mother might have tried to hurt J ( I know my mother). Root cause is Ani!

Everything was perfect until Kashmir, but Ani is not the same but he asks Aisa kiya kya maine?

---

My POV:

Most people find Arshi dumb etc., but I find her caught in the storm called Runak and does not know how to react. I find her lost, with a mother like narcissist Shrishti who wouldn't. I find her frustrated and angry. Her hurt is reasonable where she wants to be married to the man who says he loves her (mom wants me to win, BH wants me as Lakshmi). But still not convinced.... Classic case of some one who is gaslit.

Very good post.. sorry I don’t know your name

italic- absolutely right

We have to remember that shows like these play into the stereotyping strongly. Much of this ire against Arshi is misdirected and some part fun.

Until this track,i wasn’t even looking at Arshi as she had no power to influence anything. It was Ani and Ani’s traits that were into focus. However in this track, she has gained the power to trigger something big.

Without a doubt, Arshi isn’t the issue here.. it is Ani and Ami alone. Ani could have broken off with her anytime he was close to realising where his heart was but we know that in this plot, they have constructed an Ani who is torn between doing right thing by Arshi and his heart’s desire and add to that as many here say, his family pressure ( I am less convinced about becos I haven’t seen all the episodes)

He walked into this situation due to all of this and he has now granted Arshi power. Arshi may have known that Ani does not love her but it is stupid to let Ani off the hook.. Why should she? I mean she can and she should and that may only raise her moral ground but it does nothing good for Ani in the story. Arshi can wait for Ani to come clean… isn’t it? This way both get to get higher moral ground..😊

But I liked your reasoning and the way you have analysed Arshi

Originally posted by: szsiddiqa

Arshi: Tumne bharosa toda hai, dubara bharosa karne waqt to lage ga na

Ani: Aisa kiya kya hai mai ne

Audience: Ani hum sab jante hai, pre-birthday kaise celebrate kya tha, Kashmir mein kya huwa tha. Tumhari nazarein kise follow karti hai humein sab pata hai.

On a serious note, we may all want Runak, we may all dislike/hate Arshi but by def this is classic gas lighting.

Here me out. From Arshi POV.

I am happily engaged, ready to go for pre-wedding honeymoon with fam blessings, ie we are completely committed! Now my to-be-husband (TBH) meets a young very attractive girl, a good dancer from my fam and sees the signs of pull towards her in my TBH. I notice when he is extra friendly after the dance competition in Kashmir, where J and i win (but after a face-off I do win). I help her to get to the stage but she is actually my competitor and my fiancé is showing extra interest in her. She is me, but maybe even better than me. Both my career and personal life is at risk.

I thought what happened in Kashmir stays in Kashmir, but he brings her to Kolkata and my mother is very upset abt J being a bad girl and she is going to ruin our lives. How am I to react?

Many times I feel Ani is not mine anymore and when I try to talk to him, he sweet talks me. My gut feels that even though he says all right things his eyes speak a different language. I want to break off this engagement but most of my fam and my mom are asking me to continue and fight for my love and not allow J to win. Ani himself is not sure. Maybe J is just a distraction and as Ani said he will always come back to me. I am his wife-to-be, it is my duty to protect him from distractions. I asked J directly if she loves Ani and if Ani loves her, but her response confused me more, I couldn't understand her Himalaya parvat connection.

Yes, sometimes I feel happy when J is put on the spot, (she agreed to reversal rasam, remarrying with uncle groom). I wasn't part of the groom swap but mom says Tejas will be good for J. Why are Ani-J upset about it? Very confusing.

J shows that she is happy that i am getting married and Ani has never broken our engagement. He is willingly participating in all the ceremonies. I feel I being cheated but every proof I see I am being talked out of it. His fam and my mother pulls me back into it. sab kahte hai woh ladki chali jaye bas, aur sab theek ho jayega. I am so frustrated.

But now I am injured and even tho he is attentive to me, it doesn't feel right. I give him a way out, but he is ready for SR.

Either Jhanak directly tried to hurt/injure me or not, but Ani's attention to J is why mother might have tried to hurt J ( I know my mother). Root cause is Ani!

Everything was perfect until Kashmir, but Ani is not the same but he asks Aisa kiya kya maine?

---

My POV:

Most people find Arshi dumb etc., but I find her caught in the storm called Runak and does not know how to react. I find her lost, with a mother like narcissist Shrishti who wouldn't. I find her frustrated and angry. Her hurt is reasonable where she wants to be married to the man who says he loves her (mom wants me to win, BH wants me as Lakshmi). But still not convinced.... Classic case of some one who is gaslit.

well i agree and disagree.

Arshi is very much a victim of runak. They deceived her, yes. They have lied to her countless times. She was the fiance and deserved proper respect as one. If you fell for another one, you should confess to your partner rather than stringing them along with a thin strand of a hope that everything is okay! Runak and esp Ani is and will be wrong for that always!

But does that mean Arshi is innocent? Even serial k*llers have justified reasons in their mind but that doesn’t make their actions right. That way even Ani n Jhanak have their justifications, but are they right to deceive Charshi?

She was involved in forcibly marrying Jhanak to a man older than her just to get rid of her. She was involved in Tejas marryinh her by duping her twice. Hadnt she seen Tejas was the reason J ran to Kolkata? Is she a 5yo kid? She knows but chooses to ignore other’s pain if it doesn’t benefit her. She was very much mute and smiling when the family was saying Aditya would use n throw J. Is she that innocent to not understand what that means as a woman?

Charshi is not innocent and cant be whitewashed because in her mind she has justifications. Because everyone has the same scenario. Shrishti is doing what she thinks is right. Two wrongs don’t make a right.

Originally posted by: sanfan

Very good post.. sorry I don’t know your name

italic- absolutely right

We have to remember that shows like these play into the stereotyping strongly. Much of this ire against Arshi is misdirected and some part fun.

Until this track,i wasn’t even looking at Arshi as she had no power to influence anything. It was Ani and Ani’s traits that were into focus. However in this track, she has gained the power to trigger something big.

Without a doubt, Arshi isn’t the issue here.. it is Ani and Ami alone. Ani could have broken off with her anytime he was close to realising where his heart was but we know that in this plot, they have constructed an Ani who is torn between doing right thing by Arshi and his heart’s desire and add to that as many here say, his family pressure ( I am less convinced about becos I haven’t seen all the episodes)

He walked into this situation due to all of this and he has now granted Arshi power. Arshi may have known that Ani does not love her but it is stupid to let Ani off the hook.. Why should she? I mean she can and she should and that may only raise her moral ground but it does nothing good for Ani in the story. Arshi can wait for Ani to come clean… isn’t it? This way both get to get higher moral ground..😊

But I liked your reasoning and the way you have analysed Arshi

Thank you.

@ bold Sabahath

Originally posted by: Sampada_14

Exactly

Waise bhi hum hi 2 sab se aage hai yaha "flag-bearer of Hope" ab waha Jake bhi yahi karega toh hum kya karenge 😂😂😂

Wahi toh.... ham dono ne saath me yahan forum me jo " hope ki imarat" banayi hai....woh abb Ani ke haath mein hai.....

Agar woh wahan Jake stage pe Arshi Ko motivate karega toh hame muh chupane ki jagah nahi milegi

Originally posted by: piapriya

well i agree and disagree.

Arshi is very much a victim of runak. They deceived her, yes. They have lied to her countless times. She was the fiance and deserved proper respect as one. If you fell for another one, you should confess to your partner rather than stringing them along with a thin strand of a hope that everything is okay! Runak and esp Ani is and will be wrong for that always!

But does that mean Arshi is innocent? Even serial k*llers have justified reasons in their mind but that doesn’t make their actions right. That way even Ani n Jhanak have their justifications, but are they right to deceive Charshi?

She was involved in forcibly marrying Jhanak to a man older than her just to get rid of her. She was involved in Tejas marryinh her by duping her twice. Hadnt she seen Tejas was the reason J ran to Kolkata? Is she a 5yo kid? She knows but chooses to ignore other’s pain if it doesn’t benefit her. She was very much mute and smiling when the family was saying Aditya would use n throw J. Is she that innocent to not understand what that means as a woman?

Charshi is not innocent and cant be whitewashed because in her mind she has justifications. Because everyone has the same scenario. Shrishti is doing what she thinks is right. Two wrongs don’t make a right.

@ bold1: J herself agreed, Ani did not object. Miya biwi razi toh kya kare qazi

Tejas: At one point she does rebuke her mother if it was not for her duping J would have been married. (though not defending Arshi ... )

@bold2: I forgot AK.

No Arshi is not really innocent but she is gaslit by Ani

Originally posted by: piapriya

well i agree and disagree.

Arshi is very much a victim of runak. They deceived her, yes. They have lied to her countless times. She was the fiance and deserved proper respect as one. If you fell for another one, you should confess to your partner rather than stringing them along with a thin strand of a hope that everything is okay! Runak and esp Ani is and will be wrong for that always!

But does that mean Arshi is innocent? Even serial k*llers have justified reasons in their mind but that doesn’t make their actions right. That way even Ani n Jhanak have their justifications, but are they right to deceive Charshi?

She was involved in forcibly marrying Jhanak to a man older than her just to get rid of her. She was involved in Tejas marryinh her by duping her twice. Hadnt she seen Tejas was the reason J ran to Kolkata? Is she a 5yo kid? She knows but chooses to ignore other’s pain if it doesn’t benefit her. She was very much mute and smiling when the family was saying Aditya would use n throw J. Is she that innocent to not understand what that means as a woman?

Charshi is not innocent and cant be whitewashed because in her mind she has justifications. Because everyone has the same scenario. Shrishti is doing what she thinks is right. Two wrongs don’t make a right.

Whatever is happening with her right now is due to her mom. Ub bhugtay arshi

And unhe bhi anni arshi ko he Mila ha. Kea bura hua ha uske saath.