YRKKH: BTS, SM updates & Spoilers Thread # 22 |DT NOTE P.35, 54 - Page 50

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

Situation these days

https://x.com/Ms_dramaqueen_/status/1809129409984463300

I love this, so apt and true

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Mai toh ye soch rahi hun, kaun se useless boss ne useless Madhav ko mission pe bheja Hai.

Madhav khud apna boss Hai

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

I should not have to feel guilty for sharing my opinion. What happened to freedom of speech? Why so much commotion when FL is being criticised? But when characters like Armaan Roohi are badly trolled all is well? Why can’t people appreciate and criticise who they like rather than trying to control peoples opinions.

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

exactly ..if you don’t agree with someone, what happened to ignoring them and moving on ..what is this shadow boxing going on ???

Chill. Nobody is shadow boxing anyone. You can criticize whoever you want.

I just found a pattern between X and this forum. It's not about "criticizing". More like taking it to extremes.

Even they sell it as an opinion. Which I personally find extreme.

But I gues it's just different for different people.

So yeah. I will agree to disagree.

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Yeah. The simple point is anybody in Abhira's place would have lashed out about the Ruhi thing

That woman used to bully Abhira. Her husband/Friend knew the reason and could have easily stopped her. But he didn't. He didn't. He instead sided with the said bully on multiple occasions. Abhira asked him countless times. She had every right to know. Especially when she is constantly getting bullied for it

If my friend/Lover sides with my bully. Of course, I am going to lash out and have trust issues

That does not mean that ABhira does not love him or does not deserve him. Nobody has ever loved Armaan the way Abhira does

Armaan is on the right track.

I am sure they will reunite and have their happy ending at some point

Biggest issue that people had with that confrontation was that she made Ruhi and her both victims when she had seen Ruhis actions also first hand. Who will make a bully as victim in such confrontation. Who will be sympathetic to the 'other woman' when confronting the person you love... That confrontation was something that everyone expected but it was way off tangent.

And i dont know about staying in love with someone you believe is a two timer without wanting to hear him out as well

Originally posted by: Solitudelover

Biggest issue that people had with that confrontation was that she made Ruhi and her both victims when she had seen Ruhis actions also first hand. Who will make a bully as victim in such confrontation. Who will be sympathetic to the 'other woman' when confronting the person you love... That confrontation was something that everyone expected but it was way off tangent.

And i dont know about staying in love with someone you believe is a two timer without wanting to hear him out as well

Exactly...right now I am unble to undersand her...

That how can you stay in love with a two timer...people feel extreme disgust in such cases and desperate urge to move away even from the sight of such person forget about touch...

When ema was between both guy and girl than how come one is guilty other is victim....

Originally posted by: Ohgod!

I think it's a bit unfair to say no thought has been spared for Abhira and everything she has endured.. In fact most of us are coming from the space of liking Abhira for who she was but also not being fond of what is being made of her!

And in saying that, her constant struggle atleast after the divorce (she's not aware of the truth) is part her own doing! Is there absolutely no other city that offers jobs to lawyers?? Did she have to stick around and do everything she did?? Even at the cost of letting herself run dry on money, food, shelter, everything??

Let's also for a moment say she was going and Madhav stopped her... but what of everything after?? She forgave Armaan for everything she said today until the Ruhi truth came about and I said this earlier in another post as well that everything she said today was valid, but it shouldn't have been said today! This should have all come out when Armaan had parked himself outside her house! Her father did help her with a written list and told her why she shouldn't forgive Armaan.. That was the time to say these are all the reasons why I don't want anything to do with you.. because of you I had to endure everything Yada Yada.. Her mother had been dead then too! But chalo teekh Hai she didn't. She gave in and forgave him.. But what about after the Ruhi lie came out?

She vehemently promised before god she will move on and all that jazz and then she's back?? In fact she should have told Madhav too that I need some space to figure out my life and I'm going to take your advice and forget Armaan but I need to getaway from his face for that.. But she chose to not only stick around but also eventually move into PH willingly?? For whatever reason.. but willingly.. and knowing very well what that family has done to her..

So if she had used the words again after having already told him all that before, would've been different but after bringing it all upon herself (atleast recent stuff) to now claim she wished Armaan never came to save her that day is a low blow!!

And I said it before I'm saying it again! When Armaan did wrong and he did loads of it no dispiriting, he was called out.. So if Abhira is going one wrong, she can get called out just as much.. what I personally have an objection to atleast is that when Abhira is called out it becomes bad writing and part of the narrative, but when Armaan makes a mistake it's all him and he uses Abhira as a punching bag etc!

Armaan hurt Abhira no doubt and Abhira has all the right to hurt him back but I remember reading on this very forum that Abhira was different and she would never guilt trip anyone! I suppose we are all just venting out our frustration on the fact that that Abhira has now gone missing somehow and just because Armaan needs to realise and redeem himself doesn't mean Abhira has to fall and become the older and probably mellower but older version of Armaan in terms of just lashing out at the only person she can in the name of being upset or hurt... If I remember right, that's exactly what Armaan used to do barring the degree of lashing out!

Also, the biggest problem here is unlike u said, many think Abhira is perfect and has no flaws.. and I'm in some way saying the same thing! She has and is making mistakes too . She needs to pause, gather her thoughts, take a break, find another city and decide what she wants from life and love! Armaan will follow her in a heartbeat anyway!

In my opinion this thing went too far ...I understand her being exhausted with all thing happening becoz of him and his family...But not this...I hope makers didn't brush off this dialogue and give introspection to this.. Insaan hai galti se muh se kuch baat nikalthe hai...But we have to realise what is wrong is wrong ...Whatever be the situation Akshara ke baath nahi leni chahiye dhi ..

If same thing role reversal me bol diya toh (hope aisa kabhi na ho)..Phir toh qayamat aa jaayega

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Yeah. The simple point is anybody in Abhira's place would have lashed out about the Ruhi thing

That woman used to bully Abhira. Her husband/Friend knew the reason and could have easily stopped her. But he didn't. He didn't. He instead sided with the said bully on multiple occasions. Abhira asked him countless times. She had every right to know. Especially when she is constantly getting bullied for it

If my friend/Lover sides with my bully. Of course, I am going to lash out and have trust issues

That does not mean that ABhira does not love him or does not deserve him. Nobody has ever loved Armaan the way Abhira does

Armaan is on the right track.

I am sure they will reunite and have their happy ending at some point

The way you put it dear , it makes me think ..why would abhira even fall in love with a guy like that?

If my friend / lover sides with the bully I'll Def start disliking him /break up . Coz arman has a huge line up of red flags.

Fine she didn't know ruhi was the woman he WAS in love with during th 10 month period..but she saw arman being "more than friends " with ruhi, letting her interfere , stand guard outside his bedroom etc etc and this is not a normal thing for friends / bhabhis . He also didn't want abhira to reveal the dp truth for ruhis sake or whatever ..he always tried to protect ruhi , also not let her see any other boy. Why did she fall in love with him then ? Coz she didn't care right ? She didn't care as she was his deal wife .

In principle she forgave arman for his family kaands , for all that happened with ruhi , for giving a nod to marry ruhi , for divorce, for snatching ms , for all the humiliations .

What was she thinking ?

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Chill. Nobody is shadow boxing anyone. You can criticize whoever you want.

I just found a pattern between X and this forum. It's not about "criticizing". More like taking it to extremes.

Even they sell it as an opinion. Which I personally find extreme.

But I gues it's just different for different people.

So yeah. I will agree to disagree.

In the previous season whenever the PL would blame the FL for her mother’s death people would get so frustrated. But in this season when the FL blames the ML for her mother’s death that is apparently fine? Arre Haan kyunki woh FL hain aur kabhi galat nahi ho sakti.