Originally posted by: asmitamohanty
Again I am coming back to my previous point of childhood traumas both of them are going through...
Someone who was abandoned as a child, for instance, could push their spouse away or clutch too tightly in adult relationships out of fear of being abandoned again. Similar to this, those who have been emotionally neglected could find it difficult to communicate their needs and feelings to their partners in a healthy way, which could result in miscommunication and conflict...
That's why I want them to have a nice conversation on this...when that makers might decide but by acknowledging the influence of childhood trauma on their adult relationships and taking proactive steps to heal and grow, they can break free from the patterns of the past and build relationship that are grounded in trust, intimacy, and mutual respect...
Both are wrong...but I am still trying to understand them as I love them a lot...
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