YRKKH: BTS, SM updates & Spoilers Thread # 21 - Page 35

Originally posted by: Solitudelover

So all along she was planning to reveal rumaal when Ab- Ar was going to be close? ab sach mein vo video isi ne nahin diya Kv ko.. She knew Ab loved Ar, Ar declared love for Ab... Why did Ruhi think they will not get together?

After revelation, she knew, abhira broke up with armaan. And the way armaan was heart broken while talking to her the call, socha hoga ke abhira won't give him another chance.

Originally posted by: Ohgod!

I think surely once you avoid the two names which they could have done so themselves too, between Shivangi and Mohsin atleast, I'd personally rate Mohsin higher purely in terms of growth as an actor.. Shivangi became monotone after a point but Mohsin got tracks that helped him improve considerably by the time Kaira was over! Karan Mehra didn't really get as better as Mohsin did in the duration imo! And Pranali was too short-lived! Lol..

Originally posted by: Rainbow_Girl

The scene where madhav revealed about shivani to armaan, I found it funny. The way he emotionally told abhira, shivani armaan ki asli maa hain, maza aata if she responded " Yeah, mujhe pata hain"

He is one size fits all actor..

I don't blame the therapist now.. Koi aur hota tho khud therapy mein chala gaya hoga abi tak..

Ruhi ne khud apni zindagi barbard ki hain just because armaan told he married his brother then inspite of armaan saying to her ab hum kabhie saath nahi ho sakte she didn't give fair chance to rohit

After rohit went she again kept eye on his jeth manipulated him always regarding abhira and manipulated for giving her haq after her deal with abhira that was also manipulation of you all remeber armaan was never that much connected to ruhi madam as he was and is with abhira ....

Even after all deal marriage end there marriage start also he made clear in 7 mahino main cheeze badal gayi she still told uska akele ka pyaar kafi hain then why and how armaan is blamed for her armaan mistake is that he can't say no to people can't say no to his vidhya maa can't say no to ruhi also rudely sabko khush rakhne ke chakar main bande ne apni life mess kar do hain stupid wada zarrir kiya tha uska saath dega saath to friend bhi de sakte hain

That yoga scene in colour coordinated outfits surely has to be the most random scene ever in Rishtaverse …no memes on SM ???

Originally posted by: Krinya

I find nothing relevant ..dadisa zaroor said something relevant which was "your heart is lying to you . You still care for armans happiness only " .

Exactly my grudge ..there is no mention of ruhi ..Arman ne phir dil tod diya bachi ka dil Matlab kya ? When he didn't let them talk , how can he figure out what she wants? N why this over sympathy for abhira & nobody should hurt her ? If he truly treats abhira like his beti , he should respect her decision...Kara de na divorce final ..but he's lying to her just so that she's stuck with arman ..she was repeatedly complaining Arman na bataya nai ruhi ke baare, toh her papa also is lying to her about divorce kaand..he is also keeping her with him for selfish reasons .

Also , shouldn't he advice abhira also ? Abhira is listening to masa & falling into her traps again n again...Arman toh is firmly standing up for vidya against dadisa...toh ye saari kahani ke dadi will try to separate them must he known to abhira first then Arman...abhira should he warned coz she's more gullible to ruhi & kaveri ..she still thinks of ruhi as a victim

Also this status issue , he's earning well, not spending the poddar money so what's abhiras problem with it ? If he gifts her something, I don't see any issue ..n he is trying to help abhira get a case , that should also not be a problem ..she may have an advantage but ultimately shell have to win the case on her merit..is this nepotism ? I dun think so...haan if he influenced the judge , there hes wrong ....he can't throw away his status & position for abhira for her to love him . This self respect talk shouldn't come from abhiras mouth coz abhi bhi woh poddars ka hi kha rahi hai , madhav ka hi sahi. Ghoom phirke poddar house hi aa jaati hai

I think that's the main grouse of some of us here from the time Madhav became papa to only his beti!! That he's not even fulfilling that role in all honesty.. it's great that he's giving her emotional support, but he's also risking playing with her emotions by a) not respecting her decision b) not being honest about the DP which could impact her decision c) not giving her any guidance on how to keep Armaan/KP and the whole relationship thing at bay and d) just not telling her upfront that he still harbours the thought of wanting Armaan and her together and hence he would like for her to have just one proper conversation with Armaan and if after that too she feels like she's out, then so be it!!

Kuch tho karo! Atleast tell her to not get bogged down by KP.. But na.. we'd rather discuss what to eat for each meal and forget about any of the relevant things!! Why doesn't he tells Armaan one right thing? About how he screwed up with the whole Ruhi truth and he must make up for it by showing Abhira he can be trusted.. where does Poddar tag in between all of this

And I'm still wondering how what Madhav us doing is any different? Sure she doesn't have to live a life with the man so his secrets won't hurt her like Armaan's did, but at the end of the day, he's misusing her trust for his own reasons and once she finds that out, it's going to upset her anyway! And if this whole Beti Andolan was started to keep her from further hurt, he's kinda defeating the point by not doing one thing right, right?

Originally posted by: Ohgod!

I think that's the main grouse of some of us here from the time Madhav became papa to only his beti!! That he's not even fulfilling that role in all honesty.. it's great that he's giving her emotional support, but he's also risking playing with her emotions by a) not respecting her decision b) not being honest about the DP which could impact her decision c) not giving her any guidance on how to keep Armaan/KP and the whole relationship thing at bay and d) just not telling her upfront that he still harbours the thought of wanting Armaan and her together and hence he would like for her to have just one proper conversation with Armaan and if after that too she feels like she's out, then so be it!!

Kuch tho karo! Atleast tell her to not get bogged down by KP.. But na.. we'd rather discuss what to eat for each meal and forget about any of the relevant things!! Why doesn't he tells Armaan one right thing? About how he screwed up with the whole Ruhi truth and he must make up for it by showing Abhira he can be trusted.. where does Poddar tag in between all of this

And I'm still wondering how what Madhav us doing is any different? Sure she doesn't have to live a life with the man so his secrets won't hurt her like Armaan's did, but at the end of the day, he's misusing her trust for his own reasons and once she finds that out, it's going to upset her anyway! And if this whole Beti Andolan was started to keep her from further hurt, he's kinda defeating the point by not doing one thing right, right?

Originally posted by: Ohgod!

I think that's the main grouse of some of us here from the time Madhav became papa to only his beti!! That he's not even fulfilling that role in all honesty.. it's great that he's giving her emotional support, but he's also risking playing with her emotions by a) not respecting her decision b) not being honest about the DP which could impact her decision c) not giving her any guidance on how to keep Armaan/KP and the whole relationship thing at bay and d) just not telling her upfront that he still harbours the thought of wanting Armaan and her together and hence he would like for her to have just one proper conversation with Armaan and if after that too she feels like she's out, then so be it!!

Kuch tho karo! Atleast tell her to not get bogged down by KP.. But na.. we'd rather discuss what to eat for each meal and forget about any of the relevant things!! Why doesn't he tells Armaan one right thing? About how he screwed up with the whole Ruhi truth and he must make up for it by showing Abhira he can be trusted.. where does Poddar tag in between all of this

And I'm still wondering how what Madhav us doing is any different? Sure she doesn't have to live a life with the man so his secrets won't hurt her like Armaan's did, but at the end of the day, he's misusing her trust for his own reasons and once she finds that out, it's going to upset her anyway! And if this whole Beti Andolan was started to keep her from further hurt, he's kinda defeating the point by not doing one thing right, right?

Ditto ! His actions would make sense if abhira was trying to fit into poddar house & he served as a medium to make her see the family dynamics..this was possible without the emo blackmail that I won't return without my beti..first he needs to reveal the divorce truth , then make both of them sit & ask them to take their time as divorce is not yet finalized but it can be , if they want ..give them a chance at their marriage , give a chance to arman to show he can be trusted ..let the couple sort out their issues ..

As an elder he can do this sitting in ph also..but now they've given abhira an excuse to live in poddar out house & make her a part of their everyday drama n madhav is just fine with that. Yahan par ladai jhagde hote hain..arre bhai hote hai so what ? This is the place where you want abhira to end up , eventually...

but since he has zero authority in ph , n for that , he himself is to be blamed , he's taking the easy way out...n he is expecting arman to be the kranti kaari of ph when he cud never be....will he invite vidya & Arman to the out house permanently? Toh let abhira Arman move out of ph , saara issue hi khatam ho jayega.

He is someone who knows the complete truth, he also wants abhira Arman to be together ..he can NOT side with one person here ..ye vidya ke saath poora nautanki kar raha hai jaan ke

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

@ bold how is he supposed to do this if she won’t talk to him, forget let him into her life ?

Isiliye tho they need a conversation!! silence and worse, assumption cannot do anyone any good!! Hell lifelong married couples cannot sometimes figure out what the other wants.. because it's so variable.. what one wants can change with time, with thought and just because!!! And Madhav knows that too cos he's lived an entire lifetime without telling his wife what he wants.. which is for her to pick his side over his mother's! Tho kam se kam learn from Ur mistakes and tell Ur daughter to just have a talk.. or ask Ur son to force a talk with Abhira.. or just agitate her so she'll scream what's in her mind.. but he's choosing to give bakwaas gyaan instead