•°*”˜𝓙𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓪𝓴 Written Update And Episode Discussion Thread 45•°*” - Page 59

Originally posted by: zuzu2616

Why Maya ji

She just recovered 4 days ago

You want Sir ji to take off his mask and go to feed her dhavaai and khichdi again?🤣🤣🤣🤣

And puppy eyes will shed another 2 drops of tear😢😢😢

Atleast then something will progress ...

Someone might feel something is a miss

Episode up guys

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

A big hug

You know.... death is sad... I don't even know your friend, yet I feel sad....I can't even imagine what you must be going through...

You know... though not clinically diagnosed depression or anxiety but I also had few unfortunate events in my past... which gives me nightmares till day..so I can understand when you said some wounds does not heal.....

The mother-child relationship is the most profound relationship of all, a powerful bond that stays with and comforts us.I can't even imagine what my mother is for me....She's the one who taught me to face all my fears. She's the one who made me believe in my decisions.When I am confused, hurt, betrayed, lost or sad, she gives hope to me and shows me some light. Talking with her takes away my worries. She is my guiding light who can always lighten up my darkened world within a few moments. She has a solution to all of my problems. The bond I shared with my mother ...has played a huge part in making me the person I am...

But did Jhanak ever had that??? Her mother had a hard life full of humiliation...and Jhanak must have felt guilty while growing up...then her mother probably unknowingly but dumped her own trauma on her. She was not the wind beneath her wings...she never encouraged her to pursue her passion for dance...she didn't hesitate to beat her grown up daughter with a stick in front of unknown people...I can see this lack of self-esteem in her stemming probably during her childhood only ..In the end her mother left her leaving her with a lot of unanswered questions..I am not judging her in any way...but it must have made her situation worse...

Anirudha is probably the first person who told her how amazing she is...How beautiful her art is...Yet..she is not being able to believe that, that low is her self-esteem....and all the humiliation she has been through in BH has not helped her case either..

So she is also giving up on someone who is in a way the wind beneath her wings...

Now I just want her to let go of this insecurities gradually... realise her potential..now she even has a motivation in the form of fulfilling her sirji ' s dream..only sky should be the limit for her...

All the more reason that she shud not push away Aniruddha for her mother's unfortunate legacy. Someone shud guide her like u just described! The only one who can even now do it is Ani himself! For that he has to shed his own mask that he has worn to make J jealous and make her realise what she is about to loose! They are kind of mutually exclusive currently looks like!!

Wow, so talented❤️❤️

Aur ek main hu, Pictionary mein ek safety pin🧷 sahi se na draw ho paya mujhse!
People plead guilty, I pleaded that I be made “dudu bhaatu”!

And the irony, mere hi ghar mein, mere hi kharide huye pictionary was doing this beizzati of me- with that, I understand J better

Originally posted by: samarp2

Eyes in sketch

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C8rOL9MuA88/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Originally posted by: 1PariGupta

Episode up guys

Waste episode, nothing thats not in bts....except Ani ordering Jhanak to khatirdari karofy of his Princess & his In Laws.....

Precap - J signed papers bt her line was good

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

A big hug

You know.... death is sad... I don't even know your friend, yet I feel sad....I can't even imagine what you must be going through...

You know... though not clinically diagnosed depression or anxiety but I also had few unfortunate events in my past... which gives me nightmares till day..so I can understand when you said some wounds does not heal.....

The mother-child relationship is the most profound relationship of all, a powerful bond that stays with and comforts us.I can't even imagine what my mother is for me....She's the one who taught me to face all my fears. She's the one who made me believe in my decisions.When I am confused, hurt, betrayed, lost or sad, she gives hope to me and shows me some light. Talking with her takes away my worries. She is my guiding light who can always lighten up my darkened world within a few moments. She has a solution to all of my problems. The bond I shared with my mother ...has played a huge part in making me the person I am...

But did Jhanak ever had that??? Her mother had a hard life full of humiliation...and Jhanak must have felt guilty while growing up...then her mother probably unknowingly but dumped her own trauma on her. She was not the wind beneath her wings...she never encouraged her to pursue her passion for dance...she didn't hesitate to beat her grown up daughter with a stick in front of unknown people...I can see this lack of self-esteem in her stemming probably during her childhood only ..In the end her mother left her leaving her with a lot of unanswered questions..I am not judging her in any way...but it must have made her situation worse...

Anirudha is probably the first person who told her how amazing she is...How beautiful her art is...Yet..she is not being able to believe that, that low is her self-esteem....and all the humiliation she has been through in BH has not helped her case either..

So she is also giving up on someone who is in a way the wind beneath her wings...

Now I just want her to let go of this insecurities gradually... realise her potential..now she even has a motivation in the form of fulfilling her sirji ' s dream..only sky should be the limit for her...

I haven’t watched the old episodes that attentively, but looking at pieces here and there I understand that even Jhanak didn’t have a childhood she deserved. Through her mother’s entire life she has seen her torn and going through unimaginable insults on her character, being called names, worked hard to get butter and bread on the table. I am sure Jhanak’s lack of confidence in love has to do with how she never experienced or witnessed any love between her own parents. She hasn’t even known anything about her dad.


You know in numerous clinical studies it’s been proven how parents bond can influence a child’s development and personality as they grow up. The first people that a child idealized are his/her parents. Unfortunately, Jhanak was not lucky enough to witness any of that. Instead, she has seen how her mother has craved for husband’s love all her life. Urvashi actually demotivated her for many things even though Jhanak had talent. So yes it’s actually can put a greater impact on a child. In Jhanak’s case, it’s the same situation. Poor girl! 😭

@bold: I thought I was reading my own bonding with my mom.🥹 It’s similar to yours. Since I don’t have a sister of my own, my mom has been a friend to me, my sister, my guide!

After so much insult he expects that she should not sign annulment papers. This is too much. He can play jealousy game but insulting her in front of everyone is not Ani type traits. What he will achieve after doing all these stunts. He is on insulting spree. After signing of papers, he will be a lion who just want to attack her. He on;y got her in the name of fever and now he is insulting her. How much they will butcher him.

Originally posted by: Anusha16

Yes. It's quite hard to explain unless I am in that state actually right now. Maybe normal depression can be handled as how you said (Bold), but sometimes you experience this vast sense of emptiness that just leaves a void in you. Things that you love, new things you try... none help. That is what clinical depression is. Sometimes, your mind is attracted to the same things you experience (red) as a way of reaffirmation. It's kind of difficult to explain.

Green- I get it. I really do. You remind me of the notion I have heard from Telugu people (my colleagues) that they don't even like sad endings because it is too realistic, and entertainment isn't meant to be that way. But the way they showed unaliving attempts in this show is not how I would want them to show anything mental health related at all. If you show something have the spine to show it correctly. It isn't always possible to have lighthearted scenes all the time if you want relatability. Human lives have both sad and happy moments, and they should show them both.

If it is expected that characters behave realistically, then isn't it also within expectations that they break down and show depression as a real person would?

Bold- Telugu please let me know if this is true or not. I only repeated what my colleagues said lol.

Oh very True when applied to my Hubby. He doesn't watch any movies with sad endings cz Life is Enough of a struggle as it is So when u watch a remake of a tamil movie, ending sometimes is changed for Telugu audience.

I watch a mix of everything but sad is something I cnt deal with watching twice.....I cry even for animation movies...so

Good Lord! Koi inhe satt budhhi do

Originally posted by: shanakanj

After so much insult he expects that she should not sign annulment papers. This is too much. He can play jealousy game but insulting her in front of everyone is not Ani type traits. What he will achieve after doing all these stunts. He is on insulting spree. After signing of papers, he will be a lion who just want to attack her. He on;y got her in the name of fever and now he is insulting her. How much they will butcher him.

Originally posted by: shanakanj

After so much insult he expects that she should not sign annulment papers. This is too much. He can play jealousy game but insulting her in front of everyone is not Ani type traits. What he will achieve after doing all these stunts. He is on insulting spree. After signing of papers, he will be a lion who just want to attack her. He on;y got her in the name of fever and now he is insulting her. How much they will butcher him.

Totally, too immature for his age. I mean even I wdnt trust his words when sick, if they are not uttered when he's well. I mean for what Jhanak has become now, his behavior is just atrocious.

After this rasm, she's gonna leave to Arshi's house right?? Then later I wish she gets her own place.....bhaad mein jaaye baaki sab, I just hope Jhanak sees some light in this sorrow filled life of hers. Damn. She's in CD