Originally posted by: VirenDev
Genuine question :
Who do you side with Rahul or Mauli?
Rahul who only did what was right for him and Mauli without thinking about consequences whatever and thinking about family especially about that family that doesn't give a dime about Mauli anyway and Rauli's relationship.
Mauli who thinks family is everything.She wanted her marriage to have in family's happy presence again mentioning that family who doesn't give a damn about her still she is looking out for that family like they are best family in the world and happily sacrifice her love for them and also happily give them any promises they ask them.Does Mauli's mahaanta in regards to this family has become an obsession for her? Or do you guys think whatever she is doing can be considered righteous in the long run?
Discuss.
Tricky question. Dharmsankat jaisa hai it's not easy to answer.
Rahul is right but only when they don't chose to stay with the family after this much like Manoj. Otherwise they are going to make her life a hell, he can't be with her all the time and mauli is still so innocent amd simple for this family.
Moreover through his silence probably makers suggested that one should remain prepared for such a circumstance, especially the girl, if they chose to elope and marry against the wishes of the family, even if the partner seems to be very trustworthy and madly in love with them. Not everybody is like Rahul and family due to their experience may be able to see what children can't. (Not in this case, but generally)
But by the family I mean those who have given birth or brought up you or at least truly loves or cares about you. Usually I won't recommend going against family ever but in mauli case it's only Manoj who fits in this criteria. It was he alone who adopted, brought up, educated and loved her all her life, so it must be only his say in such a huge decision of her life and so mauli should just care about his opinion and willingness and nobody else while marrying to her love.
I don't support mauli's obsession over family here but considering the fact that they have to live in that house with those people for all their lives, she needs to be in good terms with them.