•°*”˜𝓙𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓪𝓴 Written Update And Episode Discussion Thread 38•°*” - Page 82

Originally posted by: vira76

Going to keep it short... for my POV!

Jhanak-Ani conversation ... was jalebi conversation! Sometimes it's harder to decode what Jhanak wants to say than the toughest programming language in the world! No wonder Anirudh said he was confused! 😂

She displayed some typical wife behavior in the Jalebi convo. Expecting emotional support from Anirudh, but at the same time nakhare, saying she has no feelings for him and does not want to think of him as her husband! The conversation was very hard to interpret even for her, and that is why she asked herself did "sindoor" changed her, why she said what she said, did she took it too far.

The question was apt... what am I now? Married or unmarried? You will be happy with Arshi but what about me?

The wife in her is waking up slowly but she is still not completely honest with herself!

The good thing about this conversation for me was Jhanak finally talking about her marriage with Anirudh! Sharing her load and feelings. I have understood this much, their convo will always be gol-gol, unless they are official lovers!

The wife inside of her worrying for her husband at the end of the day despite all her complaints! Jhanak aap dil le lo!

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Anirudh was taken aback by her disrespect and hearing he ruined her life... something he clearly does not want to do! Poor guy! Besides all that he was doing, the only thing that was missing in their relationship was emotional support to her.

Wife ki dant sun kar, Ani wanted to die! 😂 nautanki!

But this was him feeling hurt thinking Jhanak thinks he ruined her life. It's easier for him to die than to see her unhappy! 🥺 Ani aap dil le lo! He wanted to suffer for making her suffer!

These two and their love sometimes is heartbreaking to witness!

Giving emotional support to each other is another step in their relationship. Do they realize, this will bind them with each other forever? They will depend on each other for their happiness and sorrows? What's left then to become complete husband and wife?

( I know the answer to this question and what you all are thinking.... but hope you get what i meant to say lol)

Now the simplest answer to all her queries is ..... divorce.... the difficult answer is .... marriage!

Let's see what today will bring us!

Do check my opinion regarding Jhanak's baffling behavior.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/topic/5356651?pn=77#165437240

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I tried my best to write from the perspective of a normal person in her shoes.

Thank you for the many different and beautiful takes on the Epi - Maya, Anum, Fero, Vira and the lovely tags forum walo

My take home from the Epi was -

Itni gaaliya khane ke baad bhi , Ani babu said 3 things - Sorry, Padhai karlo and Tumhara Khana order kar diya hai, kha lena - 2 bar - this was the steal of the epi for me ! Idhaar I fell harder for this guy!

Kaun hai yeh banda, nana lemme re-phrase kya hai yeh banda?Pyaar karo toh aise fana hoke karo, warna phir kya khaak pyaar karo

Yeh Amazon/Ebay ki bbas ki baat hai hi nehi Maya, #AlagTujmeAsarKuchhHai !

J ka haal kuchh aisa tha, ki mujhse bina pooche meri shaadi tay kar di se zyada, yeh baat khatki ki , itna easily mujhe kisi aur ke sath , how are you able to let go of me and let me go , so easily?

Gile bhi sare Ani se, aur shikhwe bhi, gussa bhi Ani ke naam aur pyaar bhi - aur hai hi kaun, inn dono ka, ek dusre ke ilawa , tabhi apna ek alag duniya basaya huya hai, jisme ek dusre mein khoye rehte hai bbas !

Emotional Support Ani mein dhoond rahi hai J, hope yeh de paye, emotional wreck hai bechara

Baki J ki Selective Hearing, Selective Self-Repect ke baad ab Selective Righteousness ka daura chala hai - jaha ise jo 'right' hai, woh toh karna hai but Ani Babu se expectation uska ulta hi hai - #MutuallyExclusiveConditionsAniNeedsToAchieve

This is a journey of both Ani and J, where they will discover themselves, eo and their love for eo.

I think the makers could not have done this any time quicker - thoda sa jaldbazi karte toh shayad the #RuNak flavour may have been lost !

They gave the characters enough time to feel and un-feel, which could only have been a gradual process.

I think insecurities and jealousy might take a backseat and give way to a new landmine in RuNak's pathway - GUILT

However, BTS ne phir bhi mood off off sa kar rakha hai, toh I am listening to this song on loop - there's something about this song - it grows on you -

Chhot Dil Pe Lagi

https://youtu.be/MewnKynZyn0?si=HZFYZ7Hh43BEs9Dp

Originally posted by: vira76

Going to keep it short... for my POV!

Jhanak-Ani conversation ... was jalebi conversation! Sometimes it's harder to decode what Jhanak wants to say than the toughest programming language in the world! No wonder Anirudh said he was confused! 😂

She displayed some typical wife behavior in the Jalebi convo. Expecting emotional support from Anirudh, but at the same time nakhare, saying she has no feelings for him and does not want to think of him as her husband! The conversation was very hard to interpret even for her, and that is why she asked herself did "sindoor" changed her, why she said what she said, did she took it too far.

The question was apt... what am I now? Married or unmarried? You will be happy with Arshi but what about me?

The wife in her is waking up slowly but she is still not completely honest with herself!

The good thing about this conversation for me was Jhanak finally talking about her marriage with Anirudh! Sharing her load and feelings. I have understood this much, their convo will always be gol-gol, unless they are official lovers!

The wife inside of her worrying for her husband at the end of the day despite all her complaints! Jhanak aap dil le lo!

..........................................................................................................................................................................

Anirudh was taken aback by her disrespect and hearing he ruined her life... something he clearly does not want to do! Poor guy! Besides all that he was doing, the only thing that was missing in their relationship was emotional support to her.

Wife ki dant sun kar, Ani wanted to die! 😂 nautanki!

But this was him feeling hurt thinking Jhanak thinks he ruined her life. It's easier for him to die than to see her unhappy! 🥺 Ani aap dil le lo! He wanted to suffer for making her suffer!

These two and their love sometimes is heartbreaking to witness!

Giving emotional support to each other is another step in their relationship. Do they realize, this will bind them with each other forever? They will depend on each other for their happiness and sorrows? What's left then to become complete husband and wife?

( I know the answer to this question and what you all are thinking.... but hope you get what i meant to say lol)

Now the simplest answer to all her queries is ..... divorce.... the difficult answer is .... marriage!

Let's see what today will bring us!

Lemme translate -

"Will you ever do susu on the bed?

Will you scratch again?

Will you destroy my make up stuff?

Will you damage things?"

Suicide ke reason Ani Cat ke bhi anokhe hi hai, much like it's human counterpart

Originally posted by: Edkv74

https://www.facebook.com/share/v/5LREiDxMAtF5QNae/?mibextid=WC7FNe

Ani cat wishing to be dead 😵

Originally posted by: rysohini

Thank you for the many different and beautiful takes on the Epi - Maya, Anum, Fero, Vira and the lovely tags forum walo

My take home from the Epi was -

Itni gaaliya khane ke baad bhi , Ani babu said 3 things - Sorry, Padhai karlo and Tumhara Khana order kar diya hai, kha lena - 2 bar - this was the steal of the epi for me ! Idhaar I fell harder for this guy!

Kaun hai yeh banda, nana lemme re-phrase kya hai yeh banda?Pyaar karo toh aise fana hoke karo, warna phir kya khaak pyaar karo

Yeh Amazon/Ebay ki bbas ki baat hai hi nehi Maya, #AlagTujmeAsarKuchhHai !

J ka haal kuchh aisa tha, ki mujhse bina pooche meri shaadi tay kar di se zyada, yeh baat khatki ki , itna easily mujhe kisi aur ke sath , how are you able to let go of me and let me go , so easily?

Gile bhi sare Ani se, aur shikhwe bhi, gussa bhi Ani ke naam aur pyaar bhi - aur hai hi kaun, inn dono ka, ek dusre ke ilawa , tabhi apna ek alag duniya basaya huya hai, jisme ek dusre mein khoye rehte hai bbas !

Emotional Support Ani mein dhoond rahi hai J, hope yeh de paye, emotional wreck hai bechara

Baki J ki Selective Hearing, Selective Self-Repect ke baad ab Selective Righteousness ka daura chala hai - jaha ise jo 'right' hai, woh toh karna hai but Ani Babu se expectation uska ulta hi hai - #MutuallyExclusiveConditionsAniNeedsToAchieve

This is a journey of both Ani and J, where they will discover themselves, eo and their love for eo.

I think the makers could not have done this any time quicker - thoda sa jaldbazi karte toh shayad the #RuNak flavour may have been lost !

They gave the characters enough time to feel and un-feel, which could only have been a gradual process.

I think insecurities and jealousy might take a backseat and give way to a new landmine in RuNak's pathway - GUILT

However, BTS ne phir bhi mood off off sa kar rakha hai, toh I am listening to this song on loop - there's something about this song - it grows on you -

Chhot Dil Pe Lagi

https://youtu.be/MewnKynZyn0?si=HZFYZ7Hh43BEs9Dp

@Green: Interestingly, I see guilt flavor coming. Something unusual to tie them together forever.

The haq was there, but the same haq will be more visible now. Pandit’s intervention truly helped them learn to communicate on the fragile topic that they have been avoiding this far. It finally opened up and gave them space to discourse further if they need to.

And you are right… the feel has to come on board gradually to be more impactful. That’s why we feel such high end emotions and find loss of words to express them. I am only afraid of the fact whether Anirudh is going to take Jhanak back as a wife or not. I was impressed when she raised the question to him “main apke saath kese reh sakti hon”. I want Ani to think about it for a second and stop whining

Looks like episode will not be on HULU again. Can anyone let me know when it’s up on Hotstar?

Bold - Me too Anum, I am pining my hopes on Ani ! Ki iss bar yeh banda sahi raah chhunega !

Let the makers not butcher his character please ! They must not dilute how they have built Ani in the RuNak equation pretty please

Plus us viewers are running out of excuses and justifications to bail him out no

Originally posted by: Manoshono

Sohini🤗

@Green: Interestingly, I see guilt flavor coming. Something unusual to tie them together forever.

The haq was there, but the same haq will be more visible now. Pandit’s intervention truly helped them learn to communicate on the fragile topic that they have been avoiding this far. It finally opened up and gave them space to discourse further if they need to.

And you are right… the feel has to come on board gradually to be more impactful. That’s why we feel such high end emotions and find loss of words to express them. I am only afraid of the fact whether Anirudh is going to take Jhanak back as a wife or not. I was impressed when she raised the question to him “main apke saath kese reh sakti hon”. I want Ani to think about it for a second and stop whining

Originally posted by: rysohini

Bold - Me too Anum, I am pining my hopes on Ani ! Ki iss bar yeh banda sahi raah chhunega !

Let the makers not butcher his character please ! They must not dilute how they have built Ani in the RuNak equation pretty please

Plus us viewers are running out of excuses and justifications to bail him out no

I am not going to leave him this time if he dares to take a stupid route.. I am not even going to bother defending him 😭

Originally posted by: Manoshono

Sohini🤗

@Green: Interestingly, I see guilt flavor coming. Something unusual to tie them together forever.

The haq was there, but the same haq will be more visible now. Pandit’s intervention truly helped them learn to communicate on the fragile topic that they have been avoiding this far. It finally opened up and gave them space to discourse further if they need to.

And you are right… the feel has to come on board gradually to be more impactful. That’s why we feel such high end emotions and find loss of words to express them. I am only afraid of the fact whether Anirudh is going to take Jhanak back as a wife or not. I was impressed when she raised the question to him “main apke saath kese reh sakti hon”. I want Ani to think about it for a second and stop whining

Logically speaking, there's no actual guilt involved in this situation. The only guilt I can feel here is that Ani is doing all this while giving false hope to Arshi otherwise, she's just Jhanak's second cousin.

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Arshi and Ani aren't even legally engaged, whereas Raunak are married and in love too.

It's just a foolish commitment still continuing due to family pressure. Nothing else out of the ordinary!

It is Ani's unwanted actions created this unfortunate mess that keeps tangling their lives.

In the episode up girls?

Originally posted by: Goddy2010

In the episode up girls?

Not sure