Benefit of Doubt - Page 3

Originally posted by: rysohini

Because we are not all white or black, just different shades of grey!!!

While how our favorite characters are behaving atm, is just the maker's ploy to drag #MissionKashmir to perhaps not one but two wedding venues, coz weddings specially the 'not to be' ones fetch TRPs, this is just my 2 cents (oops ended up being a #LongPost) with my tryst of trumping Shubho as a #Lawyer

We have all spoken about this a few times, so even at the risk of sounding repetitive, I will still say it - coz it's my way or highway

1. Why does Mr.Anirudh Bose not proclaim his 'love' to Jhanak?

Ans : Ani is simply adhering to the Concept of 'Consent' , a concept extremely relevant in today's world, at times a little blurry as well and definitely alien to the likes of Tejas !

[So all the mindgames that Tejas played on J to gaslight her against Ani, was because Tejas knows only one language - that of BruteForce - chheen lo !]

Ani was not afraid of getting snubbed. He has laid his heart bare a few times now. And J has thukrao'ed him every single time.

Does it sound right, if he said to J 'I know you think this shaadi is fake, but because I take this shaadi to be real, yeh raha rights, lo aur chup chap mere sath BH mein reh lo' - Brute Force. Period.

Me think not ! Of all the flaws Ani has, his ignorance to read J's love for him would have to top the list ! Jis din he gets to know J loves him, usdin 'bhuchaal' layega, bina jane kafi laya hai already

[We will conveniently pretend to keep the hut fiasco aside, coz kabhi kabhi Ani babu ka dil hai ke maanta nehi so he phislo'ed and it provided us with a few drops of much needed rain in an otherwise banjar zameen]

2. Why does Mr.Anirudh Bose want J to marry Rahul?

Ans :Despite how much he loves her, Ani let J go, because he failed miserably to provide her with the 'safe haven', that he had thought he would be able to, in BH.He knew she was miserable in BH. He let her go because she had repeatedly insisted on wanting to leave BH(and him!) and live in Kashmir- so that she can find the life of her dreams with the love of her life - Rahul ! And live a respectable life with Rahul minus all beizzatis!

And while we think Ani is weak, it takes immense strength to be this selfless in love - "If you love some one, set her free, if she comes back, she is yours, if she does not, she never was!"

To step aside gracefully because J doesn't love him, to honestly let Rahul know and re-assure Rahul of J's love (coz Ani is the only one privy to the fact that Rahul loves J and J loves Rahul), to urge Rahul to take her responsibility and keep her safe (by staying in Kolkata), with the hope that Rahul will be that 'shield' of J, that he can never become - simply coz J will never let him be the one!

The shield Ani became, the moment he learnt that Tejas is forcing J to marry is the same shield that Ani would have been against the whole world , guarding her frail body behind his indomitable self , had J let him be !

Ani is a 'protector', a 'mentor'/ 'enabler' and a 'lover' - strictly in that order ! So he will do what it will take , to keep J 'safe' ; to be the wind beneath her wings and enable her to be independent and let her run the show, instead of spoonfeeding her; and love her hudd paar and go to any lengths for her despite his being an unrequitted, one-sided love !

Finally, the surprise gift- "main tumhare liye jo sochunga, woh acha hi sochunga" , the question of asking J whether she wants this does not arise -he has no doubts that this will make J happy - he already knows 'J's happiness' lies in Rahul, so 'main tumhare khushi mein khush ho jayunga' while his heart shatters in to a thousand smithereens

3.Why does Mr.Anirudh Bose not proclaim his 'love' for Jhanak to the world?

Ans : This is a battle that he will never fight simply coz there is no battle here! There is no love from J's side, so what exactly would he be fighting for? What would 'proclaiming' his love for her achieve?

#ResultsDriven. Just more insults from the evil clan ! J being called 'characterless' ! That is not a slander he wants to bring upon J and her mom - his one-sided love is not that selfish ! It would only bring badnaami and beizzati for J. Not to forget , it might put J at risk, thanks to Shrishti and her cheap thrills ! And J considers his love to be ethically and morally incorrect, according to J his love is rightfully Arshi didi's !

He wants to be the 'one' but he knows that he is not the 'one' in J's eyes ! - Some one teach him to read eyes yaar!

4. Why should J break the Anishi Wedding?

Ans : Ani is stuck in the daldal of an age-old commitment ! Specially with the families involved and how they 'adore' Arshi, he has not found a way to safely call it quits, with out jeopardising J's character and life ! The otherwise smart, level headed, calculative Sambhal lunga Bose, bbas yeh na sambhal paye !

Would we not allow Ani to be vulnerable and weak sometimes? He is a human after all and has his fair share of flaws !

But he is going through a lot and breaking inside everyday ! Worst still he can't show his wounds to any one, must guard it with the garb of playing along and pretending to be happy

He at times has to give in to the whims and fancies of the evil clan , because of the wrong foot he finds himself in, thanks to the lying !

He is an otherwise courageous hooman, with beintehaa ek tarfa mohabbat for a girl whom he can never claim as his own!

As Ani feels stuck, his better half needs to be a human shield and pull him out of this loveless alliance ! J is about to lose the only reason and the only person, she had want to live for.

She is about to lose her 'everything' coz in this big bad world, Ani is the only only one she has ! While J means the world to Ani, Ani is J's world !

This surely is reason enough for her to stand up and fight for the marriage she holds so true to her heart? Come on J, our titular character, Ani deserves every bit of this from you!

In Epi 100 (Saraswati Puja) J says I saved Sirji's life coz I am grateful to him for mine , in Epi 200 J says the same - any guesses ladies for Epi 300?

A relationship is at best a saajedaari, a partnership where it is not always a 50-50. Sometimes a 80-20 , other times a 40-60 ! You gir, I pakad ; I fall, you hold ! So J needs to pull him out of this , this one time and 'protect' him. Unlike Ani, who is a headless chicken, J is well aware that she loves Ani and Ani loves her !

Plus all the foreshadowing about J can call this wedding legal and claim her rights - these dialogues came time and again from J during Ashirwad and once to Ani, Ani to the full clan, Shristi to Arshi, J to Arshi !

5. Why does Anirudh not stop Anishi wedding?

Ans : At this point, he hardly cares about himself. He knows this wedding will kill him tinka tinka, but him letting it happen, would maintain the status quo and not bring any 'bhuchaal' in J's life. Plus apart from the happiness it will bring to his family, he will keep a word he has given and not tarnish the family name. Also, it will stop Shrishti from stooping any lower and harming him or J ! He knows Mukherjees and Basu s together are a formidable force to reckon with, so why risk J for his ek tarfa pyar?

His love understandably comes with a lot of insecurities and we will see bare sare galtiyaan , just have to wait patiently for the cloud to pass

For a long long time now, everything that Ani does is either for J or because of J [an example is he frantically tries to hide the suicide note of Arshi, to placate J but understands fully what Shristi or Arshi is capable of doing to J, if they find a good reason to - Ani will not give them any good reason to harm J]

Lastly, #RuNak tabhi mukammal honge, jab yeh dono yeh chahenge ! They would both have to 'choose' eo, above everything everything else !

We need a lot of self-love, where they choose their own happiness and the happiness for eo, over the rest of the world.

It is not so much of a crime to be a little selfish in love, sometimes it is needed and so worth it. This is a battle they have to fight for their own selves and for eo

#KnowYouOnlyLoveHerWhenYouLetHerGo

Shayad kabhi na keh saku main tumko, kahe bina samajhlo tum shayad - Jo tum na ho, rahenge hum nehi ! Na chahiye kuchh tumse zyada, tumse kum nehi

The answer for your first and second questions contradict each other.

As for question 3,4,5 I will reserve judgment since I need to see more of the Ani from today's episode to conclude any thoughts.

To think that we are trying to so hard to like these characters and writers are probably not even putting that much thought to connect the dots... It's just infuriating!

They give the character an amazing love realization but then take it away the next moment

They show him caring, loving, and attracted to someone and then the next moment they just take it away with him blushing, smiling, and hugging a stonehead! 🙄

Originally posted by: vira76

I was going to respond to this before I watched BTS yesterday... but after watching the BTS I became more sure of my beliefs.

Only two things I want to say...

- Ani's plan to get Jhanak and Rahul married.... does not make sense to me. He always dreamed for her to be an independent woman after she completes her degree and not for her to marry someone. He could have motivated Rahul to express his love, so Jhanak finds a true companion but marriage is taking too far. I don't think he has the right to make any such decisions. To me, trying to get Rahul and Jhanak married is more of a closure for him rather than a good deed for Jhanak.

- Why Ani is marrying Arshi... I do not think this is to protect Jhanak in any way. I never thought it was. Since when the evil gang started needing reasons to hurt Jhanak? Jhanak is doomed whether Ani marries Arshi or not. If Ani tries to even contact her after Arshi and Ani are married, they will try to hurt her in any way possible. Actually, after the marriage Arshi will have an official reason to hurt her and Ani will be more helpless than before. You can say whatever you want to a GF, to a fiance but not so easily to a wife. They have also mentioned this in recent dialogues between Bipasha and Arshi. So to me, if Ani really wants to help Jhanak, marrying Arshi does not make sense. It's also morally wrong to Arshi, but I hate her so much that I simply don't care about that aspect anymore.

Before the BTS I always thought, Ani was marrying Arshi simply because he thought he needed to, he is committed to her, his family is involved and it's too late to back off. He is in auto-pilot mode right now, living his life like a robot, doing what's asked of him. After the BTS, my thoughts have not changed. After hearing the "I love Arshi and I can't betray her" I am even more sure of it. He is simply not breaking up because he made a commitment. He said he values his marriage with Jhanak, that day means something to him, then marriage is also a commitment. So currently, his commitment to Arshis is still more important than his marriage commitment to Jhanak.

So his decision to stick with this marriage, I don't think I can ever accept that. If he really wants to protect Jhanak and stay in her life in any capacity, if she means that much to her, he needs to break up with Arshi. If Jhanak gives a green signal for their marriage, then only he will break up with Arshi... such a condition does not make him look good.

Nice analysis .

Agree , but few things I dont agree..

I dont know if you have read what I wrote yesterday to some of your thoughts here .Few are same . Had tagged you .But dont know where to search for it now !!!!🤗🤗

So not repeating it and I am in no mood to write anything today after seeing a happy Anirudh getting ready to marry the girl who has harmed an innocent girl many times and he being aware of it.

same here.. prob the last long post for today! 😓 samaz aa chod diya hai.. i am just going to wait on the sidelines and watch where they intend to take this!

Originally posted by: MayaFruitbae

Nice analysis .

Agree , but few things I dont agree..

I dont know if you have read what I wrote yesterday to some of your thoughts here .Few are same . Had tagged you .But dont know where to search for it now !!!!🤗🤗

So not repeating it and I am in no mood to write anything today after seeing a happy Anirudh getting ready to marry the girl who has harmed an innocent girl many times and he being aware of it.

Originally posted by: vira76

I was going to respond to this before I watched BTS yesterday... but after watching the BTS I became more sure of my beliefs.

Only two things I want to say...

- Ani's plan to get Jhanak and Rahul married.... does not make sense to me. He always dreamed for her to be an independent woman after she completes her degree and not for her to marry someone. He could have motivated Rahul to express his love, so Jhanak finds a true companion but marriage is taking too far. I don't think he has the right to make any such decisions. To me, trying to get Rahul and Jhanak married is more of a closure for him rather than a good deed for Jhanak.

- Why Ani is marrying Arshi... I do not think this is to protect Jhanak in any way. I never thought it was. Since when the evil gang started needing reasons to hurt Jhanak? Jhanak is doomed whether Ani marries Arshi or not. If Ani tries to even contact her after Arshi and Ani are married, they will try to hurt her in any way possible. Actually, after the marriage Arshi will have an official reason to hurt her and Ani will be more helpless than before. You can say whatever you want to a GF, to a fiance but not so easily to a wife. They have also mentioned this in recent dialogues between Bipasha and Arshi. So to me, if Ani really wants to help Jhanak, marrying Arshi does not make sense. It's also morally wrong to Arshi, but I hate her so much that I simply don't care about that aspect anymore.

Before the BTS I always thought, Ani was marrying Arshi simply because he thought he needed to, he is committed to her, his family is involved and it's too late to back off. He is in auto-pilot mode right now, living his life like a robot, doing what's asked of him. After the BTS, my thoughts have not changed. After hearing the "I love Arshi and I can't betray her" I am even more sure of it. He is simply not breaking up because he made a commitment. He said he values his marriage with Jhanak, that day means something to him, then marriage is also a commitment. So currently, his commitment to Arshis is still more important than his marriage commitment to Jhanak.

So his decision to stick with this marriage, I don't think I can ever accept that. If he really wants to protect Jhanak and stay in her life in any capacity, if she means that much to her, he needs to break up with Arshi. If Jhanak gives a green signal for their marriage, then only he will break up with Arshi... such a condition does not make him look good.

I will then be least interested in any of Ani’s track, even if they show his deep love and care for J. Meaningless it will be for me.

I will then watch only for J. Anyways, I am least interested in any bit of Arshi’s track. I’d story will watch only that.

Let him have SR with Arshi.. who cares

Originally posted by: tellyme

you know if he marries Arshi, I will never want him back in Jhanak’s. I don’t ship for that kind of uncertain love.

I will then be least interested in any of Ani’s track, even if they show his deep love and care for J. Meaningless it will be for me.

I will then watch only for J. Anyways, I am least interested in any bit of Arshi’s track. I’d story will watch only that.

Let him have SR with Arshi.. who cares

If only hadn't said I LOVE YOU to Arshi and praised her beauty.

None of this would have happened.

they are not done with this ani-arshi marriage track. it's going to continue in Kolkata. and that is the most frustrating part for me. What was the point of this Kashmir track if this is what they wanted to show...

Yeh for me as well Ani - arshi marriage is that is the end of the show!

Originally posted by: tellyme

you know if he marries Arshi, I will never want him back in Jhanak’s. I don’t ship for that kind of uncertain love.

I will then be least interested in any of Ani’s track, even if they show his deep love and care for J. Meaningless it will be for me.

I will then watch only for J. Anyways, I am least interested in any bit of Arshi’s track. I’d story will watch only that.

Let him have SR with Arshi.. who cares

Originally posted by: vira76

I was going to respond to this before I watched BTS yesterday... but after watching the BTS I became more sure of my beliefs.

Only two things I want to say...

- Ani's plan to get Jhanak and Rahul married.... does not make sense to me. He always dreamed for her to be an independent woman after she completes her degree and not for her to marry someone. He could have motivated Rahul to express his love, so Jhanak finds a true companion but marriage is taking too far. I don't think he has the right to make any such decisions. To me, trying to get Rahul and Jhanak married is more of a closure for him rather than a good deed for Jhanak.

- Why Ani is marrying Arshi... I do not think this is to protect Jhanak in any way. I never thought it was. Since when the evil gang started needing reasons to hurt Jhanak? Jhanak is doomed whether Ani marries Arshi or not. If Ani tries to even contact her after Arshi and Ani are married, they will try to hurt her in any way possible. Actually, after the marriage Arshi will have an official reason to hurt her and Ani will be more helpless than before. You can say whatever you want to a GF, to a fiance but not so easily to a wife. They have also mentioned the recent dialogues between Bipasha and Arshi. So to me, if Ani really wants to help Jhanak, marrying Arshi does not make sense. It's also morally wrong to Arshi, but I hate her so much that I simply don't care about that aspect anymore.

Before the BTS I always thought, Ani was marrying Arshi simply because he thought he needed to, he is committed to her, his family is involved and it's too late to back off. He is in auto-pilot mode right now, living his life like a robot, doing what's asked of him. After the BTS, my thoughts have not changed. After hearing the "I love Arshi and I can't betray her" I am even more sure of it. He is simply not breaking up because he made a commitment. He said he values his marriage with Jhanak, that day means something to him, then marriage is also a commitment. So currently, his commitment to Arshis is still more important than his marriage commitment to Jhanak.

So his decision to stick with this marriage, I don't think I can ever accept that. If he really wants to protect Jhanak and stay in her life in any capacity, if she means that much to her, he needs to break up with Arshi. If Jhanak gives a green signal for their marriage, then only he will break up with Arshi... such a condition does not make him look good.

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Originally posted by: tellyme

you know if he marries Arshi, I will never want him back in Jhanak’s. I don’t ship for that kind of uncertain love.

I will then be least interested in any of Ani’s track, even if they show his deep love and care for J. Meaningless it will be for me.

I will then watch only for J. Anyways, I am least interested in any bit of Arshi’s track. I’d story will watch only that.

Let him have SR with Arshi.. who cares

Me too..

I hate this eternal love concept of ITV.

Marry one but loves only the other girl !!!!

Then why cant thye remain single ...

I dont have that broad mind too.

If they show Arshi marriage happens I will stop watching , I dont want to see Jhanak career alone ...and story will be same ...he helps her ,evil gang insult taunts ..

I am not at all intersted in it.

Again a marriage drama I cant take ..

Originally posted by: vira76

they are not done with this ani-arshi marriage track. it's going to continue in Kolkata. and that is the most frustrating part for me. What was the point of this Kashmir track if this is what they wanted to show...

Yeh for me as well Ani - arshi marriage is that is the end of the show!

Really , more shadi track in Kolkata ...

For what 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

This is all mess yaar .

Then why couldn't they show an exam track and kidnap alone in Kashmir .

God , these makers are mad !!!

Hate this shadi shadi...

Aren't they bored of writing an shooting this shadi...