Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 29th May 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 25

Originally posted by: Nephy1

Oh God!

She really danced...

Oh God!No majboori could be bigger than modesty..

How could wearing revealing clothes and dancing for.lewd men who are drinking is respectful...

She shouldn't have done that....

I'm not really sure about that. Ask people who go hungry for days. No modesty is bigger than survival. A 22 yr old orphan is being attacked from all sides with a vendetta by bloody egoistic oldies. She cannot get a job thanks to a psychotic man with a vengeance against her and hence cannot even afford decent housing. Now if she lets go of this job, then what? Starve herself to death?

Originally posted by: janecastle

I'm not really sure about that. Ask people who go hungry for days. No modesty is bigger than survival. A 22 yr old orphan is being attacked from all sides with a vendetta by bloody egoistic oldies. She cannot get a job thanks to a psychotic man with a vengeance against her and hence cannot even afford decent housing. Now if she lets go of this job, then what? Starve herself to death?

Oh yes...

But still...

I would prefer less torture on FLs in name of majboori...

Girls do struggle in life normally also...

It doesn't suit me to show a FL so majboor that she had to resort to such levels..

People do indulge in s*x works out of majboori and deserve good life but seriously its not very entertaining to watch to throw FL to such levels of dncing at such an event with such a crowd

To project her resorting to dance in such manners for survival..

At office and normal work also she can be put into many problems..

I don't want a narrative setting ML at higher footing showing that even after FL was doing such things his love was so strong that DESPITE ALL this he accepted her...

Earlier Abhira was a lovely girl to be with...

It was not some kind of ehsaan to have her in life for any guy..

But resorting to such levels would definetely putting her in situation of more power imbalance with a mark amd ML as some farishta who after all this deserted his soulamte at altar and accepted a girl with such history..

How much bad you feel but obviously thats what it would project and I don't want FLs as liabilities...she was already shown very majboor...there was absolutely no need to do this...I AM NOT OKAY WITH THIS..

For me Abhira is a character not a person..and making that character so majboor is NOT DONE....

Its too much to handle on my part..

I accept I am at wrong place in itv but never thought they would wedge the gap so deep in coming epusodes...my mistake...

Originally posted by: janecastle

I'm not really sure about that. Ask people who go hungry for days. No modesty is bigger than survival. A 22 yr old orphan is being attacked from all sides with a vendetta by bloody egoistic oldies. She cannot get a job thanks to a psychotic man with a vengeance against her and hence cannot even afford decent housing. Now if she lets go of this job, then what? Starve herself to death?

Hunger can make anybody do anything.

If anyone has seen Ek Hasina Thi on this channel, Sakshi Goenka, when she was an orphan and her life was ruined in riots, she snatched a bun from a dog's mouth to satisfy her hunger, which shaped her psyche in the future. She would cross all limits to gain what she wants.

She was a kid. And this Abhira has always had the safety of her mom first, and then Armaan.

Beggars can't be choosers, wala situation hai, but the depiction is very problematic and horrible.

Can someone tell me whats going on at x?? How are the fandoms over there reacting on these freshly released bts???

Originally posted by: libran90

Hunger can make anybody do anything.

If anyone has seen Ek Hasina Thi on this channel, Sakshi Goenka, when she was an orphan and her life was ruined in riots, she snatched a bun from a dog's mouth to satisfy her hunger, which shaped her psyche in the future. She would cross all limits to gain what she wants.

She was a kid. And this Abhira has always had the safety of her mom first, and then Armaan.

Beggars can't be choosers, wala situation hai, but the depiction is very problematic and horrible.

Exactly👍

Originally posted by: Nephy1

Oh yes...

But still...

I would prefer less torture on FLs in name of majboori...

Girls do struggle in life normally also...

It doesn't suit me to show a FL so majboor that she had to resort to such levels..

People do indulge in s*x works out of majboori and deserve good life but seriously its not very entertaining to watch to throw FL to such levels of dncing at such an event with such a crowd

To project her resorting to dance in such manners for survival..

At office and normal work also she can be put into many problems..

I don't want a narrative setting ML at higher footing showing that even after FL was doing such things his love was so strong that DESPITE ALL this he accepted her...

Earlier Abhira was a lovely girl to be with...

It was not some kind of ehsaan to have her in life for any guy..

But resorting to such levels would definetely putting her in situation of more power imbalance with a mark amd ML as some farishta who after all this deserted his soulamte at altar and accepted a girl with such history..

How much bad you feel but obviously thats what it would project and I don't want FLs as liabilities...she was already shown very majboor...there was absolutely no need to do this...I AM NOT OKAY WITH THIS..

For me Abhira is a character not a person..and making that character so majboor is NOT DONE....

Its too much to handle on my part..

I accept I am at wrong place in itv but never thought they would wedge the gap so deep in coming epusodes...my mistake...

I don't have issues with all this. I was just replying to your general statement about "no majboori could be bigger than modesty", which is not true.

Originally posted by: janecastle

I don't have issues with all this. I was just replying to your general statement about "no majboori could be bigger than modesty", which is not true.

Okay...

I was so irritated that time thats why typed without much thought..

But my main issue is what I said now..

They want to show majboor FLs,show na but why they went at such inhuman levels at portrayal..

It is very irritating to watch..

Here with abhira..

There with jhanak vo jab dekho ml ke pairon par girti rehti hai...

Why...

Kaunsi sadi mein hai yeh writers...

Charu said bhayya is waiting for his honewali dulhan.

His dangerous wierd looks to his honewali dulhan as if a goat is infront of a lion . 😂😂😂

What are his expressions ropu is killing blank expressions we can't scratch our heads with his face or eyes.

All blue ilu both are in sky blue . One has itching and irritation. Might be his kujili on whom 😂😂

Abhira held veil of ruhi.

His blank face as usual no response to anyone.

Lyrics of the song from her side love in heart

Bachelor party reference done by abhira she blurted truth that his friends want a party . Ar is against the party from start. He told ruhi he is busy in work when she went to tie a tie in his neck.

He told ruhi you can have a party I am not interested. Abbooo man is giving his happiness and concern there for her without asking. He didn't stop or object anything so going to be a good hubby as per his answers yesterday,🤗😂

Dadi ki jawani shown with her interest in bachelor party. She told ar he should have that party and not remember pehli shadi. 🤗

Dadi choses disco theme for bachelor party. It's shown in kaira s2 time. Let's wait for songs, dances ,hair styles and outfits . ,as there is nothing in story to watch and enjoy . 😂

Originally posted by: Nephy1

Oh yes...

But still...

I would prefer less torture on FLs in name of majboori...

Girls do struggle in life normally also...

It doesn't suit me to show a FL so majboor that she had to resort to such levels..

People do indulge in s*x works out of majboori and deserve good life but seriously its not very entertaining to watch to throw FL to such levels of dncing at such an event with such a crowd

To project her resorting to dance in such manners for survival..

At office and normal work also she can be put into many problems..

I don't want a narrative setting ML at higher footing showing that even after FL was doing such things his love was so strong that DESPITE ALL this he accepted her...

Earlier Abhira was a lovely girl to be with...

It was not some kind of ehsaan to have her in life for any guy..

But resorting to such levels would definetely putting her in situation of more power imbalance with a mark amd ML as some farishta who after all this deserted his soulamte at altar and accepted a girl with such history..

How much bad you feel but obviously thats what it would project and I don't FLs as liabilities...

Its too much to handle on my part..

I accept I am at wrong place in itv but never thought they would wedge the gap so deep in coming epusodes...my mistake...

I agree; the power imbalance is a problem here, and that too with a man like Armaan.

It gives Armaan a chance to have some hold over Abhira and treat her like trash.

I cannot say about other Sitara shows, but this show showed that the power balance was not so vast between ML and FL, as their backgrounds made them at par with each other. Both belonged to influential families.

That is why she needed to know she is a Goenka, too. That diminishes the power gap. The fact that she is not a nobody can change a lot of things for her.

Abhira can be shown as the one who saves the Goenka empire in the end and takes care of it for Manish. I don't expect Rooh-i to do anything.

But here they want to show that when she hits rock bottom, then only she can begin her rise again.

Originally posted by: libran90

I agree; the power imbalance is a problem here, and that too with a man like Armaan.

It gives Armaan a chance to have some hold over Abhira and treat her like trash.

I cannot say about other Sitara shows, but this show showed that the power balance was not so vast between ML and FL, as their backgrounds made them at par with each other. Both belonged to influential families.

That is why she needed to know she is a Goenka, too. That diminishes the power gap. The fact that she is not a nobody can change a lot of things for her.

Abhira can be shown as the one who saves the Goenka empire in the end and takes care of it for Manish. I don't expect Rooh-i to do anything.

But here they want to show that when she hits rock bottom, then only she can begin her rise again.

IDK yaar...

Bas ho gyi meri..

We fought since centuries to enjoy little bit of freedom.we do have today but these shows and these audiemces who watches them just spread water on all that..

Movies like KS,A when do wonders and goes blockbuster in theatres pains me..

Maybe becoz I witness this gender disparity first hand that I am very sensitive regarding it...

Being myself a doctor it pains me when patiemts and their relatives adress me and other Female pgs as sister just becoz we are girls but our male co pgs as sir or doctor saab imfact they do call male.nurse as sir or doct saab...

Its painful that seeing such treatmemt of Female Leads and such trashy Male Leads...