It's not a phase..this is what they emphasize on..that a woman is not capable of independent existence.
Here she doesn't have 10 rs but she becomes a wedding planner ..even that kind of a post doesn't come directly to newbies.
I'm sorry but to all of those who are watching outside india , it's NOT like an educated lawyer is on streets , cant earn cant get a job , cant get decent food ! There can be ups and downs in jobs and businesses , that doesn't mean things come down to this ..goodness is not extinct in this country yet..there r helpful & kind people , there r menial jobs to make the ends meet in worst case scenarios ..
Apart frm this , abhira constantly thinking about apman n feeling bad abt his engagement is shit .
@red - getting a job under a wedding planner is still ok..but no one gives the sole responsibility of a High profile wedding to a newbie.
About Abhira it's just a phase.. it's just a day.. finding a new job will take a few days...atleast where I live in India it's not 100% sure you will get another job the very same day..Abhira spoiled the opportunity she got today..and also till now she was trying to find a job as a lawyer/intern..it's not so easy,and uper se phuphasa has made it even more difficult for her..now she will decide to take up whatever job that comes her way so that she can make the ends meet..she can look for a job based on her education araam se and when she lands one she can quit the job she has taken up for survival.
What I told about begging,I stand by that..I am into spirituality and the way I see things might be different .I have a husband who want to die as a begger on the streets.He is like I will look after our kid make him independent,make him stand on his feel and then leave everything behind and go on a spiritual journey.if you want to come with me you are most welcome,if you want to stay back you can it's upto you.
That's all I can say..since I am not very articulate I wd like to stop it there..I hope we can agree to disagree and move on.
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