More than Aadhya, I feel bad for Pari

Any child who has been born and brought up in Shah house or under their influence has to be sympathized with. No parent is doing justice to their child be it Kinjal, Dimpy or Kavya. But then what to say. Being doormat is equal to keeping family together.

Kinjal will not leave Toshu. Her astitva will come under threat. Anupamaa and Kinjal are of the kind that only get a kick in life by constantly arguing and being at loggerheads with the men of SH - Vanraj and Toshu. There is a certain high they feel doing all that. As a third person one may think how much they are tolerating and yet fighting back but after a certain point of time one wonders what's the point of all this. Just leave and go. Toshu can't provide Kinjal and Pari financially, brought them to a point where their life ended up being in danger and yet all Kinjal does is argue, argue, argue, but never leaves. Only reason I can think of is either she is so much in love with Anupamaa's services that she doesn't want to miss out on that or she has taken a leaf out of Anupamaa's character and now all she wants is eternal sympathy for her miseries. Another woman who can't come out of the loop of abuse even though she tries, tries and tries, despite having all the avenues, financial backing of a rich mother and she herself at least on paper being financially independent. Because of course who would want to miss out on the love that Shah family showers. How can she take that away from Pari? Pari would no more remain Indian if she misses out on Shah family love, drama and functions. Weird woman.

Ye ajkal itv ka fashion hai female getting abused/ in a bad relationship and she will give xyz bhasan on her atmasamman but make no move to move on from the toxic life. It will be hailed on social media omg wow what a strong fighter woman 🤣

Kinjal is same example i mean girl don't even like her husband love door ki baat but she will never leave cause per bakwaspama verse she will be bad woman not fighting for her basic dignified life

Originally posted by: prachetas2211

Rakhi ji did not want her daughter Kinjal to become a daughter in law to Anupama, thanks to her being just a 12th pass. And after seeing that Anupama was treated as a maid by Baa, Rakhi ji would definitely have visualized Kinjal's fate had she got married to Shah family. Ideally, every mother would expect that a woman who wants to become a mother in law to her daughter should be well educated. So in that way Rakhi ji's hatred for Anupama is perfectly justified. Rakhi ji was spot on when she said that a 12th pass like Anupama did not deserve Kinjal as her daughter in law and Toshu never deserved Kinjal as his wife. Shocking that Kinjal ditched her biological mother Rakhi ji for that mahaanta ki moorat Anupama.

Kinjal toshu ka basic premise of love story is faulty, how do u even love a guy who badmouth his mom, so much tamasha in his house, his dad had affair and remarried the affair mistress. Rakhi raised kinjal i can't believe a strong woman like her will raise a wuss like kinjal. For story purpose I take it kinjal was attracted to joint family, but she has seen the tamasha, her so called ma is always insulted in shah house. Still she's there and she's not even thinking about her kid. What kind of parvarish she will get? She don't even like toshu, what hope she's having that she's still sticking around in that useless disgusting house?

Kinjal was a failures daughter wife and mom.