Jhanak Written Update and Discussions Thread No 14 - Page 129

Originally posted by: rysohini

Could not agree more Anusha

"Pyar toh kar liya,lekin Izzat karna kab sikhenge?" .

Ani has not respected his relationship with Arshi, despite how good, bad or ugly she is, no woman deserves deceipt in a relationshp !

And in his blinding rage and heartbreak, wishes the worst kind of punishment for Jhanak for her supoosed betrayal ! - It is probably similar to us wishing Ani and Arshi end up together as Arshi is the punishment he deserves

Ani becomes a kid when it comes to Jhanak, because no one really has emotionally stirred him the way she has. How else do you explain the kiddish behaviour he showed by not wavig a bye to Jhanak when she left for the shoot?!

It is always a head vs heart situation for him. And he is so invested in her, that the rest of the world almost cease to exist or dosn't matter much for him most times. His heart craves to be the most important person for Jhanak, "the" person in her life, he wants her completey to himself, wants that he be the centre of her life and world and demands her attention to be only for him !

***which by the way is the case, but Jhanak will say just the opposite of this whenever she opens her mouth in front of him !

But his head sends out mixed signals to Jhanak and to the rest of the world. Probably the head thinks of living up to promises and commitments of a dead relationship ! And stops him from breaking up with Arshi - is he scared of the aftermath? - no he is not ! Also, the head knows that Jhanak does not love him, which makes it easier for the head to win over the heart !

Both of them badly need a true friend who would stand neutrally and give them advice Chhoton, Apppu di, Boroma or even AK perhaps ?! If these two are left to themselves, they will break RuNak sooner or later !

Coming to RuNak, we have two souls broken in their own ways, that we have rooted for, to come together and create a life, which unfortunately will be a broken one, with the kind of mindset they have currently. Both require miles and miles of character growth to be able to justify deserving eo. And some times it is so important to let it go and drift apart , distance becomes necessary , for the sake of love !

A man who has been shown to be progressive, open minded, root for woman empowerment and equality, wishes Jhanak to be "controlled" by Tejas? This is such a new low for Ani's character, that he might be beyond redemption atp. Does anger make you stoop so low that you lose every rhyme and reason and cease to be the person you have been portrayed to be? No matter how much a woman loves a man, this should be impetus enough for her to NEVER want to be together with him ! Specially because this is the first but given the mindset of Ani, this will not be the last !

Dear Jhanak - What doesn't kill you, will make you stronger !

P.S. Was it really necessary for the makers to ruin Ani in this way? Was this the only way to depict the perils of a woman? And will the makers find a way to force Jhanak back into Basu house, just so Ani can have his revenge by marrying Arshi immediately?

Jhanak has remained in Basu house recently because of her wish to be close to Ani, and it is because of Ani and Ani alone that she will leave that house , unless budget, logistics and maker's whim decide otherwise !

While as humans we are all flawed in varying lengths, it is difficult to give any benefit of doubt to Mr. Grumpy Othello Bose today !

Bold- I have lived through this. Multiple times with the same words thrown about my character. Such people do exist. And they do come back crying like a kid saying I am sorry. I just got angry. Hence why I always maintain that verbal abuse is much worse if not as equal as physical abuse.

Gusse mein bhole hue lafz humesha khanjar ki tarah dil ko ghayal kardeta hai, jo zakhm kabhi nahi bharte.

I walked away. Ideally for this, Jhanak should walk away too. No amount of help, respect or love can heal the wounds caused by sharp and vitriolic words spewed from the mouth, you can't take them back. The stay in your heart and keep wounding you every single day because it is the person you loved and trusted.

Originally posted by: parna21

Until yesterday this was my line of thinking as well. Jhanak brings out the best & the worst of him, and vice versa. I hope today was the worst, and that writers dnt screw it up even more. Like I can't imagine if Tejas comes to abduct her now, wt wd Anirudh's action be? Wd he let it happen or stop it? - I don't know. That's whr I am leaving it open ended, cz writers kya likhenge ab mujhe nahi pata. Main apni samajhdari ko side pe rakhungi ab....only so I dnt get another Shock. I have trust issues with writers now

He won't let her be abducted by Tejas. Two reasons

1. No matter how much he may say he hates Jhanak; he won't let her be unsafe in any given minute, partly a reason why he needs to know where she is all the time. His protective instincts are always in overdrive because of it- one of the factors why he is super emotional to Jhanak. Because that was his entire purpose in bringing her here.If that threat is not there, he won't have a connection to her. He wants to keep a way open to reach her.

2. His ego won't allow him to lose in front of a loose-natured man like Tejas. He has stated this multiple times.

"Mein Tejas se haar nahi sakthi. Mein aisa hone nahi doonga. Agar uss pe agaya to mein sab kuch karungi jo tumhe hurt ho"

Originally posted by: Anusha16

Bold- I have lived through this. Multiple times with the same words thrown about my character. Such people do exist. And they do come back crying like a kid saying I am sorry. I just got angry. Hence why I always maintain that verbal abuse is much worse if not as equal as physical abuse.

Gusse mein bhole hue lafz humesha khanjar ki tarah dil ko ghayal kardeta hai, jo zakhm kabhi nahi bharte.

I walked away. Ideally for this, Jhanak should walk away too. No amount of help, respect or love can heal the wounds caused by sharp and vitriolic words spewed from the mouth, you can't take them back. The stay in your heart and keep wounding you every single day because it is the person you loved and trusted.

Originally posted by: Sunsh

So True . Words are the worst enemy of a a person. Ek bar teer kamaan se nikal gaya phir wapas nahi aa sakta . And so I say “Ani baba choose your words wisely “

we wish !

Originally posted by: sleepyupma

https://x.com/justnonesencee/status/1783925253179076665

Dekho gaanv vaalo kya kya ho raha hai

Quite an interesting comparison. I once got a whatsapp chat message from this Momo person like an urban legend. It was so funny.

I gave so much gaali to that person they apologized and never texted me again lol. Haa... Nostalgia

Originally posted by: sleepyupma

@bold - They did find something and she's back at Bose house again

How did this happen Lekhaji??

Originally posted by: Anusha16

He won't let her be abducted by Tejas. Two reasons

1. No matter how much he may say he hates Jhanak; he won't let her be unsafe in any given minute, partly a reason why he needs to know where she is all the time. His protective instincts are always in overdrive because of it- one of the factors why he is super emotional to Jhanak. Because that was his entire purpose in bringing her here.If that threat is not there, he won't have a connection to her. He wants to keep a way open to reach her.

2. His ego won't allow him to lose in front of a loose-natured man like Tejas. He has stated this multiple times.

"Mein Tejas se haar nahi sakthi. Mein aisa hone nahi doonga. Agar uss pe agaya to mein sab kuch karungi jo tumhe hurt ho"

U seem to be positive abt Writers

But yeah, I agree Anirudh's Words/Thoughts may be abominable....but actions won't. This is the optimistic me saying. Unless makers have a twisted mind whr they make him the villain & throw the show down the drain.

Originally posted by: great_love

Gripping nahi confusing likhana chiye tha

Originally posted by: parna21

U seem to be positive abt Writers

But yeah, I agree Anirudh's Words/Thoughts may be abominable....but actions won't. This is the optimistic me saying. Unless makers have a twisted mind whr they make him the villain & throw the show down the drain.

I just know Ani well I think. I cannot say the same about the writers.

Ani's overprotective instincts for Jhanak come before anything else, his family, his fiancé, and his love for Jhanak. He wouldn't hesitate for a second to lock her in a room if it assures him that she is safe. I don't know if there is a possibility he would do it for his possessiveness, that seems to be growing by the minute since the past two episodes. This is probably the reason he will be the dominant husband, otherwise, he usually chills out as seen by how he behaves with Arshi. People may say Of Course since he doesn't love Arshi, but in his mind, he does from my POV (though it isn't true). So why would he behave any differently with Arshi theoretically? Arshi is not in any immediate danger, nor is she naive like Jhanak. That's why. She behaves according to his calculations, Jhanak doesn't. Jhanak is a wild variable in his life, one he finds out of his control.