What makes Anupama a terrible Female lead?? - Page 21

Originally posted by: Paru...

They r just finding reasons to bash her. It is very difficult to convince them.

CA has always said that Anu loved her more than Maya. She has confessed it to Anuj when they were at Mumbai.

She also told Maya that "Jab aapne mujhe ashram mein choda ,tho mummy ne mujhe pyaar diya".

But MD ,BB and Pakhi had created insecurity in her innocent mind who already had insecurities due to her lonely childhood at the orphanage.

We audiences are not dumb. Any character can say anything, every character says Anupama is the best mom but we can see through her actions that she is the worst mom.

You realise we have our own eyes and ears to see what's happening on the screen right? CA or Anuj or anyone else can claim anything, but we have our own eyes and ears to see what actually happened, because we are not in a cult but use our own brains.

Originally posted by: prachetas2211

Just look at Rakhi ji. Even though she was cheated by her husband Pramod, they posed as a couple for Kinjal's sake. Rakhi ji has moulded Kinjal to a hard working, independent, well mannered, career oriented and humble girl. Kinjal is a combination of Rakhi ji's strength and Pramod's goodness. Both Rakhi ji and Pramod are good parents for Kinjal. This is what is called good parenting.

Originally posted by: prachetas2211

Agreed. This is why Rakhi ji is a much better mother for me. I like both Kinjal and Rakhi ji's characters. Kinjal for being well mannered, career oriented, hard working and humble. Rakhi ji for being a good inspiration to women. The only complaint I have for Kinjal Even though I love her character is ditching her own mother who is a practical, logical, rich, well educated business woman in favour of that Mahaanta ki moorat Anupama.

Rakhi also taught her daughter to accept her husband's cheating for the sake of her daughter- Pari ?

She also taught her daughter to accept Toshus misdoings ?

She also taught her daughter to not stand up to be a witness in Samars murder case ?

She also taught her daughter to constantly Jaap mummy mummy even if a minor thing is not going her way - exactly how is Kinjal independent?

My point being - every character on this show is flawed. Rakhi started off as a really good character but then she said to Kinjal to accept toshu even after he cheated just because of Pari.

Originally posted by: prachetas2211

Agreed. This is why Rakhi ji is a much better mother for me. I like both Kinjal and Rakhi ji's characters. Kinjal for being well mannered, career oriented, hard working and humble. Rakhi ji for being a good inspiration to women. The only complaint I have for Kinjal Even though I love her character is ditching her own mother who is a practical, logical, rich, well educated business woman in favour of that Mahaanta ki moorat Anupama.