Anupamaa 22nd Mar 2024 Written Update & DDT DT Note Pg 11 - Page 12

Aadya's trauma is emanating from constant abuse and neglect she had to endure at the hands of Mahaan Maa and her filthy family. It's funny how people conveniently ignore past 3 years and simply focus on the accident part.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Anupama Gave custody of aadhya to anuj she had talk with anuj and then leave house isko bhaagna nahi kehte

Bhale ho anupama Ghar chod ke gayi Choti de door rahi ho but anupama does not hate aadhya .she does not abuse even sfe is safe aadhya from goon I.n America inspite of aadhya having hatred for her she doesn't not have any bitterness towards aadhya

But aadhya has bitterness towards not only bitterness she even physically assault anupama this

Bitterness, hatred aaya kahan se??? she did not try to clear an 8 year old's misunderstanding but she used to do that with pakhi and toshu

I just know one thing. No woman in this world will abandon her 7 year old over an argument with her husband. People are trying to defend the indefensible by bringing up irrelevant topics like Anuj's past relationships and mahan Maa's imaginary DDP😂.

Even if Anuj had multiple flings,how does it VALIDATE Anupama's obsession with her ex? Everyone has a past but if u remain loyal and committed to your life partner then such things doesn't matter. Anuj gave his 200% in this relationship but there was literally no effort from her side. Not once she prioritised them over Shahs. I can cite thousand examples where her misplaced priorities made things murkier.

Yes, Anuj was definitely aware of her so called baggage and he tried his best to accommodate it as well but answer honestly,apart from her adult , married children who else were her baggage? Was Vanraj along with his parents and current wife Anupama's responsibility?Why she made Anuj and CA suffer due to them? Now don't come up with pathetic excuses that since she has spent 25+ years of her life with them hence the attachment. That's BS!

Not saying Anuj is completely fair but Anupama can't be exonerated either. Her misplaced priorities and inability to value right people in her life destroyed everything and the worst part is she still has no realisation.

It is personal matter see according to India law no law can force a parent to look after children ki Haan bache ko dekhna hai

Yes unhe aamjhaya sakta hai ki aap dono ke jhagde ke chakkar mein zindagi Barbaad ho rahi hai Aap dono bache ke khaatir subah kar lo but koi force nahi kar sakta.

It is anupama personal matter to koi bhi usko personal matter force nahi kar sakta bus mediation le dwara samajhane ka try Kiya jaa sakta hai

To yahan basically choti ki under custody pf aniu abd was taking care of her along with Shruti fo law ki nazar mein choti is not neglect child

Yes after divorce law order husband to give maintainece to child

Even if husband get married to another girl but he has to give maintainece to child from previous married but still court never force husband ki tumne use paida Kiya hai tumhara farz,hai use dekhna bus court samjha sakti Hai daant sakti aur jyaada se jyaada bache ke liye maintainece dilwa sakti Hai

Originally posted by: surabhi01

It is personal matter see according to India law no law can force a parent to look after children ki Haan bache ko dekhna hai

According to every law, you cannot abandon a kid that too when you adopted them in your full consciousness

It's not a personal matter, it's a responsibly that every MAA has towards their kids

Yes unhe aamjhaya sakta hai ki aap dono ke jhagde ke chakkar mein zindagi Barbaad ho rahi hai Aap dono bache ke khaatir subah kar lo but koi force nahi kar sakta.

A mother can never be forced to care for a child, it should come from within

It is anupama personal matter to koi bhi usko personal matter force nahi kar sakta bus mediation le dwara samajhane ka try Kiya jaa sakta hai

To yahan basically choti ki under custody pf aniu abd was taking care of her along with Shruti fo law ki nazar mein choti is not neglect child

Yes after divorce law order husband to give maintainece to child

Even if husband get married to another girl but he has to give maintainece to child from previous married but still court never force husband ki tumne use paida Kiya hai tumhara farz,hai use dekhna bus court samjha sakti Hai daant sakti aur jyaada se jyaada bache ke liye maintainece dilwa sakti Hai

See I don't have a problem with anupama having nothing to do with adhya and anuj. But why is she living with shah's and serving them even after so many humiliations. Vanraj and baa still taunt her, why she is staying with them under the same roof. If it's because of the children then isn't adhya her child as well

Once again I am telling in india law court never force anyone to stay with ur children or spouse or parents. Only maintainece dil wa sakti Hai

Herr court will see atleast choti is under custody of father and she is getting basic need like education cloth fooding shelter baaki love karna godi nahi liya hiug nahi kitya court will never force on this

Haan bus phycally abuse verbal abuse court jail pahunche sakti Hai jo anupama ne nahi Kiya Hai choti ke saath

BTW what if anupama would have never left Kapadia and stay at Kapadia but if even after staying at Kapadia anupama would have look after choti.

So there was no guarantee ki saath rehne pur bhi anupama choti ki care karegi

Btw I personally thinking anupama did care for choti there are many instances which show thar anupama did care for choti

Ek bache ke liye ek maa ko Jo karna chahiye woh anupama ne choti ke kiye Kiya hai if anuj and choti can't remember those things only want to see anupama fault then it is anuj and aadhya fault not anupama fault

Once again I am saying court kabhi bhi saath rehne ke liye force nahi karegi

Bus maintainece dil wa degi

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Once again I am telling in india law court never force anyone to stay with ur children or spouse or parents. Only maintainece dil wa sakti Hai

No one can force anyone to live with them, it's their choice that's why anupama choose to live with shah's even after divorce in spite of all the abuse in the past. Let's forget about the abuse of past 26 years. They kept abusing her all the time still she choose to stay with them inspite of having an old mother and brother to care.

Herr court will see atleast choti is under custody of father and she is getting basic need like education cloth fooding shelter baaki love karna godi nahi liya hiug nahi kitya court will never force on this

That's what I said no one can force a mother to love her child it should come from within

Haan bus phycally abuse verbal abuse court jail pahunche sakti Hai jo anupama ne nahi Kiya Hai choti ke saath

Physical abuse verbal abuse (jo baa karti thi) se kayi zyada khatarnaak hote hai emotional and mental abuse. Which anuj is giving to adhya

BTW what if anupama would have never left Kapadia and stay at Kapadia but if even after staying at Kapadia anupama would have look after choti.

So there was no guarantee ki saath rehne pur bhi anupama choti ki care karegi

Guarantee toh kisi baat ki nahi hai, anupama shah's K pass hai, kya iss baar ki guarantee hai ki woh kabhi use apna maanenge??? Nahi. But she's still with them, doing their work

Btw I personally thinking anupama did care for choti there are many instances which show thar anupama did care for choti

Yes, she did care for choti but not more than samar, toshu, pakhi, dimpy, kavya, baa, bapuji, kinjal

Ek bache ke liye ek maa ko Jo karna chahiye woh anupama ne choti ke kiye Kiya hai if anuj and choti can't remember those things only want to see anupama fault then it is anuj and aadhya fault not anupama fault

Once again I am saying court kabhi bhi saath rehne ke liye force nahi karegi

Bus maintainece dil wa degi

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Once again I am telling in india law court never force anyone to stay with ur children or spouse or parents. Only maintainece dil wa sakti Hai

Herr court will see atleast choti is under custody of father and she is getting basic need like education cloth fooding shelter baaki love karna godi nahi liya hiug nahi kitya court will never force on this

Haan bus phycally abuse verbal abuse court jail pahunche sakti Hai jo anupama ne nahi Kiya Hai choti ke saath

BTW what if anupama would have never left Kapadia and stay at Kapadia but if even after staying at Kapadia anupama would have look after choti.

So there was no guarantee ki saath rehne pur bhi anupama choti ki care karegi

Btw I personally thinking anupama did care for choti there are many instances which show thar anupama did care for choti

Ek bache ke liye ek maa ko Jo karna chahiye woh anupama ne choti ke kiye Kiya hai if anuj and choti can't remember those things only want to see anupama fault then it is anuj and aadhya fault not anupama fault

Once again I am saying court kabhi bhi saath rehne ke liye force nahi karegi

Bus maintainece dil wa degi

Itni bakwas karne se aaccha 'Jai Jai Anupama. You are Bhagwan' bol do.

Jaldi khatam ho jayega

Anuj had flings when he was SINGLE while Upma was cheating on her husband n her adopted kid while been MARRIED yet she has audacity to play victim card...Baa n Pakhi used to humiliatea 7 yrs old at their place while this 50 yrs ki upma used to remain silent.Shame on this upma to encourage abuse..

Originally posted by: Muskie

Actually, there is protection of child against negligence and/or abuse by law (under Juvenile Justice). It is a punishable offence. Every country has it, so does India. It is a matter of reporting it.

For evidences, Maya's videos could be produced.

Disclaimer:

I am not a legal person and my sources are from the internet.

https://www.lexology.com/library/detail.aspx?g=81085a3e-dd44-4dc4-ab5e-94dbe3d1fdab#:~:text=Section%2075%20of%20the%20code,years%20or%20fine%20or%20both.