Anupamaa 22nd Mar 2024 Written Update & DDT DT Note Pg 11 - Page 11

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Anupamaa DT

Originally posted by: Wontshowmyname

What is this whateaboutery? Anupama kids are worst, so that gives this brat rights to be so sick?

Anupama didn't run away. She broke the relationship and left. She clearly told her so called 26 years love wala husband that she is leaving cos they don't want her in their life and he let her go, unlike what he did in shruti's case.

I have seen how bad step children and adopted kids are treated when their own is born. The sick behaviour of the brat will be called out regardless of your personal preferences.

You are ok with the brat treating the woman who saved her twice as a slave and a garbage and wanting her wish(shruti) to marry her father.

You wouldn't say the same, if a real daughter would have asked her real mother to marry another man the daughter likes cos her real father can't provide for her needs and the other man is everything she wants and needs in a father figure.

If she is adopted, she can ask her father to marry another woman who fulfills her wishes? Wow!! Great logic.

Life is full of compromises and if a brat thinks her happiness, her wishes are above all and above everything, then she needs to be called out for that.

And stop personal targetting like last time. I don't have a problem with adopted kids but with kids who are so egoistic. I had read about a case where an adopted son had k!lled his adoptive parents cos he wanted their wealth. So no, not all adopted kids need to be treated like they are some present given by god.

It always depends on the behaviour of the child. And if this sick brat is so ungrateful even if she was saved twice by her adoptive mother when she was a child then I can imagine how bad such a brat will be when she grows up.

A child tbh is not responsible for her behaviour. It is Anuj who is responsible. People divorce and process things with their kids all the time. Anuj didn't and Adhya has precocious, psychological issues. She behaves like she can curate Anuj's love life when it shouldn't even be concern for her at this age lol.

Every kid needs to be treated as a gift from god. I think most adults have anxiety about death and legacy that drives them to have kids. Without knowing or assessing whether they would even like parenting or not— especially in desi families. Men rarely do any parenting labour and it's the woman who is the primary caregiver.

Anuj dumped all his parental duties on Shruti who couldn't have processed his divorce with Adhya lol.

Originally posted by: InsaneDivine

Exactly shaadi karne ka decision le liya hai .... It's almost decided at least for now that the three of you are going to be a family. Toh door raho na bhai. Everyone can't be like Anuj ki Anu ko dekh ke sab kuch bhool jaye. For Adhya its the bitter memories, its the betrayal that comes to her mind when she sees Shahs and Anupamaa. Poore Amreeka mein bas ek hi jaga pahunch jaate hain sab ke sab...

So upmaa is not supposed to interact with her kids and grandkids in order to not "betray" one of her other children who clearly is antagonistic towards her?

Jaake mummy ko bolo bhaiya/didi se baat na kare because you feel "betrayed" over nothing. A 12 y/o who feels betrayed by a toddler being saved minutes before her isn't being raised right and lacks empathy.

Originally posted by: Wontshowmyname

What is this whateaboutery? Anupama kids are worst, so that gives this brat rights to be so sick?

Yes they are, but she didn't leave them even after the divorce, EVEN after the humiliation, even after the character assassinations and all.

Anupama didn't run away. She broke the relationship and left. She clearly told her so called 26 years love wala husband that she is leaving cos they don't want her in their life and he let her go, unlike what he did in shruti's case.

They???? Did she ask a girl (8) years that she didn't want her in her life. And even if she said yes was it right for her to RUN away. Didn't pakhi, toshu, vanraj, baa tell her to go away. Did she RAN away from them????

I have seen how bad step children and adopted kids are treated when their own is born. The sick behaviour of the brat will be called out regardless of your personal preferences.

I have always seen how adopted kids are brought up with love, care, compassion and RESPECT.

You are ok with the brat treating the woman who saved her twice as a slave and a garbage and wanting her wish(shruti) to marry her father.

Any mother would save their kids, she hasn't done any favor on anyone. Many times pakhi regarded bestie as her mother and took her to school functions coz she was ASHAMED of her own mother isn't that bothering. Adhya knows that even if anupama comes back she'll again prioritize shah's

You wouldn't say the same, if a real daughter would have asked her real mother to marry another man the daughter likes cos her real father can't provide for her needs and the other man is everything she wants and needs in a father figure.

If she is adopted, she can ask her father to marry another woman who fulfills her wishes? Wow!! Great logic.

Wasn't that anuj who filled in their (adhya and shruti) minds that he would be marrying her??? Matlab after many years you found comfort in a woman and your father was living with her and her PROMISED that he'll marry her then why can't a 12 year old ASK for the same??

They met shruti when they were alone, depressed and vulnerable. She is a ray of hope for them (maybe only adhya)

Life is full of compromises and if a brat thinks her happiness, her wishes are above all and above everything, then she needs to be called out for that.

And stop personal targetting like last time. I don't have a problem with adopted kids but with kids who are so egoistic. I had read about a case where an adopted son had k!lled his adoptive parents cos he wanted their wealth. So no, not all adopted kids need to be treated like they are some present given by god.

It always depends on the behaviour of the child. And if this sick brat is so ungrateful even if she was saved twice by her adoptive mother when she was a child then I can imagine how bad such a brat will be when she grows up.

Anupama saved toshu and pakhi many times, still one sent her to jail and the other considers her a criminal. Toshu didn't even acknowledged her and ran away seeing her and pakhi didn't even wanted to pick her calls

Originally posted by: Blueeeee

So upmaa is not supposed to interact with her kids and grandkids in order to not "betray" one of her other children who clearly is antagonistic towards her?

Jaake mummy ko bolo bhaiya/didi se baat na kare because you feel "betrayed" over nothing. A 12 y/o who feels betrayed by a toddler being saved minutes before her isn't being raised right and lacks empathy.

Adhya feels betrayed because Anupamaa is now interacting with her "kids" and "grandkids" or because her mother left her without a word with her, rather "ghosted" her ?? Jaake mummy ko pucho, bachpan mein koi unreasonable demand ya complaint ki ho toh mummy chod ke chali gayi thi kya ??

If she is not being raised right whose responsibility was that? Koi alien utar ke aayega kya aapke bache ki parvarish karne ke liye. It was Anupamaa and Anuj's responsibility. What were they doing when Malti Devi, Barkha and Pakhi were continuously putting venom in her impressionable mind? When it blew on their faces on the accident day Anupamaa chose to run away instead of talking to her. Not just that she cut off all possible communication channels too.

Cut to 5 years later her father who has outsourced all the talking to his child part to Shruti and somehow keeps roaming around in front of Shahs and Anupamaa, obviously escalates her insecurities which were never addressed previously. No child would want to live with this uncertainty that one fine morning her mother would just leave her, something she would never do to her bio "kids". Agar woh antagonistic hai toh Anuj ko use Anupamaa aur Shahs se door rakhna chahiye. period. That child had shown way more empathy than the grown-up kids ever showed in this show.

I genuinely feel Anupamaa should stay at SH only as anyway her fans also feel that there is no way out for her. So whatever abuse comes her way as a package deal, she should live with that as her heart lies there. Even I as a viewer cannot decide on someone else's part. Anuj, Adhya, and Shruti should eventually exit the show. They anyway don't contribute much to the story.

Originally posted by: InsaneDivine

Adhya feels betrayed because Anupamaa is now interacting with her "kids" and "grandkids" or because her mother left her without a word with her, rather "ghosted" her ?? Jaake mummy ko pucho, bachpan mein koi unreasonable demand ya complaint ki ho toh mummy chod ke chali gayi thi kya ??

If she is not being raised right whose responsibility was that? Koi alien utar ke aayega kya aapke bache ki parvarish karne ke liye. It was Anupamaa and Anuj's responsibility. What were they doing when Malti Devi, Barkha and Pakhi were continuously putting venom in her impressionable mind? When it blew on their faces on the accident day Anupamaa chose to run away instead of talking to her. Not just that she cut off all possible communication channels too.

Cut to 5 years later her father who has outsourced all the talking to his child part to Shruti and somehow keeps roaming around in front of Shahs and Anupamaa, obviously escalates her insecurities which were never addressed previously. No child would want to live with this uncertainty that one fine morning her mother would just leave her, something she would never do to her bio "kids". Agar woh antagonistic hai toh Anuj ko use Anupamaa aur Shahs se door rakhna chahiye. period. That child had shown way more empathy than the grown-up kids ever showed in this show.

I genuinely feel Anupamaa should stay at SH only as anyway her fans also feel that there is no way out for her. So whatever abuse comes her way as a package deal, she should live with that as her heart lies there. Even I as a viewer cannot decide on someone else's part. Anuj, Adhya, and Shruti should eventually exit the show. They anyway don't contribute much to the story.

Bhai literally mummy pops divorced and billionaire pops moved to another country with her while mummy stayed in a dingy house in self-isolation. If pops, throughout the divorce and custody proceedings, could not let the child understand or process parent's break up, then that is on him lol.

Originally posted by: Blueeeee

Bhai literally mummy pops divorced and billionaire pops moved to another country with her while mummy stayed in a dingy house in self-isolation. If pops, throughout the divorce and custody proceedings, could not let the child understand or process parent's break up, then that is on him lol.

Arre par mummy Pops ka divorce hua kaise ?? Kaun si duniya mein divorce bina mile dekhe ho jaata hai. I can't comment on hypothetical/implied scenarios. IMO as a storyteller, you cannot skip such important details like divorce proceedings or custody case. Because if indeed that process has happened, it has shaped the character's viewpoints. You cannot just skip that. I have always said that there is a difference between telling something and showing something. What you "show" makes a deeper impact. They have always told that Anupamaa is a big businesswoman, who deals with international clients, draws huge salaries, and everything she does is successful. But does the story, her demeanor justify that ?? That's why her success stories are not believable. Her pathetic state of life is. For me, the same is the case with the divorce sequence as well. Till you show what transpired, both are responsible. Anupamaa ran away and that was shown. All the interactions that have happened so far between Anuj, Anupamaa and Adhya indicate that the three never met after that day. So my opinion is based accordingly.

Anupama Gave custody of aadhya to anuj she had talk with anuj and then leave house isko bhaagna nahi kehte

Bhale ho anupama Ghar chod ke gayi Choti de door rahi ho but anupama does not hate aadhya .she does not abuse even sfe is safe aadhya from goon I.n America inspite of aadhya having hatred for her she doesn't not have any bitterness towards aadhya

But aadhya has bitterness towards not only bitterness she even physically assault anupama this

Divorce happened same way exactly like how Upma n her muftkhor family got US visa without even giving interview

Originally posted by: Blueeeee

So upmaa is not supposed to interact with her kids and grandkids in order to not "betray" one of her other children who clearly is antagonistic towards her?

Jaake mummy ko bolo bhaiya/didi se baat na kare because you feel "betrayed" over nothing. A 12 y/o who feels betrayed by a toddler being saved minutes before her isn't being raised right and lacks empathy.

I think it was not about saving kinjal and her daughter first but Anupama herself got down the car before CA and then get got stuck. For those few minutes Adhya was alone in car and it can very well give you a long lasting troma. Maybe it was not intentional from Anupama side but it left long lasting effect on her combined with her previous insecurities.

Anupama’s sudden departure from their life never gave second perception for that and it became adhya’s nightmare. Now if we see no one very much remember why Anupama and shahs got separated or why Anupama left except adhya because she was the one who got most effected by this. Maybe for all of them time has passed but for adhya it was stuck at that point.