I just don’t understand

I seriously don’t understand why the character of Aadya is bashed soo much on this forum? What has that little girl done apart from being neglected, abused by her so called foster parents? She is being called the ‘gandha khoon’ of her deceased mother who she barely had any relationship with. Heck she was even more closer to shameless shahs than Maaya. She is just angry with that so called mummy of her’s as she believes that she puts her last (which is true) and left her to die that day. Did ‘mummy’ decide to clear her misunderstandings? No she didn’t instead she just abandoned her without looking back just because her husband gave her a reality check (which she rightfully deserved) I have seen wayyyyy worser kids than Aadya on itv who have tried to kill the FL by burning them alive, push her off a building, raise their hand on her and whatnot. All Aadya has done is raise her voice on ‘mummy’, told her that she hates her and to go away that’s all. People are acting as if Aadya was born shrewd and malevolent. We have seen that she was a kind, innocent girl from an orphanage. Paritosh and Pakhi are much more worse than Aadya and have abused, humiliated, harassed their mother many times yet people seem to conveniently forget this. But when Aadya says something then there’s a whole army bashing her. Truly a tragedy.

Because she is adopted. If she was Anupama's own kid, same people would have no issues. No amount of education can instill class or empathy in some people. We are a nation which has many padhe likhe jaahils.

Because people can boast about being rich and educated, but still have that old regressive mindset where adopted kids are a burden, they are a means to show to the society Oh how big hearted we are we adopted a child.

But when it comes to equal rights, equal love and affection, they will always differentiate between own blood and adopted child. They won’t take a second to say that khoon ne apna rang dikha diya.

Honestly, I feel people who already have their own kids should be banned from adopting a child, because most people adopt a boy child after having 2-3 girls.
Have seen 2 such cases in my own distant relatives and one very close one where they have made the life of that adopted child hell, this one what I am witnessing is so similar to Anupamaa’s kids where biological kids even if they try to murder you will be taken back after an apology and the adopted one will be reminded everyday that he is an adopted one, even though they begged his parents to give the child to them when he was born because they had daughters.

This show is setting the worst examples! People will fear to adopt a child if they get anyway inspired from this pathetic show.

They play Baghban all the time but haven’t taken any sort of inspiration from the movie where Amitabh left all his bio children and chose the adopted child over them.

Check this thread

Some of the comments on the other social media are just blood boilingly regressive.

I have legit seen people comment that this stupid 3rd class bogus show's portrayal proves that you should never adopt.

Kaha humari govt lagi hui hai in promoting adoption aur kaha aise serials abhi bhi bio v/s adopted debate pe thrive kar rahe hai.

Even if what anuj said that day was wrong, was leaving an 8 year old just because her father choose to comfort you was right???

During pakhi's dance competition, she felt neglected too, behaved 10 times more harsh than CA, vanraj too sunaod her, did she leave pakhi??? No, she was WORRIED for her, her food, her dress, her makeup, silently did her hair too and when bestie left her in the middle she replaced her, GRACEFULLY danced with the same girl by whom she was humiliated, taunted, disrespected for the past week and made her win

Originally posted by: Harish111

Because she is adopted. If she was Anupama's own kid, same people would have no issues.

Exactly. If she was a bio child, people would have bee praying for reunions. The impression of adopted kids is that they should keep acting grateful all their life and constantly sacrifice for the "real" family of their adoptive parents.