Anupamaa 24th Feb 2024 Written Update & Daily Discussions Thread - Page 4

Originally posted by: surabhi01

I told anupama ne daily jaa kar chai Nashta,nahi banaya

Anupama ne particular occasion pe banaya hai roj roj nahi shsh mei.

Aur doosre Jo aniuj Jo bolta reha ta hai ki Anupama healthy boundaries maintain Karo

Kal ko aadhya aniuj se batameej karti hau

Aur anupama bole ki ki aap aadhya se boundaries maintain Karo to kya anuj kar paayega ?

Kehna bahut aasan hota hai karna aasan nahi

Jo baat anuj bolta hai wohji baat anuj khud pe apply karne ki Himmat hai agsr anupama wohi baat bo diya,?

Anupama ke elawa kisi Aur ne bol di to ?

Bilkul karni chahiye healthy boundary maintain, married bachcho ke saath. Agar Aadhya kamane lage, self dependent ho jaye aur shadi ke baad Anuj se uss tarah ki badtameezi kare jaisi Anupama ke nalayak biological bachche uske saath karte hain roz, aaj bhi, to Anuj ko bhi Choti ko apne haal par chod dena chaahiye.

But right now Aadhya is 12 yrs old and dependent on her parents. Adopted and dropped like hot potato by her mother who adopted her. Dealing with her own trauma and insecurities which exist only because of Anupamaa.

Pakhi jab school mein thi, usko apni Maa ko logon se milane mein sharm aati thi, Kavya ko apni Mummy banakar le gayi thi, to kya Anupamaa chod kar bhaag gayi thi Pakhi ko ?

Jab Toshu bar bar characterless bulata hai apni Maa ko to kya uske pas jana chod diya Maa ne? Kyonki wo uske apne bachche hain.

Kehna bohot easy hota hai lekin adopted bachche ko apne khud ke bachche ki tarah paalna aur treat karna bohot alag baat hai jo ki jhuthi dogli besharam manipulative Anupamaa kabhi nahi kar saki.

Dekhte hai anuj Kitna boundaries maintain kar paata agar aadhya anuj ko granted lene lage

Oh yes Jo aadya ko crictise kare uske comment to faltu Hoge na

That is why I keep saying some people don't understand post properly and .khuch bhi bolne lag jaaye hain

I said clearly in my post that phycally change start from 10.age too

10 age mein ladikiyon mei hormonal changes shuru Hota though ek rare case hai

10 year is growing period towards aduit no.wherre I I told 10 year ke bache aduit hote hai .they are not child but aduit bamne ka process 10 year r se shuru ho sakta,hai that is why told 10 year old age bahut choti age nahi .ibut in rare case 10 year old mein hormonal changes ho jaata hai but this is rare case

Generally puberty start at at age of 13

10 year old is almost last stage of childhood and 12 year old is not count as child they are regarding as teen age Jo na bache Hote hai aur na bade

Koi achanak se aduit nahi banta hai uska process bahut pehle shuru ho jaata hai

That is why I told Jo yeh kaha jaata abhi aadya bachi hai uss kya Pata when a child is almost near at teenage after 2 year use 10 year mein khuch Pata hi nahi ??

10 year mei girl cooking karna seekhti hai but choti Abhi choti ko khuch Pata hi nahi itni Naadan hai choti

Nahi discuss karna hai mut Karo

Yahan pur main natural fact ki baat Kiya and people are saying I am mygonsist

Khuch bhi

But jabardasti pe muje pe faltu ka blame mut lagaso Buna post ko samjhe misgonyst Pata nahi kya kya

Originally posted by: surabhi01

To anupama apne bachon ko Chai Nashta nahi de sakti uske liye kavya se permission leni padegi ?

Kiske ghar me Chai Nashta bana rahi hain? Kapadia house me ya Shah House me?

Shah House me ho toh, Haan, permission leni padegi.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

I told anupama ne daily jaa kar chai Nashta,nahi banaya

Anupama ne particular occasion pe banaya hai roj roj nahi shsh mei.

The difference is yeh occasion baar baar aate hain. Ek baar ho, occasionally ho, jo bhi ho, Shah House, Shah Family se related issues me Anupama na kuch bol sakti hain na faisle le sakti hain aur nahin bina pooche (bina Anupama se request kiye) khana bana sakti hain.

Come to think of it, Anupama detested even Barkha and (to some extent reluctantly agreed) Malati Devi in Kapadia Mansion Kitchen (an exception she made for Leela and Dimple).

Aur doosre Jo aniuj Jo bolta reha ta hai ki Anupama healthy boundaries maintain Karo

Kal ko aadhya aniuj se batameej karti hau

Aur anupama bole ki ki aap aadhya se boundaries maintain Karo to kya anuj kar paayega ?

Kehna bahut aasan hota hai karna aasan nahi

Jo baat anuj bolta hai wohji baat anuj khud pe apply karne ki Himmat hai agsr anupama wohi baat bo diya,?

Anupama ke elawa kisi Aur ne bol di to ?

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Sorry I did not understand.

Healthy boundaries "ex" se aur abusive, toxic family se banane bola tha, right?

Aadhya was Anuj AND Anupama's daughter, right? So, if Anuj and Anupama are divorced and Anuj has Aadhya's custody (custody is imperative because she is still a minor), you are saying Anupama should/will/can ask Anuj to maintain "healthy boundaries" with Aadhya?

It is like saying, Anupama should ask Vanraj to maintain "healthy boundaries" with the 3 anmol ratna because badtameezi toh unka second nature hain.

Imagine aadhya saying aapse

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/164840884

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Puberty of girls start at 10 too though it s rare case

So 10 year age is not small age

If not careful girl can have risk of getting pregnant at 10 year old though very rare case so girl ke lye 10 year old is not joke ki abhi bachi hai

I'm sorry but its a very misogynist statement to make that 10 year old girls aren't children. No matter at what age a girl or a boy attains puberty but they still remain a child until they turn 18.

Say whatever you want to say about fictional characters, but don't make such statements about children. Just because they attained puberty doesn't mean they are adults and can give consent to having a child, if ever a girl child gets pregnant under 18 its called statutory rape. The child isn't assumed to be a grown up just because she could get pregnant, please stop making such outrageous comments Miss Surabhi.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Puberty of girls start at 10 too though it s rare case

So 10 year age is not small age

If not careful girl can have risk of getting pregnant at 10 year old though very rare case so girl ke lye 10 year old is not joke ki abhi bachi hai

So agar barometer yahi hain ki 10 saal ke bachche, mature hote hain, toh Shahs anmol ratna usse dugne, teen guna umr ke hain, Choti Anu ke umr se guzar chuke hain. Ek toh khud pita bannewala hain baki dono shadi shuda hain.

Toh Jo ummeed itne badon se nahin ki jati khud uski Maa se nahin ki jati woh ummeed hum 10-saal ki bachchi se karein?

Also, why are we comparing the current situation to teen pregnancy et ALL to show maturity of a certain age? Is itnin the context of the show?

Uss hisaab se Anupama, who is a 45 year old should have known how to cross the road, bare minimum, a 50 year old Anupama should have known what it is to go to a foreign land without a proper confirmation of accommodation, work and emergency contacts, approaching police in case of issues, she should have understood the fears of a teenager especially one she promised to protect but abandoned.

We don't see any of it, do we?

10 year ke bache ze poocho ki aap 10 year mein aise behave karto ho leave behaving like adult

Maine to kahin nahi dekha 10 year bachon ko aise behave karte hue jaise choti karti hai

Look like some people don't read my post properly they think that I want anupama should go to pakhi toshu to feed with their own hand

Oh really they think.so

Kya conclusion nikale hai mere post ka

I have told and ask questions kya anupama emergency mein bachon se nahi mil sakti

Did I say anywhere anupama toshu pakhi ko toddler ki Tarah treat kare usko

Agsr toshu pakhi toddler nahi Hsu iska Matlab yeh nahi ki anupama unki .emergency mein kabhi unde mil nahi sakti

If some how I can get my 2020 post i did crictise pakhi for not dong any work not making chapati at at age of 15 and call both pakhi toshu lazy I did crictise them for not doing work according to age

And again I am repeating though it is useless kyonki khuch logon ko Bina post ko padhe samchje khuch bhi response dens hai

No where I said aadhya should behave like adult but sfe is not behaving l according to 10 year old

I expect choti to behave according to age in same way I have expect pakhi toshu according to their own

Age

Maine toshu pakhi sabhi choti sabhi ko call out kya hai

But I Dom t expect unrealistic thing from anupama ki emergency mein anupama apne bachon se nahi mil sakti

I have never told anupama ko toshu pakhi ko toddler ki Tarah treat kare

Adult bachon ko baat baat pe maa ki jaroorat nahi padti but in some case adult chidren do need their mother if not always at least they needd moral support when they are in trouble

And my my question was kya anupama toshu se kabhi kabhi nahi mil sakti isme toddler jaise kya treatment ha .

Kya,real life mein adult bache apnj maa se baat nahi karte

Agar woh adult bache apni Maa se some tme baat karna chahe to kya woh toddler ho gaya

So read post properly before making any conclusion

Originally posted by: surabhi01

10 year ke bache ze poocho ki aap 10 year mein aise behave karto ho leave behaving like adult

Maine to kahin nahi dekha 10 year bachon ko aise behave karte hue jaise choti karti hai

50 saal ke logon se bhi poocho, woh bhi aise nahin hote.