Anuj obsession is puke worthy - Page 2

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

What u r saying I agree as a person coz my self strongly feel Anuj is in state of depression which definitely need help & he never got time to heal it as he had too much on his plate to deal with he can't just lock himself in a room then who would look after CA. First of all abondement blow was a very strong one for Anuj also he would had never thought she will leave him , today also he said it was his right to get angry which is not wrong coz spouses do get angry & arguments but none leave , he could never able to digest that his relationship was not given a second chance. U r right once he encountered anupama his hidden feelings which he had surpressed for so long came out as time too stop for him , he is acting according to it if anupama has met Anuj after she left KM then he would had reacted this way only . I guess it's his initial reaction but I want to give him time coz I feel Anuj has a character had completed a circle where he had already given all what he had now he don't have anything more to give . Negativity is d only part left in anuj's character which is untouched, if makers touch that part Anuj character will rock vo baat alag hai sympathy bhi ussi ko milegi

Come to think of it, Anuj's love for Anupama was bordering his zidd (not sure its the right eord).

He distanced ALL his relations for her. Gave up his everything in her name. Imagine, this at the cost of his baby sister's well being, respect of elders and allowed himself be taken for granted and insulted. ALL for Onupama. Especially post Maaya, ALL he cared for, was to have Anupama in his life, he is doing that even now. If that meant yielding unconditionally. This is NOT love.

Yes he is needs to heal but the taste of the pudding is in the making. This was his destiny. His own making.

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

Mujhe aaj tak samajh nhi aayi Inka divorce kaise hua if they dint meet each other only

Anuj & aadhya both r not over anupama Anuj is right aadhya don't hate anupama but she too angry on d fact her mom left her trying to cope, she don't see Shruti as a mother she is her bff , & aadhya don't want to be unfair with Shruti but what I don't like aadhya is not understanding Anuj Shruti marriage will be bigger disaster as Anuj can't give anupama's place to anyone for this I want Anuj to have a calm talk with Shruti as well aadhya 2 . I don't get Shruti's role here she did tried to give them a family but if u notice her conversation with anupama u will see she is not that close to both actually, yes she is fiance to Anuj but I doubt anuj' spend time with her as a partner her happiness tells when aadhya told Anuj will spend whole day with her on her birthday, it's always about aadhya b/w them as Shruti claim aadhya being link to their relationship. I want to know about Anuj Shruti how it started.

Aadhya is not at an age to understand these aspects. Besides, the girl has endured so many things, she is clouded by issues

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Haven't seen it, but I can imagine how annoying it must have been. Anuj needs to really be taken faaaaaaaaaaaar away from Amreeka and Onupama. He is just beyond treatment. Actually, he should have become the Jogi, instead of Anupama. He actually gave up ALL riste-naate, bandhan.

But, the moment, people started hailing him as a good parent there was a threat to the "leads" of the show. There can only be one "Achche Pita" on the show. That title aint up for grabs.

He was never a good parent irrespective of Upmaa. And Vanraj has always been pukeworthy so I dunno where one finds his upliftment in the show. He is more complex character than Anuj but then most grey characters are lol.