Maa's philosophical take on life

what is this woman on about nadi, pehchan, bheed mein gum ho jaana nonsense?

I didn't get the point of the hyped MaAn closure date, it was more of a catch up from Maa and beg to patch up from Anuj.

The audacity the man has to question maa again, he obviously doesn't know the concept of 'learning from past mistakes'... in what capacity was he sitting there like a loser, keeping his fiancé waiting...did he think he will yell at Maa and she will melt like he apparently did when he saw her again after 5 years, what a load of BS that was!

As expected Maa gave one dumbass reason after the other for her sudden unplanned exit from their lives. She gave a whole long account of her whereabouts but asked nothing about how he coped/managed with a distraught 7 year old. She was more concerned of Aadhya's hate for her...didn't query why she turned so bitter but instead hoped that she'd hate her less now, how exactly?

Anyways, Aadhya's actions and insecurities are all on Anuj..If God forbid they get back together, I hope Maa tortures Anuj so much that he begs her to leave him. I hope this happens, Anuj deserves every bit of misery he's going through for trusting and wanting a narcissist over and over again. You have to have very low self esteem to beg from a pauper, Anupama clearly has nothing to give, she can only take- praises, adulation, validation and all things that make her the hero of every story, even if she played a body double in it, yes I know the show is called Anupama.

5 long years later...

Maa coming face to face with Toshu&Co.... emotional stir. Daadi ka pyaar bubbled. Maa ka mamta fizzed. Despite acknowledging that her kids don't love her anymore, she was shattered upon witnessing Toshu n kinju talk abt her, needing her for their selfish purposes.

Yeh Anupamaa bhi na...kuch samajh thi hi nahin. Moorkh maata.

5 yrs later, she is still pinning who will seek her services and idolise her. Clearly, she is despo for that.

So, focus on amreeka udaan plan.

Maa coming face to face with Anuj.... its more n n

Anuj wants Anu back. Its simple. Bhaad me jaaye shruti, bhaad mein jaaye past, oast trauma...he wants his Anu. N romance. N poetry. N his family back as it was. Which makes me wonder? Who sent divorce papers then?

But maa is in another mood. She wants to flee. She wants closure. She wants Anuj to absolve her, she wants Anuj to say no, no, you were right Anu, you didn't do any mistakes in the past. Aadya will melt. Everything will be fine. Lets get together, n out of 24hr, you take 23hr 55 min for urself, your kids n ex family, 5 min of spared time is enough for us.

You are great Anu.

then Maa will be appeased.

Then she'll show him that oye! You have shruti up your sleeves, you've moved on in life after divorce. How could you?

He didnt learn any lesson from her? Despite divorcing mr Shah, she was very loyal to him till recently. Although she married mr kapadia,she stayed committed to mr shah n his family.

Now he should marry Shruti.

N stay committed to Anu, his ex. Koz he has adopted a child with her. They have connection. This is how life goes on.

For any reference, never hesitate to read Anupamaa-Vanraj ki daastan: how to move on while staying fixed. copies available for free. Audio copies available at Spice n chutney restaurant.

So far, Maa's reunion with Anuj n Toshu has been bland. Forced emotion. Cringe even.

Abb uski reunion with mr shah will be EPIC!

Even her grandchildren will be stunned. No words will be needed to be spoken, no explanation will be needed...kiddos will automatically understand that she is Daadi n naani. Vannu ki better half.

The most laughable dialog was "apni maa par gai hai..surat me bhi aur seerat me bhi.."

Anyways, the philosophies and mahaan love which is shown in this show is beyond my understanding.

I don't know why Anuj still wants Anupama back in his life. I mean even if you have loved a person to that extent(mahaan pyaar in the eyes of dkp), is it necessary to live with that person? You know that she is not gonna love you the way you want then why ? Leave her. Why stoop so low? I remember one shayari here, "wo kissa jisey anjaam tak le jaana na ho mumkin usey ek khoobsurat mod dekar chodna acha..."

He wants to marry with Shruti or not that's another topic but he definitely shouldn't be with Anupama in any kind of relationship.

He still doesn't understand that Anupama left him by her own choice and not because of some misunderstanding. She simply did not love him and has now just moved on. Chasing after her like this is pathetic, both should just live their own lives now.

To be honest MAA just speaks gibberish these days.

Ek toh waise hi unkempt hair and sweater combo makes her look like some runaway and then apne aap se hi baatein karna. 5 year old ke tarah giggle karna.

All this is not suitable at all on a 50+ year old woman. And when she talks to other people she comes across as a scheming scamster. Always going with half truths and twisting the tale to make herself look like a bechari

Anuj ke toh alag hi nashe chal rahe hai. Matlab MAA ne usko chod diya, with one traumatised little girl.5 year tak she made no attempt to ask after him and his daughter still this duffer is running after her.

Koi TMKOC ke Bapuji ko call karo, lagta hai Anuj ko Nasha Mukti Kendra me bhej ne ki jarurat hai

Philosophy? Anupamaa is the modern age Aristotle?

Na. She's just a sasti Anna Delvey!