How can anupama end her second chance like that

Indian women like anupama who have been abused  daily basis both mentally and emotionally.they don't get enough encounter to give divorce to their toxic sasural but if they dont they don't get rich and handsome men like Anuj kapadia . 

Anupama who wa constantly abused for a decade finally free from the cage , actually go a chance to live sucessful independent life end up serving to the toxic family .she got second chance to live up her life and but she choose to go even worse path and actually end up all alone ....

Exactly, that is what I have been saying. Getting a second chance in life in terms of a life partner is so so rare and so precious. She should have valued this gift God gave her. And Anuj was so good to her. She was not only a divorcee (not using in a degoratory manner but defining her relationship status) but a mother of three grown up children and a grandmother of an infant. She should have been so grateful and protected her marriage.

She should have understood that her relationship with him is fragile.

Someone sane in this anupamaaverse show ask 1 very basic question to Anupamaa:

WHAT EXACTLY IS HER OBJECTIVE IN LIFE?

We all know her dream was to go to the States. 

Done

Open a dance academy. 

Done

Being a mother. Gave birth to 3, adopted 1. 

Done

Being a maid. Have the final say in every matter. 

Done

What is her goal in life? What does she want to achieve? Name? Fame? Wealth? She got all these by being Mrs Kapadia. 

Can someone enlighten me?