"Mein" (ARY Digital)-Ayeza Khan,Wahaj Ali #5 - Page 110

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

Why do we always have a profile for the victim that a victim is supposed to feel traumatised and be timid? Why can’t a victim emerge stronger and not cry a corner?Why are all the expectations of correct behaviour from Zaid and Ayra who have actually been wronged? But not from Asif and MJ who have done immoral things? Ayra lost her brother forever due to Asif it is expected from her to feel bitter and lash out at the family. But she did eventually got over that and was ready to work for Asif’s company with Zaid. Then MJ schemed to get all the shares and become her boss. Ayra clearly overhead Asif and MJ’s conversation that by doing this MJ has shown Ayra her place. But still we are still expecting Ayra to be patient? Why? Why shouldn’t she find her own place in the professional world, when she clearly knows that Asif and MJ are trying to put her down? Her behaviour is very normal for a person who is being attacked constantly and is fighting back.The only problem is that she doesn’t fit the usual profile of a victim in TV who just sits in a corner and cries. She fights back with as much strength as she has so she doesn’t fit the usual profile of a victim. And I don’t think victims should have any profile.She has been constantly wronged by Asif and MJ and she can fight back in a way she deems fit. Whether she loves Zaid or not everyone can have their own opinion but she has admittedly clearly that she loves him. MJ doesn’t deserve Zaid just because she loves him. She has lied to him, been dishonest with him and she has schemed to keep him away from Ayra. She needs to face consequences of her actions.

Exactly what I have been saying. She's not weak and bechaari. She's a strong woman who can afford to let Zaid do it his way. That's what I've been saying all the time. She's strong. So if she loved Zaid she'd be supportive rather than demanding.

Originally posted by: 2RsFan

Dunno but she did have tear in her eyes when she left the room. The old MJ never cried cos of Zaid.

She didn’t cry. Maybe a bit taken aback when Zaid put her on the spot again: “Qasoor mera hai keh uss ka muqabla mubashara jaffer se tha!” - she looked rattled when he said that - great acting by Ayeza there.

if anything she looked done with Zaid’s antics there and left furious. She slammed the door too

Originally posted by: tgota92

They’re a mismatch not because MJ is MJ and is a difficult person (Zaid already has experience with Ayra being difficult and that’s not an issue in him loving her despite the flaws).

The problem is that their moral values don’t align at all. There’s no depth in MJ’s love and there’s lack of empathy for Zaid. It was a disservice not to give her character an opportunity to redeem herself in this Ayra situation. She could have been Zaid’s ally. Could have told him the truth about Rayaan but she was dishonest, deceitful because her marriage was the only thing that was important to her. She even told Rayaan that this better not make her relationship suffer and that he best pray the truth doesn’t come out.

On top of that her dealing with it casually when Zaid is literally at his lowest point - feeling defeated and the lack of trust he has for everyone around him. The original script clearly has MJ not a give a shit about that but she’s worried about herself. Zaid can’t even eat because of how worried he is and this girl, whose brother can be a potential rapist, is so chill about this. Where is her conscience regarding this whole situation? Its dead.

She goes up to zaid and tells him “you can share with me if you want” - and I’m just like girl, why don’t YOU share what you know? You know Ayra was locked up and that Rayyan went into the room. So see? Even her being nice is actually just pure deceit. Zaid tells her all he cares about is the truth and yet she offers him none and lets this golden opportunity slide by.

There’s nothing romantic about this dynamic here. In fact , she ignores what Zaid is going through and literally invites her brother over for dinner. The guy who potentially assaulted Ayra and who Zaid want to kill on first sight. So yeah… she doesn’t care.

She still hasn’t come clean about her role in getting Ayra fired. Zaid is totally justified in treating her with suspicion and mistrust because she is part of the lies that surrounds him. She’s an orchestrator like his dad is. This is the MJ that’s in the script. Supported by Ayeza calling her a villain. Their trust issues will always remain. This was MJ’s chance to win his trust but she was too much of a coward.

Whatever Badar did in Turkey was for ratings views teasing the audience whatever but it’s also kind of enough to justify a rushed endgame of them if needed. Simple as that. Otherwise there’s not really a love story here. Just two dumped people ending up together

She knows Ayra was locked up. She knows what her brother is capable of...she also knows what Ayra is capable of...but she needs proof too. So she waits scared wondering what truth will come out. And she knows it's not going to end good for her. What speculations should she discuss with no proof? She herself looked shocked when Kash confirmed her fears...she didn't think it was possible for him to stoop so low though she accused him.why would she be shocked otherwise?

Yes, she has not come clean ..doesn't have to. Zaid has said it all ..you all have manipulated so much...which she didn't deny.

I watched the interview. All Zanjabeel said is there was no consummation and the scenes were made in such a way to keep audience guessing. She never said the romance didn't bloom there. It was unnatural for two ppl to be together and not consummate, she agreed- but she wrote the romance scenes also to tease the audience whether C occured or not.

How is two dumped ppl ending up together? 🤭 MJ said she loved him, that her love is enough...so if she ends up with him, she's not dumped. If he feels dumped , she can heal him.😉

I have watched this show from Zaid's pov. Have always said that .. Zanjabeel wrote it from his pov. This much I'm happy about. I hope the romance I saw from Zaid's side will be validated. Can only hope....

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Exactly what I have been saying. She's not weak and bechaari. She's a strong woman who can afford to let Zaid do it his way. That's what I've been saying all the time. She's strong. So if she loved Zaid she'd be supportive rather than demanding.

Even strong people are not limitless. You see both sides to her. Even now she told bhabhi that she can’t fight with them anymore. Also Zaid is not the one who needed support and who was being attacked, it was Ayra. She is the one who needed it.

Even when she joined the rival company she told him that it might be easy for him to forget what his dad did but it’s not easy for her and she has to find her own place on her own. When zaid said he can’t argue for this in front of his dad, she immediately did not demand this of him but said ok fine, let ME go and ask him. And she did. She presented her case. Politely and even reassuring him that she will not cheat with them. And we know she didn’t - she worked there honestly. If anyone got cheated and betrayed it was her. When MJ stole the contract and got her fired.

Ayra is reactionary and yes joining the rival company wasn’t the smartest move (even her bhabhi says it was dumb). But for me her motivations and intentions are what matter. Her motivation was to not be under asif and Mj’s mercy at work. And her intention was not to cheat them. And she never did.

In fact she left a lot of things to handle herself rather than counting on Zaid’s support. Even the rayyan thing, she told him the first time but not the second time. But like I said she’s strong but even strong people can’t go on forever without real assertive support. And we all know Zaid can only offer passive support to her because he has other relationships to handle too. She understands that but at times she needed more assertive support from him too - like this Rayyan issue

Originally posted by: 2RsFan

But she also cared for him when he was sick. Can you imagine someone like MJ staying awake whole night for her sick husband ?

Originally posted by: tgota92

Even strong people are not limitless. You see both sides to her. Even now she told bhabhi that she can’t fight with them anymore. Also Zaid is not the one who needed support and who was being attacked, it was Ayra. She is the one who needed it.

Even when she joined the rival company she told him that it might be easy for him to forget what his dad did but it’s not easy for her and she has to find her own place on her own. When zaid said he can’t argue for this in front of his dad, she immediately did not demand this of him but said ok fine, let ME go and ask him. And she did. She presented her case. Politely and even reassuring him that she will not cheat with them. And we know she didn’t - she worked there honestly. If anyone got cheated and betrayed it was her. When MJ stole the contract and got her fired.

Ayra is reactionary and yes joining the rival company wasn’t the smartest move (even her bhabhi says it was dumb). But for me her motivations and intentions are what matter. Her motivation was to not be under asif and Mj’s mercy at work. And her intention was not to cheat them. And she never did.

In fact she left a lot of things to handle herself rather than counting on Zaid’s support. Even the rayyan thing, she told him the first time but not the second time. But like I said she’s strong but even strong people can’t go on forever without real assertive support. And we all know Zaid can only offer passive support to her because he has other relationships to handle too. She understands that but at times she needed more assertive support from him too - like this Rayyan issue

Joining rival company.

At that time her priority should have been Zaid and not herself. If she was not in love, he is not a priority. If she is, he is... especially when he's begging her to stay with him.

That's why Zanjabeel said for some ppl being alone might be a boon...in Ayra's case, she can never be the wife Zaid wants...her independence and self respect comes first. Zaid is slightly patriarchal by nature. They are not a good match.

This is my understanding of Zaid. He wants his wife to be around him...he has said that many times.

Rayaan thing too...

If he said he will look into it, no need to make it a battle of egos if you trust your husband.

If you don't trust him, leave him. You're better off by yourself and find someone you can trust. Why drag the relationship!

Remember when Ayra told Zaid the first time about Rayyan? How some people were like she’s bluffing. She was so strong in front of Rayyan and now she’s exaggerating. Clearly they were wrong and that wasn’t the case.

She was strong in front of Rayyan because she has to put up that strong front. For Rayyan, For Asif. For MJ. She has to be an impenetrable wall in front of them for her own sake. Because she knows they’re out to get her.

But despite her strong front in front of Rayyan and putting him in his place, this girl literally shatters and breaks down in her room which people thought was fake. It wasn’t. She was rattled by that encounter and shaken up. When Zaid comes home she rushes for comfort and hugs and guess what she says?

“Mujhe kabhi akela mut chora karo please.”

So this line by her was even in the script. That she’s afraid of being left alone in that house and feels threatened.

Yes she’s strong and can level with people like Asif but that doesn’t mean she can’t break. She already did. And what did Zaid do? He did leave her alone eventually in that house with Rayyan who could stop by any time. In a way Bhabhi’s words are right. That “Jaan e anjaane main sahi magar tum ne uss ka Maan toora hai”

How all of this is being made about Zaid’s carelessness kind of makes sense. She was his responsibility to protect and he couldn’t do it. Perhaps he wanted everything to be fine so much that he refused to see the signs that this could be dangerous for Ayra. Even if you leave Asif aside, he should have thought about Rayyan at least. But he didn’t

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

Hmm what’s the big deal for caring for some one who has cold and fever. This is one of the most normal illness. Come on let’s be realistic here. Even when we are roommates in a hostel or housemates with friends we care for them if they have fever. It’s not like some lethal disease or some life test where in MJ stood by Zaid. Life test is what’s happening with Zaid now wherein he is felling he failed his wife whom he loves. He is trying to find out the truth where MJ can help him but is choosing not to. MJ loves him may be in the only way she knows how to love but it isn’t selfless. Infact the only selfless love in this entire 30 episodes is what Zaid feels for Ayra where in he is ready to leave everything for her happiness. Yes he has failed her a few times but he has also loved her selflessly and never lied to her. That’s why I don’t think he deserves to lose her.

How is MJ supposed to help him out when he doesn't trust her. She's supposed to drug Rayaan and find the truth?

The night she stayed awake staring at him in her bedroom.... normal roommates dont do that. He was not sick. She just couldn't take her gaze off him. And she confessed her love. So no point saying she doesn't love him...she does...to the point she will give him khula finally...no more zabardasti on him...that's the part where her mein has been sacrificed. So she's different from Asif there.

The argument can be on whether she deserves him or not. No point arguing on what she feels for him.

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Rayaan thing too...

If he said he will look into it, no need to make it a battle of egos if you trust your husband.

If you don't trust him, leave him. You're better off by yourself and find someone you can trust. Why drag the relationship!

If you want to talk about trust , none exists between Zaid and MJ either. They also need to part ways 🤣

at least with ayra zaid some level of trust is present. It’s just a timing issue. She wants him to act fast and he’s taking his time. Not that he doesn’t trust her