Hey Renee,
I always like reading your thoughts and whatever you say, I also change my mind 
But today Ar was just plain annoying and frankly, someone with low character. The way he is getting disturbed with Ruhi's DDP is eye-rolling, and from his behaviour, he is literally feeding more delusions into Ruhi's head that he is doing everything for her because he still holds feelings for her.
And I so cannot tolerate that he woke up having thoughts about her and then he actually went to her in the night is downright disgusting. Just because he is feeling bad doesn't excuse this kind of boundaries that he is crossing that he will actually go check in on her in her bedroom. Some lines just shouldn't be crossed. He could have done this in the morning. I can understand if he was just taking a stroll in the night like the example of the episode where Ruhi took the sleeping pills. But here it wasn't the case.
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