Vanshaj {EDT #53} Rishton ki Mahabharat - Page 109

Originally posted by: Moonks

Shreya, can you send some kind of warning or do anything related to this??

It depends on the kind of message. Asmita do you want to share screenshots with me in PM of what you're getting?

Originally posted by: A_for_Arpita

Kusum, with due respect I am not ready to take this you are the elder one card here

As I have already mentioned, I have explained enough. But why always me? Just because I am elder? That's not fair!

Preet Di didn't mean bullying, she clearly saw me alone explaining my stance against them that's why she called that out

Even Spandan was alone explaining his stand and i only supported his claim once before realising that he was wrong i even posted about it;

The rest of my posts i was pleading you not to leave the forum, then realised that i can't force anyone what to do and what not to do so i told that it was your choice but it would be nice ifnshe came back

I posted that this was an open forum and you can comeback when you have changed your minf

Preet di please tell me where in this post was i threatening anyoe? I didn't threaten anyone

This was what you posted ;

Whether or not you want to stay in this forum is your decision, nor am I anyone to judge, but as I neutral party here, it's seeming out to me like you people just want to bring up a threat like "ok stay like I want or I leave"

when did i do this?

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/164623969

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/164623822

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/164623438

I'm honestly tired , i tried to be reasonable , i advised Spandan to not do a wrong thing when it was needed , my words csn be wrong but my intentions aren't i didn't mean to bully anyone.....if anyone felt that what i did was bullying then i don't know maybe you would've gotten thst impression from certain phrases thst i use? I'm at a loss over here

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/164623438

Well...all I can say is my intention was not to hurt.anyone...

Disrespecting Arpi Dii is the last thing I wanted to do...

I don't feel there is any need to justify myself or my actions...

You felt hurt, & I am genuinely regreting to be the reason....

So I am extremely sorry Dii...

Please come back....

Originally posted by: Minionite

It depends on the kind of message. Asmita do you want to share screenshots with me in PM of what you're getting?

After Kusum Dii's warning those messages have stopped coming..

But I will share if they come back again....

Guys and girls, please drink lots of water and close the site for some time. I have myself gone through a virtual spat and it screwed my mental health. Please don't ruin your mental health for a petty fight. And of course don't jump into conclusions. Take a break for the time being. Let's rejoin after 2-3 days, when all of us are not hyperactive. Fights can be very stressful and they DO play a role in depression. I've experienced it myself and it was also due to a similar incident. It didn't end well for both the parties. So relax. Take a break from the forum. Do things which make you happy. Let's not talk about this more. Every one has already put forward their points. And I think there's no more need of explanation from anyone's side. The only thing left is to reconsider. I'm sure both Arpita and Spandan would appreciate if we give them some time to reconsider their opinions.

Pete, and Asmita please relax. Don't be too sad. Don't let this fight affect your emotional state of mind. Even Arpita would NEVER want anyone to ruin their mental health because of this. All we can do is pacify her, apologize her and we did. We have already spent a lot of time over here and for the sake of the friendship, let's give her some time too.

Arpita and Spandan take your time to reconsider. We'll all miss you but we don't want you back at the sake of your comfort. Take your time and do return if you feel like. We are all here to welcome you back!

Also, this is going to be my final reply about this matter. I think I've done every part possible on my behalf. It's up to y'all whether you want to accept my suggestion or not.

Even here when i told about what was bothering me i was being really polite , i don'tknow why you posted about thst over here todaycause i thought you weren'thurt over it yesterday, i didn't mean to hurt you Arpi di I'm really sorry if i have

Even when intold you about that "shut up posts" i was being polite , i thought that all was well after your reply to it....i don't know where i did what to earn the tag of "ganging up to trouble you"

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/164620853

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/164620871

Thanks for the post Kusum and no I am not angry or didn't feel bad.

Just to clarify I didn't say they were being bully to Arpi, in fact Pete actually responded that he was trying to stop her from leaving..In fact he stopped Spandan in another thread.

I have been close to Pete since start and I know he wouldn't bully Arpi

I just expressed my view on what Arpi might have felt bad about or how it appeared prima faceè

While I do understand that Spandan is still a kid, so he might not have realized.

Now I really hope all of us should get over it. Our forum should be such, that if we feel bad we express ourselves. It's our forum afterall....

Originally posted by: FlauntPessimism

Thanks for the post Kusum and no I am not angry or didn't feel bad.

Just to clarify I didn't say they were being bully to Arpi, in fact Pete actually responded that he was trying to stop her from leaving..In fact he stopped Spandan in another thread.

I have been close to Pete since start and I know he wouldn't bully Arpi

I just expressed my view on what Arpi might have felt bad about or how it appeared prima faceè

While I do understand that Spandan is still a kid, so he might not have realized.

Now I really hope all of us should get over it. Our forum should be such, that if we feel bad we express ourselves. It's our forum afterall....

Thank you for believing in me di

Goodnight and happy Makar Sankranti

Originally posted by: FlauntPessimism

Thanks for the post Kusum and no I am not angry or didn't feel bad.

Just to clarify I didn't say they were being bully to Arpi, in fact Pete actually responded that he was trying to stop her from leaving..In fact he stopped Spandan in another thread.

I have been close to Pete since start and I know he wouldn't bully Arpi

I just expressed my view on what Arpi might have felt bad about or how it appeared prima faceè

While I do understand that Spandan is still a kid, so he might not have realized.

Now I really hope all of us should get over it. Our forum should be such, that if we feel bad we express ourselves. It's our forum afterall....