Vanshaj {EDT #53} Rishton ki Mahabharat - Page 105

Originally posted by: A_for_Arpita

I have always tried to ignore stuffs, we did talk about alot of off topic stuffs in EDT before too. Mostly I and Pete used to rant all that but we always used to come back on main topic after sometime but recently the kind of spamming Spandan did it was next to impossible to find episode related main stuffs here, still I didn't say anything because they were having fun, enjoying and that's exactly why we come here to enjoy right? But at one point the spamming DURING episode updates pissed me off that's why I mentioned that issue to Suyash Bhai, it was purely a convo between us about moderation as in discipline but they took that in a wrong way and made a huge deal about it, still I tried to explain politely, instead of respecting that suggestion they are still mocking me saying stuffs like report kar denge, EDT se darr k bhag aaye etc

Sorry this behaviour is unacceptable to me Kusum.

I have always respected each and everyone in this forum even when I disagreed with them. This kind of behaviour I am not gonna accept because even I come here to spend some light hearted quality time.

Nothing against anyone, extremely sorry that I felt I have some sort of right on people here.

I just don't feel like engaging myself here anymore. So yeah thank you guys for the good time here

Dii ...

His intention was not to mock you at all...

I can say on his behalf that he respects you a lottt...

Don't take it in any other way...

We are ready to leave that matter...

Please do it...& Kuch dino me bhul jayenge..

If you go like this then that boy won't be able to forgive himself ever.. probably..

We will move on from this...

Think about it...

It is a request.... please....

Originally posted by: A_for_Arpita

Asmi even I could've said "This is how I talk" when Pete said 6 mahine se Meri Shut Up Pete chubh raha hai ushe but I didn't right? You can't say this is how he or she talks deal with it because things don't work that way.

Nehi bachcha nehi hai, the way he talks he is anything but bachcha

Anyways no hard feelings babah! It's just I am not feeling like engaging here more.

Dii...I know about mental peace..

I am not gonna force you...

It is your life...

Your mental peace is important...

But he & we all doo respect you...

Originally posted by: agreatwcr

Arpita, I wouldn't say what Spandan was totally not offensive. Such jokes can be very offensive but don't take it to your heart. We all are here to vent out our feelings for the show not to make people happy or proud for us. See even we had a spat yesterday but I didn't leave the forum. And that's not because I'm insensitive and I don't get affected by such stuff. The reason is I know I'm here only for the discussions related to the show. What others think doesn't matter to me. So don't leave your other friends just because someone made fun of you. Moroever I'm sure Spandan didn't intentionally do that to make you feel offended. We all know these newcomers are very chill and they expect us to understand their jokes the way they do. If there's a miscommunication over there, then there's no need to quit completely. I wouldn't force you to continue your time here but as a friend and as someone who enjoys to read your POVs, I am just suggesting your for a reconsideration

I know jokes can go wrong many times unintentionally like what happened between us, yesterday I did tease you even if it's just to finish the AT still I did tease you and I took complete responsibility of that. I never shy away from admitting if I do anything wrong even if it's unintentional or hit of the moment. Like when I suggested them not to go off topic I myself corrected mine too and shifted to AT with regards to NeiVika related off topic discussions that we do. So it wasn't like I only suggested, I executed that suggestive behaviour even on myself.

See yeh tho TU bhi janti hai whatever happened between us that's entirely different from this Spandan thing lol

Anyways I will Tweet My POV on show.

Originally posted by: A_for_Arpita

I have always tried to ignore stuffs, we did talk about alot of off topic stuffs in EDT before too. Mostly I and Pete used to rant all that but we always used to come back on main topic after sometime but recently the kind of spamming Spandan did it was next to impossible to find episode related main stuffs here, still I didn't say anything because they were having fun, enjoying and that's exactly why we come here to enjoy right? But at one point the spamming DURING episode updates pissed me off that's why I mentioned that issue to Suyash Bhai, it was purely a convo between us about moderation as in discipline but they took that in a wrong way and made a huge deal about it, still I tried to explain politely, instead of respecting that suggestion they are still mocking me saying stuffs like report kar denge, EDT se darr k bhag aaye etc

Sorry this behaviour is unacceptable to me Kusum.

I have always respected each and everyone in this forum even when I disagreed with them. This kind of behaviour I am not gonna accept because even I come here to spend some light hearted quality time.

Nothing against anyone, extremely sorry that I felt I have some sort of right on people here.

I just don't feel like engaging myself here anymore. So yeah thank you guys for the good time here

I got your points and i only had problems with your phrasing , if you has mentioned it more clearly then this whole thing wouldn't have happened ( even you mentioned this) and we apologised and made up for it

Plus only Spandan can defend for himself "that EDT se bhag kar aaye" line felt too much even for me and i asked him not to do that in GDT 5

That taking it too far thing was because one user kept saying stuff about senior member junior member and i was replying to her saying that there is no such thing as that , that was not about you att all it was about them

Also you mentioned thst we are wrong to get offended , no one knows what might offend the other person so i guess it's only fair if i accept that you found Spandan's words as offensive, but that doesn't mean that we should walk on eggshells around them , we tried to have a mature convo , some regrettable words were spoken and we made up for it. We had such a nice time yesterday in the forum

But if you still feel like leaving the forum then no one can force you to stay i guess , we would be really happy if you change your mind and will miss you if you leave the forum

No hard feelings

Originally posted by: A_for_Arpita

I have always tried to ignore stuffs, we did talk about alot of off topic stuffs in EDT before too. Mostly I and Pete used to rant all that but we always used to come back on main topic after sometime but recently the kind of spamming Spandan did it was next to impossible to find episode related main stuffs here, still I didn't say anything because they were having fun, enjoying and that's exactly why we come here to enjoy right? But at one point the spamming DURING episode updates pissed me off that's why I mentioned that issue to Suyash Bhai, it was purely a convo between us about moderation as in discipline but they took that in a wrong way and made a huge deal about it, still I tried to explain politely, instead of respecting that suggestion they are still mocking me saying stuffs like report kar denge, EDT se darr k bhag aaye etc

Sorry this behaviour is unacceptable to me Kusum.

I have always respected each and everyone in this forum even when I disagreed with them. This kind of behaviour I am not gonna accept because even I come here to spend some light hearted quality time.

Nothing against anyone, extremely sorry that I felt I have some sort of right on people here.

I just don't feel like engaging myself here anymore. So yeah thank you guys for the good time here

I admit that I have done wrong and saying sorry for that

You are important to the forum , as when you told us that you might left the show and the forum after VH , I was the one who told you first not to leave and I am definitely not important to this forum so don't leave , I am leaving

Thanks for all the love you guys , you have given to me , I will never forget the love you have given to me and the thing is maybe I am unable to forget the love you have given to me

Thanks a lot

Guys. Relax! Why are y'all being so hyper. Remember we're the only non toxic forum in this site? Gussa chodho warna Kabir ko bolkar ek bomb yahi fenk dungi

Let the bygones by bygones and rant happily the way we used to. We all got offended at some point or the other. So let's just have a collective apology and move on

Originally posted by: A_for_Arpita

I have always tried to ignore stuffs, we did talk about alot of off topic stuffs in EDT before too. Mostly I and Pete used to rant all that but we always used to come back on main topic after sometime but recently the kind of spamming Spandan did it was next to impossible to find episode related main stuffs here, still I didn't say anything because they were having fun, enjoying and that's exactly why we come here to enjoy right? But at one point the spamming DURING episode updates pissed me off that's why I mentioned that issue to Suyash Bhai, it was purely a convo between us about moderation as in discipline but they took that in a wrong way and made a huge deal about it, still I tried to explain politely, instead of respecting that suggestion they are still mocking me saying stuffs like report kar denge, EDT se darr k bhag aaye etc

Sorry this behaviour is unacceptable to me Kusum.

I have always respected each and everyone in this forum even when I disagreed with them. This kind of behaviour I am not gonna accept because even I come here to spend some light hearted quality time.

Nothing against anyone, extremely sorry that I felt I have some sort of right on people here.

I just don't feel like engaging myself here anymore. So yeah thank you guys for the good time here

Originally posted by: agreatwcr

Guys. Relax! Why are y'all being so hyper. Remember we're the only non toxic forum in this site? Gussa chodho warna Kabir ko bolkar ek bomb yahi fenk dungi

Let the bygones by bygones and rant happily the way we used to. We all got offended at some point or the other. So let's just have a collective apology and move on

This! I can't force anyone to stay or leave but atleast consider the first line and the second para of this post before making any decisions

Originally posted by: Spandan24

kahir leave it

I admit that I have done wrong and saying sorry for that

You are important to the forum , as when you told us that you might left the show and the forum after VH , I was the one who told you first not to leave and I am definitely not important to this forum so don't leave , I am leaving

Thanks for all the love you guys , you have given to me , I will never forget the love you have given to me and the thing is maybe I am unable to forget the love you have given to me

Thanks a lot

Abbb you please relax...

Yeh kya hai...

Abb main bhi chod du kya???yeh forum...

Please let it just pass...

Mujhme tujhe samjhane ki himmat nahin hai abb...

Originally posted by: Spandan24

kahir leave it

I admit that I have done wrong and saying sorry for that

You are important to the forum , as when you told us that you might left the show and the forum after VH , I was the one who told you first not to leave and I am definitely not important to this forum so don't leave , I am leaving

Thanks for all the love you guys , you have given to me , I will never forget the love you have given to me and the thing is maybe I am unable to forget the love you have given to me

Thanks a lot

Everyone is important in this forum , i can't force you to stay or leave like I've already said twice before but just think of this before you make a decision ;

"Does the good times outweigh the bad or the bad times outweigh the good?"

Really think about this for a moment and do what your heart says.....also this is an open forum , even if you leave ( which i don't want to happen but I'm trying not to put my personal opinions over here) you can always come back and we would get back to normalcy

The rest is in your hands