Bigg Boss 17: DDT- Weekend Ka Vaar 30th Dec 2023 - Page 135

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

As far as abhishek's narrative about violence and all goes, it's isha's narrative, let's not forget that and she is a sly fox, evil inside out. The whole of UD cast and crew supports him and refutes everything that Isha has been claiming. He has a short fuse, that's true but I feel that he is basically just a simple and harmless guy with very simplistic logic that this is how one has to behave in BB to go to the top, sid and asim being his role models interpreted in a very superficial and simplistic manner.

Originally posted by: EXOL

he himself has admitted many times of him being violent.. even samarth said it before entering into the house.. and there are videos of isha with black eye…ofc game wise he is better..and i can see him giving his best but that doesn’t negate his aggressive side

exactly. fine, let's say that isha is a liar and we don't accept all of her allegations against abhishek, but the part about him being violent towards her is not a lie because the man himself hasn't denied those allegations. so why do i need to care about what other people who were NOT in the relationship and NOT victims of his abuse are saying about him? we have seen how he makes an issue out of every little thing and is dramatic about wanting "insaaf" from bigg boss and sallu whenever he feels he has been wronged. you think he'd let isha accuse him repeatedly if she was lying and not go on and on and on about how she's lying about him? never

Originally posted by: EXOL

yes i can see how relieved he feels …. sallu solved his issue just like that .. bande ki tension khatam .. the way he was laughing and suddenly tried to switch to fake crying ewww .. iska khud ka koi game play nahi hai .. loser

saw it coming from a mile away. jab ayesha ai thi and log bolne lage thay that munnu is not favored because if he were, they wouldn't do him dirty like this meine to bola tha makers are just mad at him for not giving them the content they want so they'll get content out of him themselves. phir end mein sallu khud munnu ko clean chit de kar jae ga and ayesha ko villain bana k jae ga. that's exactly what happened today. this was all just to show k dekho winner ki kitni mushkil journey thi, kitna mazloom hai wo jo is larki ne aa kar usko itna torture kia for fame but he still rose up like the true winner that he is

OK I wasn't aware of all that since I have just started watching BB.

Originally posted by: vibecheck

exactly. fine, let's say that isha is a liar and we don't accept all of her allegations against abhishek, but the part about him being violent towards her is not a lie because the man himself hasn't denied those allegations. so why do i need to care about what other people who were NOT in the relationship and NOT victims of his abuse are saying about him? we have seen how he makes an issue out of every little thing and is dramatic about wanting "insaaf" from bigg boss and sallu whenever he feels he has been wronged. you think he'd let isha accuse him repeatedly if she was lying and not go on and on and on about how she's lying about him? never

Firstly as you said he himself accepted it. His hypocrisy and cringeness is purely because he can dish it but cannot take it and starts barking and going mad.

Let us not forget women/men get abused with NO one knowing about it because abusive people can be charming, goodlooking and deceptive. This narrative needs to go out the window. Also Isha might have been stand offish and not as friendly so their opinion is not unbiased. I say this even though I supported PCC who supports him.

Secondly, his one cast mate (I recently came across an interview) said that oh if it was so bad why didn't she leave? Sorry is she on crack? Many people in abusive relationships take years to leave if not ever. I am sure we all know such stories personally or through the grapevine. Also this same cast mate said he used to cry and go nuts, he himself said he locked himself for her marriage scene, if these people (I mean his cast mates or fans on social media) find this normal, then their opinion anyway is questionable at best.

Aur waise bhi, we generally do not care about a contestant's history or geography, this is being discussed as its part of the show only. He gets personal too as does she - fair and square, he started it first by gossiping about her and how she loves partying with her mother

Originally posted by: vibecheck

exactly. fine, let's say that isha is a liar and we don't accept all of her allegations against abhishek, but the part about him being violent towards her is not a lie because the man himself hasn't denied those allegations. so why do i need to care about what other people who were NOT in the relationship and NOT victims of his abuse are saying about him? we have seen how he makes an issue out of every little thing and is dramatic about wanting "insaaf" from bigg boss and sallu whenever he feels he has been wronged. you think he'd let isha accuse him repeatedly if she was lying and not go on and on and on about how she's lying about him? never

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Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel

Firstly as you said he himself accepted it. His hypocrisy and cringeness is purely because he can dish it but cannot take it and starts barking and going mad.

Let us not forget women/men get abused with NO one knowing about it because abusive people can be charming, goodlooking and deceptive. This narrative needs to go out the window. Also Isha might have been stand offish and not as friendly so their opinion is not unbiased. I say this even though I supported PCC who supports him.

Secondly, his one cast mate (I recently came across an interview) said that oh if it was so bad why didn't she leave? Sorry is she on crack? Many people in abusive relationships take years to leave if not ever. I am sure we all know such stories personally or through the grapevine. Also this same cast mate said he used to cry and go nuts, he himself said he locked himself for her marriage scene, if these people find this normal, then their opinion anyway does not matter.

Aur waise bhi, we generally do not care about a contestant's history or geography, this is being discussed as its part of the show only. He gets personal too as does she - fair and square, he started it first by gossiping about her and how she loves partying with her mother

@bold: So true, I just saw that IV. I am shocked that in today's age with so many cases people are still so stupid to not know how difficult it is to get out of an abusive relationship.

@Underline: How are his co-actos finding this behaviour normal? He acted like this in front of everyone, this is madness not possessiveness.

Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel

@bold - I agree and you are right, it is recency bias, dono ne same hi kia, lekin Munna is quite the gaslighter which Abhishek isn't.

And you are absolutely correct, I myself found Ayesha's behaviour dubious and cringe, I think she did not anticipate what was going to come her way. Point though is, everyone voiced that for her, here and on social media but fake sirf ek ko bulaa rahe hai which is infuriating.

Also like you said both were heartless but Abhishek toh phir bhi muh par heartless tha, Munawar toh ajeeb sa idiot hai jo khud ko bechara dikhaa raha hai despite being the fk boi. I mean I don't like Abhishek (aur fake hi sahi) usne apologize toh kia and grovelled.

I agree Ankita is very compassionate and in these moments she never laughs or makes fun.

Originally posted by: EXOL

but I will forever be salty over the fact he was nominated for entire season without any of his fault...how long could he have anyway survived with such a nomination ...

This I agree but I think he took this Season long nomination thing very lightly…….he didn’t fight at all for whatever reasons if he could’ve shown some rebellion bb might’ve removed his nomination because this was actually unfair in nature as he was not in any fault for such punishment but he showed no interest neither gave any fight nor speak for himself and I still wonder why…….On contrary Rider who was actually nominated because of his own fault did more cribbing and crying for season long nomination and forced bb to revoke it by any hook or crook

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

@bold: So true, I just that IV. I am shocked that in today's age with so many cases people are still so stupid to not know how difficult it is to get out of an abusive relationship.

@Underline: How are his co-actos finding this behaviour normal? He acted like this in front of everyone, this is madness not possessiveness.

God knows, they think he is friendly, loving and affectionate to them so he cannot be abusive. Probably feel sorry for him because he cries - fact is just because he loves someone and wants to spend all this time sucking the life out of that person's soul doesn't mean they owe him something.