Originally posted by: KaunIMEMYSELF
While we are at it, one more thing which was left unanswered!
People cheered when Aksharaji confronted Abhi in the temple with ' Agar Neil ki jagah main mar jaati toh tum usse bhi divorce de dethe?'
Not sure why Abhi didn't answer the question. He was either reeling after all the things he heard her say just moments ago, or maybe he didn't have any reason to answer, 'coz if she didn't know it in her heart already, maybe she just didn't need to know!
But I always knew the answer to that question! I knew it even the day she asked, but it would've sounded presumptuous if I had answered it then! Now that their story is complete, you can be sure my answer is correct!
After seeing how Abhi had become when Akshu left him clueless for an year, angry, volatile, full of resentment, suffering from anxiety and insomnia...There was still hope she'd return, but it still affected him to such extreme!
I think if Akshu died instead of Neil, there'd be no more hope! So Abhi just Neil ko nahin, puri duniya ko divorce de detha, he'd probably drink himself to death! There'd be nothing more for him to live for! Not his Akshu! Not even his Ruh! Not even his Betu!
Without Akshu, there'd be no Abhi IMO!
Again, my 2 cents!
cause mandir confession was supposed to be start of "savage" akshara sharma giving back to world who wronged her... whatever bs. ++ Start of small doses Mera pati mahan Mera pati devta xyz. That savagery ruined her character and everything she stood for previously.
I used to think ak was selfish, she's rude and narcissistic to not see others pain, hid her kid and was fine with birlas thinking her kids are dead, then didn't allow abhi near abhir, invited abhi to a resort and had sex with her husband on the same day. I thought this was a sudden change due to creative issues as nav was introduced as a contrast to abhi, a good man with clean slate. Then i rewatched the show, since start of gen leap till the end. I understood no, ak was always like this. It's just it was hidden under good make up clothes and eyes beseeching you for your wrongness,how everyone around her used to be like wah wah akshara mahan akshu Zindabad, how abhi (beyond the kairav drama, even he had given up when they reunited) was like meri akshu sahi baki sab galat. When she left her family and went to hide in hills, all these stopped. Abhis hurt was glaring, manjari was there as a voice to audience how he's hurting, even Manish at times yelled at ak for her mistakes, kairav acting was horrendous, abhi abhir had bonded, even aru used to support abhi for her own reason, ruhi was there as a reminder that abhi was a great parent figure. But traces of selfishness was always there previously. Fresh off the thoughts in my head
- neil died, Manju and aru in their states blamed her, abhi was like why you never listened to me. All these might as well be buzz to ears, she's like ok woh sab thik but meri baat suno. No empathy, nothing. Bas meri baat suno then you will understand the situation. Bhai they are not looking to understand situation, they want to grieve. No understanding of issues. Maybe this happened with sirat too, if she had given aro time and space she wouldn't have grown up hating her and feeling inferior.
- she came back from khera, she saw abhi being depressed unable to sleep, taking pills, Manju told her off, birlas lost a kid and was losing hospital, her own family was in prison. But over all the pain people were going through, especially abhi who's unable to balance his family members, she's like you didn't trust me. Really now? Did you trust him enough to tell truth. This is exactly abhi said to her, if it was me who left what about then? Once again might as well be buzz to her ears, she was stuck on you didn't trust me, you did this. No realisation from her side.
Actually it happened like abhi told, the moment he left her, she went and found another man. That's the fundamental difference I guess, she once again saw nothing wrong, made a decision based on others state of what they told her. No self retrospection nothing.
Same with abhir. As a husband abhi failed, you didn't give him a chance to know your kid how he can fail as a imaginary test of being best father to compete with nav. When the leap epis started, ak was like "abhir has a family and he could have it all, but I have kept him separate" where was this realisation all these years? She only went to live with her family when it suited her, aka the custody case, didn't matter how hurt her family must have felt. Her empathy synpathy was all gone and she was standing there as villain dresses in awful clothes and eyes full of dark make up looking like a evil vamp. She fought him repeatedly only to lose in court cause once again she saw what others did, not what she did. To summarise ak, I have always felt this line was enough

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