MT: Do you relate with this?

I think I do lol

I may not always relate with this, but in Real life sometimes when the time came I enjoyed my solitude when I was among the people with whom I don't get along , I used to avoid certain people If I don't feel comfortable with them, In real life I'm pro at ignoring people with whom I don't like to interact.

In Indiaforum you know me, I'm an open book.

Overall anywhere Most of the time I like my personal space, As a normal human I like social interactions too based on my mood, time and energy levels.

At this point Music is my best friend and my therapy, I never feel like a loner bcz of Music.

Music and books are my best friends too.

They are always there for me and even I really enjoy just being by mself.

That is true.. you will notice that most try to cover their bad character with gifts and foods ...

I like to look at life in phases. I have been through a phase, where I have met people, and there is absolutely nothing there. I am fine with that, because it is better to be alone than to be in the wrong company. This is the best phase to grow as a person, because you can focus on your health, career, finances, relationships etc. Trust that some day you will meet your people and you will.

Earlier this year I met one of my coworkers in person (we were working from home due to the pandemic) before I met this person my impression of them was they were honest, dedicated, hardworking, and thoughtful, then I met them in person and they were incredibly sweet and generous. I could not believe they were exactly like I thought they were. I am currently in my happy go lucky phase and I am finding that in this phase I am attracting a lot of happy go lucky people around me in person.

I am someone who tends to pay attention to that one rare person in the crowd who is honest/principled/has integrity, because I want to be like them. I have no interest in following the rest of the crowd.

So many loners I have met, are Intelligent and fun people. Sometimes they are the victims of other people's judgement. So they decide to enjoy the company of a few or just their own.

Not everyone is the same.

Originally posted by: YourCat

That is true.. you will notice that most try to cover their bad character with gifts and foods ...

Who? The loners?

Originally posted by: TotalBetty

Who? The loners?

No .. the one who disappoints.. it is like a recompensate of their bad behavior....

Originally posted by: YourCat

No .. the one who disappoints.. it is like a recompensate of their bad behavior....

You a loner?

(Sorry for prying, that’s what I do)