Deepika & Ranveer ~ KWK S8 Episode Discussion (written page1) - Page 36

Originally posted by: Mrignaini

Notice it's always Kareena and Kat fans who pop up in a DP topic to post how contrastingly Kareena and Kat fawn over their partner. Not everyone can be all "Saifu this, Saifu that". It seems people have issues when they don't see the stereotypical dynamic of the woman pandering to the man.

How do you know there isn't give and take in their relationship?!

Anyhow, forum dynamics are more interesting than the actors themselves. I wonder what hold Kat fans have on RK fans. Kat fans bash RK the most on this forum but they choose to attack DP in vengeance. Now that's a simp relationship.

Or could be that no one cares enough about Kat so she's achieved "America's sweetheart", the can do no wrong status that Madhuri prior to JDJ used to hold on this forum.

Difference between RK-DP and RK-KK after break up

Originally posted by: TorinoPasta

I am sorry but life is not all black and white like that. Maybe you are lucky to witness only rosy relationships around you , so you do not really understand the aftermath a broken relationship leaves.

And what do you mean by work on yourself??? If for example someone has cheated on you and hence the relationship failed, how is it your fault? Isnt it obvious you will take time to trust the next person ?? And iska matlab ye bhi toh nahi ki koi pasand aye to uske sath na rahu.

If I like someone, I am going to spend time with that person and also be honest ki previous relationship se emotional baggage hai. Honesty is the key. If the other person is not okay with this, he is free to leave. Its that person' s choice. Koi bechara nahi hai yaha.

Sheesh a lot of unnecessary assumptions there

Work on yourself means work on your peace of mind …doing things u like …focusing on work and career…financial independence and investments ….mom and dad relationships or relationships with friends and cousins …turning to spirituality for strength…focusing in physical well being …gratitude journals, therapy ..…regaining energies and energy peace via that ..this in turn puts one in a better state of mind to be more accepting of another relationship …and be more open and optimistic …turning inward and not outward for validation and clarity …not by getting into situationships

Not “work on urself” as in fix yourself coz I’ve done something wrong

Fix yourself coz u went through a lot

That is exactly how I recovered from a shitty relationship fyi…rosy relationships my ass…some nerve there acting like none one else has experience with bad relationships …

Originally posted by: lauriesa

“His principles and values are so strong, and that to me was overwhelming. This is not my first relationship. So by that time, you know what are the important things. The important things are not necessarily the frills and the fun but it's what's going to take you through in the long run,

Yes we have:

Just last year Katrina on KWK:

It was my destiny and it was really meant to be. There were so many coincidences that at one point all of it just felt so unreal.”

The most important thing that happened is the way Vicky is with his family - Sunny, his mom and his dad, it's so incredible." She added that during their dating period, she realized that the kind of respect, loyalty and importance he gives to his family, is the same kind of respect, loyalty and importance he will give to her family as well, when they get married.

I think one thing I know for a fact, is I know Katrina wont be praising Ranbir all over the place and actually acts like he doesnt exist. And she dated that man 3x longer than Deepika.

Deepika cant answer who is the better actor between Ranveer and Ranbir while engaged to Ranveer, Ranbir boxers, talked about Ranbir gave her the best romantic gift etc etc all while engaged . I don't think Deepika has ever loved anyone as she did Ranbir and it still that way to this day which is sad,. I think she prefers to be the chaser then be chased, when you chase her she doesnt recuperate as much.

I think equations with exes differs when it comes to Kat as well. She is fine with Salman and his fam. Has a great equation with him, works with him etc. We all know Salman had raised his hand on her in public. That is disrespect. But she is fine with it or forgot it. Many can argue how can you be fine with a person who mistreated you like that publically.

Originally posted by: pathaka

Well I’m just going by what she said

The reality could be different don’t deny that …

It’s just how they came across here / how they usually come across everywhere

Case in point when ranveer prasies her, he just praises her

When deepika praises him it’s usually in relation to what he did for her …he was supportive of her struggle , he was ok with her being paid higher …

The way it comes across, she made him feel like he had to earn her …and she’s just the prize he’s lucky to have …and she gave in coz he put up with her worst times …

I mean Vicky Katrina are another couple wherein the female is much more popular than the male …but their dynamic never seems skewed like this ..it actually seems equal despite their net worth being different

Sau takke ki baat kahi hai bhai

agar relationship mein ho toh pyar aur izzat dono hona mangta hai

I don't understand why Deepika's fans are upset that RK, Alia, or Katrina's fans are celebrating. They're having a field day because Deepika has been revealed for the very things she accused Ranbir of while portraying herself as a victim. Ranbir and Alia's relationship isn't flawless, but time has exposed both Deepika and Ranbir are peas of the same pond. Deepika's team has done a good job in managing her image, and I'm sure they'll continue to do so over time. Let RK's fans enjoy their moment. It won't last long.

Originally posted by: bollyqueen0

More comfortable than my partner grabbing the back of my neck to put me in a car as if I'm a criminal and he's a cop. Or kicking my dupatta off stage or stepping on my wedding veil

yeh kab hua aur kiske saath

Just imagine you had been sincerely in love with a narcissist like Ranbir who makes you believe that it is your fault that he cheats on you with another colleague...was this man only with you because of your body???!

Then you encounter Ranveer, another colleague who is - very obviously - physically attracted to you (just leaving another relationship)... Would you be confident about the new relationship even when being also attracted to him???!

Deepika couldn't trust her love...I wonder who of the members really can relate to the damage Ranbir does/did to the women in his life.

Of course I don't know if it is an equal taking and giving in Ranveer-Deepika's marriage but as long as they take the energy and dedication to make their marriage work and remind themselves of their emotional bond (at least during the time for a talk-show like KWK) it is okay to value the positive in their relationship.

To those who brought Ranbir into this thread: Does anybody really believe that Ranbir is happy with his life...or makes an Alia happy who has to convince herself to have got the man of her love life?

Originally posted by: TorinoPasta

I think equations with exes differs when it comes to Kat as well. She is fine with Salman and his fam. Has a great equation with him, works with him etc. We all know Salman had raised his hand on her in public. That is disrespect. But she is fine with it or forgot it. Many can argue how can you be fine with a person who mistreated you like that publically.

When did thqt happen? I mean Salman hitting Kat?

As far as I remember there was this news circulating that Salman did not like some revealing outfit that she had worn on the set of Mashallah and chased her with a stick although the authenticity of that could be challenged. But your statement makes it seem like it is a well piblicized fact. What did I miss?

Salman was obviously raising his hand on Ash and the proof was her hand in a sling and she attended some award show with a black eye.

Having said that, Kat has always been close with his family and a good friend to Arpita. That cant be compared to DP's quite strange obsession with RK that we witnessd just a few years ago. And I will keep emphasizing that DP and RK had a very short relationship. Probably a year and or less when they were very young. It is certainly not comparable to Salman Kat.

Sab kyun ro rahein hain.Social media is flooded. Google trends would have given a blockbuster opening to any film.

It is surreal..and humbling, the impact some people can have on others just by existing.

Originally posted by: Clochette

Just imagine you had been sincerely in love with a narcissist like Ranbir who makes you believe that it is your fault that he cheats on you with another colleague...was this man only with you because of your body???!

Then you encounter Ranveer, another colleague who is - very obviously - physically attracted to you (just leaving another relationship)... Would you be confident about the new relationship even when being also attracted to him???!

Deepika couldn't trust her love...I wonder who of the members really can relate to the damage Ranbir does/did to the women in his life.

Of course I don't know if it is an equal taking and giving in Ranveer-Deepika's marriage but as long as they take the energy and dedication to make their marriage work and remind themselves of their emotional bond (at least during the time for a talk-show like KWK) it is okay to value the positive in their relationship.

To those who brought Ranbir into this thread: Does anybody really believe that Ranbir is happy with his life...or makes an Alia happy who has to convince herself to have got the man of her love life?

Someone asked why nobody bash katrina after their break up and reason is that she has self respected and is a dignifed woman. She isnt a a big hypocrite like dp who act like this (see gif) in front of him and attack him with her PR.

She had had at least 5 different relationships before she meet rs.