Originally posted by: nonam
why deepika gets this other standard she is judged by, anushka played the field too, ranveer, shahid, rk etc before virat. ash is the bahurani she dated before abhishek...and to mention the men, ranveer was the one in a relationship, at least she was single....hypocritical
I think people have a problem with simultaneously dating multiple men, as opposed to just dating multiple men in the past …
RK was caned for his battery low jokes (indicating he was dating multiple women at the same time and was cheating on them) on the same show
While deepikas statement is not as problematic …her “I saw several men at that time but kept going back to him” sounds icky and almost disrespectful because he’s being treated like he’s some safety blanket instead of an actual person with feelings …this same behavior will be deemed highly toxic if the genders were switched I.e guy “kept coming back” to a girl after having his fun with the others
she could have worded it better
The whole Jada will comparison is a bit extreme but Jada and smith did exhibit behavior wherein she thinks of him as someone who will stick by no matter what….and she continues with her transgressions and comes back to him…dosent divorce him….to the point that the guy almost seems gaslit to believe she’s doing this coz she loves him a lot and is coming back to him…it’s kinda twisted
It’s fine to experience mental health issues/talk abt it and seek support but I don’t think it’s fine to use a living breathing person as a human emotional crutch for a lifetime …it does not work
Edited by pathaka - 1 years ago
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