Anupama kept on pedestal making her disillusioned

I do not understand in this serial why all keep praising anupama as best for everything although 99% times shes wrong

All say shes best mother - really look at her kids toshu and pakhi brats and misbehaving, samar not educated enough for todays age. Look at how she mistreats CA allows shahs to mistreat her. I mean can such ahuman be best mother

All say shes best wife - really vanraj did not like her all 26 years ok it was not her fault but she could try to dress modern or improve english. Village woman g to USA with husband and learn english dress in american style why to make hubby happy only no. She never changed. Even when anuj put her to finnacial course or corrects english shes not bothered. How she treats anuj like a option. She did not even stay with him in paralysis and went off to celebrate at shahs leaving CA to take care of daddy. Is such a woman best wife?

All say shes best bahu - Is she to kapadiyas. How she humiliates barkha, adhik, ankush in front of all for shahs etc she does no give malati or gk kaka same respect as leela and hasmukh

All say shes best daughter - what a joke? She only remembers bhavesh and kanta if shes thrown on roads by anuj and vanraj and no place to live and no one to sponsore for her apartment(anuj did)

All say shes best bhabhi - what she did to malvika lmost Toshu age when vanraj was doing EMA with her, did anupama stop vanraj by telling anuj or just kept quiet knowing what was happening? because she did not want vanrj to los his job and business? How is such a person best sister in law? How shes behaving with ankush much elder to her in age? Making him say sorry to shahs in party in front of all etc (OK anuj told him to do that but who instigated anuj by keeping quiet at that time than stopping it, did she make vanraj kneel in front of malvika and say sorry for ema or baa in front of GK kaka for calling him servant in public never)

Than there are other fools who say anupama is expert in business, finance, hotel management(non existence hotel) etcsimply to fan her ego or encourage her but anupama starts thinking shes better than US educated anuj, ankush, adhik or even vanraj, kavya which she is not. Family and friends usually praise you to encourage you or not make you feel inferior to them that does not mean you start thinking you are expert in that field

Than comes cooking, cleaning, taking care of family - excuse all women go to work 10 hours a day than come home do all that anupama does sometimes alone(in US you do not get servants have to do all yourself) so we cannot say anupama is expert or great there too because nowadays women work their assess off 10- 12 hours than come and do cooking, cleaning, mopping at home and teach kids home work yet no one praises them as great etc because its what most women do from ages

If anupama has to improve she has to get down from pedestal and start seriously thinking that in 46 years of her life shes hardly done anything on her own in life other than fanning egos of shahs all life.

Absolutely right : CHANE KE JHAAD PE CHADHA DIYA HAI DEVI G KO... DHAKKA MAARO KOI

Where does Anupama got so much confidence from??

I wonder why kanta maa actually taught her about self respect because if she did then her daughter wouldn't waste her time in shah shit