Yes Silent Treatment is an abuse

I just read one post here and it's completely true..

Anupama giving silent treatment is worst form of abuse.. In any relationship silent treatment is worst.. Either keep it or break it. Just don't keep the person hanging in between.

I was in a relationship for many years, with it's share of ups and downs. But after one major fight, I was given silent treatment. I begged, I apologized even though it wasn't my fault alone.. But there was no reply. I didn't understand whether or not I was in a relationship anymore. I begged for closure too, but again it was silence on the other end. Untill i just got rude shock of my partner marrying someone else..

It took me so much time to come out of it, it took years to be back to my normal self.

I don't know today just reading that triggered me to write this post.

Originally posted by: Peacelover15

I just read one post here and it's completely true..

Anupama giving silent treatment is worst form of abuse.. In any relationship silent treatment is worst.. Either keep it or break it. Just don't keep the person hanging in between.

I was in a relationship for many years, with it's share of ups and downs. But after one major fight, I was given silent treatment. I begged, I apologized even though it wasn't my fault alone.. But there was no reply. I didn't understand whether or not I was in a relationship anymore. I begged for closure too, but again it was silence on the other end. Untill i just got rude shock of my partner marrying someone else..

It took me so much time to come out of it, it took years to be back to my normal self.

I don't know today just reading that triggered me to write this post.

Agreed. Either get angry, yell your hearts out but don't keep anyone hanging such that the person has no idea whether to hold on or move on. But this is applicable to real people.

Anuj deserves everything that is being done to him by his 'Meri Anu'. I have zero sympathy for people like him and his Meri Anu who knowingly choose hell for themselves. Every choice has consequences. And this is not the first time that his 'Meri Anu' has ignored her 'Mere Anuj'

Jarurat padne pe Anuj hi yaad ayega aur uske mehnat se kamaye paise Chahe koi bhi ho... Kapadias ho yaa shahs ho....

Remember that mataji ‘s way to get out of grief is to go about her normal life to get out of that sadness .But she was imposing it on Anuj too w/o realizing his method to grieve. That’s why he blew up on her on Holi .Also even in his grief he would’ve never allowed Kapadiaa to misbehave with her or try to throw her out but what mister shh did to anuj was disgusting 😡😡

Originally posted by: Historia

Remember that mataji ‘s way to get out of grief is to go about her normal life to get out of that sadness .But she was imposing it on Anuj too w/o realizing his method to grieve. That’s why he blew up on her on Holi .Also even in his grief he would’ve never allowed Kapadiaa to misbehave with her or try to throw her out but what mister shh did to anuj was disgusting 😡😡

She lets that happen because she too thinks he is the reason for Samar's death. There is no if and but here. When Anuj was on deathbed, she defended her bachchon ke pita with all her heart and her trust that her Mishter Shah couldn't do anything of that sort. Unfortunately, she does not have even 1% of that trust on her present husband

The abused (Anupama) has now become the abuser (Anupama)

The woman we were all cheering for and we’re supporting in her Udaan

Has fallen into the cycle of turning into the very thing that has happened to her in the past

Very sad

She should have gotten divorced and then stayed single and gotten a lot of counseling and therapy before ever trying to get into a relationship again

Now she is using her power to abuse him… Anuj… By freezing him out, giving him the silent treatment and living in the same house and making him uncomfortable when he is begging, pleading for her to communicate with him

Just wrong wrong wrong

Why is anuj begging her to accept him?

If some family gives you silent treatment give them back double silent treatment and never accept them back in life. Thats what 90% would do in world

Murder is no small allegation, you being accused of being responsible for others death is not a simple joke. Esaily anuj can put maan ani and false accusation case on shahs and anupama and send them to jail and ask crores in compensation actually. Murder is not a joke that any human even family can say

if you allow others to take advantage family or friends they will in todays time thats why its called kalyug

Anupama knows anuj is dependent on her emotionally so taking advantage

Would she dare do this to vanraj or toshu or pakhi or baa or bapuji even if they were wrong or murdered no

She knows whom to play like putty well and whom not to abuse

See every human knows whom to misbehave with at home, school, college, office and whom not to touch in life

anupama is no naive 5 year old baby or innocent woman as potrayed before

Even in upset no human can just accuse an innocent of murder

Express your feelings clearly and avoid leaving someone uncertain about the future. However, these principles apply to real-life situations. In the case of Anuj and 'Meri Anu,' Anuj deserves the consequences of his actions as determined by 'Meri Anu,' and I find it hard to sympathize with such choices. Every decision has consequences, and this isn't the first time 'Meri Anu' has neglected 'Mere Anuj.'

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Why is anuj begging her to accept him?

If some family gives you silent treatment give them back double silent treatment and never accept them back in life. Thats what 90% would do in world

Murder is no small allegation, you being accused of being responsible for others death is not a simple joke. Esaily anuj can put maan ani and false accusation case on shahs and anupama and send them to jail and ask crores in compensation actually. Murder is not a joke that any human even family can say

if you allow others to take advantage family or friends they will in todays time thats why its called kalyug

Anupama knows anuj is dependent on her emotionally so taking advantage

Would she dare do this to vanraj or toshu or pakhi or baa or bapuji even if they were wrong or murdered no

She knows whom to play like putty well and whom not to abuse

See every human knows whom to misbehave with at home, school, college, office and whom not to touch in life

anupama is no naive 5 year old baby or innocent woman as potrayed before

Even in upset no human can just accuse an innocent of murder

It's a fictional show not connected with reality at all. We all know billionaires are not fools and free as depicted in this show 😂

The likes of Anuj won't even look at someone like Anupama in real life forget that 26 year old pyaar.

Originally posted by: PJFan777

The abused (Anupama) has now become the abuser (Anupama)

The woman we were all cheering for and we’re supporting in her Udaan

Has fallen into the cycle of turning into the very thing that has happened to her in the past

Very sad

She should have gotten divorced and then stayed single and gotten a lot of counseling and therapy before ever trying to get into a relationship again

Now she is using her power to abuse him… Anuj… By freezing him out, giving him the silent treatment and living in the same house and making him uncomfortable when he is begging, pleading for her to communicate with him

Just wrong wrong wrong