I think people are missing the point that the Bachcans were obsessed with Aish, the way Jaya spoke about her on KWK, even Shweta. They were all crazy about her. They were super proud of the fact that she was becoming Abhishek's wife like have people forgotten the time around when they were dating/getting married. Literally they could not be happier that their son/bro was marrying Miss World.
Obviously don't know what happened in between but very odd to go from one extreme to another. I think it all boils down to the fact their son still didn't get the boost they thought he would by marrying Aish. And obviously they wanted her to be the trophy wife, I mean it's one thing to say you want the perfect, most beautiful wife for your son but for him to actually marry Miss World - quite literally known as the most beautiful woman in the world.
Clearly they liked the tag and prestige, which we know they love and clearly wanted her to represent them and be perfect, just not work. Basically the pretty face and adoring wife.


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