3 Oct, 2023 - Synopsis Hub DT Note Pg #42 - Page 28

Originally posted by: Emeralues

You wrote it very well ❤️ and I agree with all your points. Ak's redemption has to come for Abhira to make any sense. Ak doesn't blame MJ or Ar for anything, they started the blame game which Abhi took it forward. But She completely forgiven them and accepted them as before. It just goes to show that she could never forgive Abhi for daring the leave her. It may also mean that she was taking revenge with what she did with Abhir. it was downright cruel. Abhi did lot more than Nav ever did. But as I said Ak has a sense of entitlement when it comes to Abhi, she takes whatever he gives happily. and Abhi does really believe that his only purpose in life is to make Ak's dreams come true. When in a loving mutual relationship, it looks sweet and nice. But when you do it as someone else's wife or even as a dost, it is obv selfish and manipulative. Abhi is right now in a very vulnerable state, he is ready to surrender everything which is why MJ is scared so I get it. I am just hoping that Ak won't do that to him.

If we think the writers made mess then atleast they have to correct it now. if they don't then this will just be a tragic one-sided love story.

Hi! nice chatting with you...

To me, Ak lacks maturity in life...her way of dealing situations are scary and unpredictable...

She has run away or declared her feelings wrong time, given wrong bhashan at wrong time, taking stand wrongly, leaving with strangers, doing legal frauds, spoke white lies despite her actions are completely different, have done tit for tat no matter that includes her son being involved mentally, keep bashing Abhi for one mistake but she can do 1000 mistakes and that guy take that ser ankhon per but how dare he makes a mistake, she wants everyone to acknowledge her pain and accept her but when someone ask to move one step forward she will say i will try and will take things, person casually...Her own family puts forth conditions, bash Abhi now and then physically assault him but still it's Abhi's fault only...

How conveniently madam took the credit of saving Abhimaniyu in the court when actually proof was presented by Shefali. Their lawyer could have save him too but she wanted to be Mahan...But the moment someone points out her weakness or wrong ways, she gets defended...

Her lies with her son and trying to avoid to properly address his questions, she keeps him lingers or shuts him...I can go on and on....

Originally posted by: Emeralues

If they don't break this point then it's all downhill....even for me. My whole dilemma with what they are showing is they can easily show Abhi having the same issues as before and then conflicts arising so that they resolve it together. But they are showing Abhi in such a good way, there has to be a reason for it. it must be for Ak's realisation. that's my only hope for Abhira.

I hope they do some sort of Abhira patch work so that I can be at peace and watch at least old Abhira episodes...somehow they have lost that old feel coz of Akshara..I just feel she didn't love him at all at any point..

Originally posted by: Emeralues

I hope they write better scenes for her from now on..otherwise, who will enjoy their reunion..

This Ak is not previous one...

She will get peacelessness to Birlas once she enters She is now changed and focus on herself only, she will not hold back saying Abhir is my son and I will take the decision for him...I will see madam will consider Abhi's opinion or not...otherwise there is no difference in her and pre leap Abhi (although Abhi has always followed her choice)

I am curious to see what she meant by being best wife to Abhi ...that she will make him say yes for her everything

Originally posted by: AreYaar

You are extrapolating again.....the situations are not the same at all.

Abhi never gave any false hope to Arohi or told her to hold out on hope that he can love her someday.....he was very clear about his absolute love for Ak and how he will never be able to love anyone other than Ak in his life. He didn't even turn to look at Arohi unless Ruhi was in the vicinity and they were doing some activity for Ruhi....his entire focus was only on being a coparent to Ruhi. It was Arohi who started making eyes at him in between based on instigation from Manjiri who ofcourse always kept hoping against hope that they will fall into a normal marriage even when she saw the obvious signs of Abhi still being hung up on Ak.....

Manjiri was in a delusion about thinking Abhi-Arohi would ever work and she admitted that herself....the whole family admitted that there was never anything couple-like about them and it was a compromise through and through.

Ak's situation is totally different.....she is marrying and making 100% promises to someone she's already been married to before....this is not what Abhi did in Arohi's case...he never gave her any false hope either in their previous failed engagement or in this one that happened for Ruhi. He always said he will try to fulfill his responsibilities - never spoke anything about holding out some hope for love. Abhi never got any FBs of Arohi.....meanwhile Ak is getting plenty of FBs of her past with Abhi while claiming this is just dosti and one day it can become more than dosti maybe so keep your hope alive.

I'm not even getting into what level of moving on she did with Nav....lol even keeping that aside cuz whatever it was, it's the past now and he's dead....even if you objectively look at what Ak is doing - giving assurances to someone that one day she MAY love him and feeling no qualms that this guy loves her and expects so little from her....lol it's just making her look really bad. Arohi never loved Abhi but Ak knows Abhi loves her and is still ok with letting him be strung along indefinitely

I have not extrapolated anything. I am just saying we don't know yet if Ak is giving false hopes to Abhi or not. Ak just started getting FB's of Abhi, it hasn't been shown what they mean to her. They have kept is deliberately vague.

@bold...its already been discussed multiple times that Ak jumping to marry Abhi without any proper thought process has been a disconnect. It just a plot loophole. but given thats what we have, if she is saying this then it has to mean something. Maybe she will come out looking bad, I just want to see what they show in the next few episodes to come to that conclusion. Not yet for me.

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Originally posted by: Emeralues

Though I may not agree with the point of Ak leaving Abhi, I get the gist of what you are saying and agree with it. I still maintain that MJ should not talk to Ak about Nav, it's not her place to do so but they made the conversation more than that. MJ didn't ask Ak to forget Nav memories but to not bring it into her new relationship and start everything with a clean slate, which ak clearly refused to do so and only promised to give her best. So yeah MJ's concern was valid and it's better that she spoke to Ak about it rather than keeping it inside her and let the wound fester.

Ak can give happiness... ❤️...she used to spread happiness where ever she went before. She just became like this due to what happened. But I also get why you don't like her when this is what they show on daily basis 😃. I just hope they write better scenes for her in whatever story is remaining.

I have mixed opinions about Manjari talking to her ..if it was normal day so it would have been really awkward conversation...but in context of days event...Akshara left her haldi minutes after being told some dhaga has been tied and u can't leave the house....didn't inform anyone ..Plus everyone commenting that she isn't ready for wedding to the extent of saying that bhaag to nahi gayi to Kasuali leaving her son behind..Surekha and Muskan did their best to create MU..all guests had to leave...Abhi ka heart sink kar Gaya tha...and I really liked dialogue ki dulhe ki Maan khush to nahi ho sakti na ispe..her giving priority to Nav was emphasised so much

In light of these events she came back telling such a lame reason ..and was sort of so cool about it..if you see their relationship hasn't been strictly MIL DIL..she called her maa even in worst phases ..Abhi presented Manjari as a mother to Akshara..so they lack those boundaries entirely

Today it was bit awkward but what she said wasn't totally wrong... whatever is happening it's a marriage..it's not a joke..if Akshara isn't ready say no..Abhi has told so many times .she can't just play casually with everyones feelings..she doesn't love Abhi but Abhi loves her...her actions will affect him much more..you know what i mean..why is it wrong that for a new relationship that relationship will be your priority..not your past..

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

This Ak is not previous one...

She will get peacelessness to Birlas once she enters She is now changed and focus on herself only, she will not hold back saying Abhir is my son and I will take the decision for him...I will see madam will consider Abhi's opinion or not...otherwise there is no difference in her and pre leap Abhi (although Abhi has always followed her choice)

I am curious to see what she meant by being best wife to Abhi ...that she will make him say yes for her everything

@bold please dont compare her to any Abhi, pre leap, post leap or OG Abhi has never abused anyone like her. He is not spineless doing bakbak for no reason. He was always selfless. He knew his priorities and never gave false hopes or left ppl on cliffhangers or ghost ppl. He has always been honest, loyal and upfront and most importantly he has always had a sense of responsibility and accountability. There is no comparison. Uski beizzati mat kijiye please!

Originally posted by: Emeralues

Abhi was always shown to give Ar's feelings importance, whenever she felt insecure about Ak's presence. he tried to reassure Ar as much as he can. Ar was shown to find some comfort in that so she started hoping for something more. In fact he did some of that even after Abhir's reveal.

I have not extrapolated anything. I am just saying we don't know yet if Ak is giving false hopes to Abhi or not. Ak just started getting FB's of Abhi, it hasn't been shown what they mean to her. They have kept is deliberately vague.

@bold...its already been discussed multiple times that Ak jumping to marry Abhi without any proper thought process has been a disconnect. It just a plot loophole. but given thats what we have, if she is saying this then it has to mean something. Maybe she will come out looking bad, I just want to see what they show in the next few episodes to come to that conclusion. Not yet for me.

LOL when? Where exactly was Abhi EVER giving importance to Arohi's feelings? He has ALWAYS treated her like an obligation....lol in fact that is part of the reason he was bashed so much that why is he marrying Arohi when he can clearly never love her

I'm really not sure where you are interpreting all this from but Abhi never led Arohi on in any way.....it was Arohi who hung on even when it was obvious he can't give her anything. He only gave her formal assurances of fulfilling his responsibilities towards Ruhi and gave her the regard of being a part of the Birla family....that's it. Nothing more than that.

Originally posted by: Anu234

It took this many years and months for his realisation so don't you think we need to wait for sometime for her realisation and also we are getting her points in monologue

What points are we getting exactly???

In monologues she says she is doing it for abhir!!! In front of others she says she is doing it for herself!!!

Where is she realising anything about abhi and her mistakes??

Originally posted by: Neerasi29

I have mixed opinions about Manjari talking to her ..if it was normal day so it would have been really awkward conversation...but in context of days event...Akshara left her haldi minutes after being told some dhaga has been tied and u can't leave the house....didn't inform anyone ..Plus everyone commenting that she isn't ready for wedding to the extent of saying that bhaag to nahi gayi to Kasuali leaving her son behind..Surekha and Muskan did their best to create MU..all guests had to leave...Abhi ka heart sink kar Gaya tha...and I really liked dialogue ki dulhe ki Maan khush to nahi ho sakti na ispe..her giving priority to Nav was emphasised so much

In light of these events she came back telling such a lame reason ..and was sort of so cool about it..if you see their relationship hasn't been strictly MIL DIL..she called her maa even in worst phases ..Abhi presented Manjari as a mother to Akshara..so they lack those boundaries entirely

Today it was bit awkward but what she said wasn't totally wrong... whatever is happening it's a marriage..it's not a joke..if Akshara isn't ready say no..Abhi has told so many times .she can't just play casually with everyones feelings..she doesn't love Abhi but Abhi loves her...her actions will affect him much more..you know what i mean..why is it wrong that for a new relationship that relationship will be your priority..not your past..

Above all that she dint once apologise to Abhi. I feel extremely bad for Abhi.