3 Oct, 2023 - Synopsis Hub DT Note Pg #42 - Page 27

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Legs par gire na gire, kabhi itna bhi soch le ki she wronged him toh bhi bahot hai. Atleast abhimnayu acknowledges and owns his mistakes.

We will get it but it's gonna take time ek baar yeh sab hogaya toh bacha kya rahega ? Kuch nhi toh makers definitely drag karenge

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Lol, we really don't need to wait to see where this goes and what she does. Already she is showing that she has no change in her. Tell me one thing, in the episode Ak left cause it was an urgent issue right? She tried talking to Abhi but then had to leave cause he was busy right? Baki sab ka Kya?

Like there is no way that everyone else was too busy for a five minute conversation that hey, I have some super important work I need to step out for but don't worry I will be back soon? And then what about other modes of communication? Like I know ITV runs on miscommunication, but in Ak's case it really seems like a bad trend that she doesn't even want to be questioned for.

Then when she got back she apologized to KM, wonderful! But what about everyone else? What about BP who five minutes ago had to say sorry to all the guests? Not one person even chided her and they are went straight into haldi mode. But obviously everyone was hurt by this. Thing is they have stopped having any expectations from her only. BP also knows that if he tries to ask questions she will just shut down and possibly gaslight him in turn. They all just instead focused on the positives that she hadn't run off and that she was a responsible partner for Abhinav.

But in doing all of this, not one time this girl thought about anyone's feelings. And that is what she continues to do. Her decisions affect everyone, but as long as she feels justified, she doesn't care about that. For her if she has an explanation, people should just forget their feelings and move on.

You couldnt have explained it better..to think she couldnt inform about Abhir to anyone to yaha to ye ek kafi chhoti cheez hai uske samne..u feel like banging your head with kind of illogical stuff they show and the reasons for their MUs are so dumb...Akshara has such a reputation that instead of asking her why she couldn't inform/SMS/leave a voice note..they are relieved ki chalo bhaagi nahi

Originally posted by: Emeralues

Her having moved on with nav means she is wrong in making the type of promises she is making to Abhi now. IMO that is cruel. Abhi didn't ask for it, he just wanted to marry Ak and take care of her and their son. But its Ak who brought this to the forefront. So right now, there is hope that she is not being that cruel. That she decided to give this a chance becoz she never successfully moved on with Nav.etc.etc.

LOL she isn't being cruel....she is being callous - as usual. And that's the reason for my amusement....Ak was the one who initiated the marriage proposal to Abih, she is the one who made promises of 100% to Abhi without really being clear on what that 100% would entail....she talks about not having any faith left in in the permanence of anything after Nav but in the next breath she also keeps telling Manjiri not to look at hope as a bad thing and one day the bud of hope can bloom into a flower again

It is the double minded nature of what she is doing that comes across as blatantly callous and self-serving. She who made tall claims of how Abhi wants everything on his terms is now the one dictating absolute terms on every level that she will decide when there will be dosti and who should hold out for how much hope for more than dosti

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

My main rant is that Ak has not admitted her share of mistakes and there is no monologues from her to acknowledge the pain Abhi also went through by not being with his son for 6 years and after he got to know the truth, she did not let him breath with his son, instead turned him against him emotionally by bringing money matter. In the name of hurt, she went overboard and have not realized what state she left her widow sister, the unborn child ruhi and Abhi. To me, if one does not know the mistakes how can one be cautious in future to cause same mistakes and give sorrow...Again, for not that urgent reason she left the ceremony..this looks minor but same sanskara will come bite you if some danger lingers you. Ak has the habit of not wait and get into action that we saw during Neil NGO accident. But Abhi held his brother promise and went through pain and redemption...Ak got peace with Abhir birth while Abhi was in pain of loosing his babies for 6 yrs and he can never be father...

Unless she rectifies maturely her share, i do not see how she will give happiness to him ...It's Abhi who has made peace with just her presence and it is enough for him that she is ready live with him under one roof for Abhir. That deep realization and appreciation he has which Ak lacks completely. She still has not acknowledge the pain he got because of her after Abhir truth...She did not give him time and space to create the bond with his son...Also how much Abhi did for his son - surgery etc..he is not bad father at all..he did not give a single reason that can be point out of him being not to be called father.that Ak clamied him to be mausa or docman..Ak has not acknowledge Abhi's help at every step ..be it in kasauli..be it in health matter saving Sharmaji and Abhir ...he was there for her exams, he was there when she lost custody....She brought him back from Manju fire incident but that looks so superficial...

If we think the writers made mess then atleast they have to correct it now. if they don't then this will just be a tragic one-sided love story.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

What will change with the pregnancy though?

Even before the pregnancy is revealed, they are showing us her mindset with such scenes where she's like keep hoping - one day I may love you again. Now it will make her look even more selfish when she will be happily enjoying him taking care of her during the pregnancy and being like "yeh kali ek din khil ke phool ban sakti hai"

If they wanted to salvage her a bit, they should have atleast kept her consistent on some stand about never being able to reciprocate Abhi's feelings again....lol but the fact that she's so fluid on it and the pregnancy pampering will just make it easier to fall back in love with him is just

Muje to ratti bhar bharosa nahin raha Ak per

She cannot stand to her words, she has no value of her own words and promises and responsibilities

She is not capable of handling life by herself..she became lawyer that too thanks to Abhimaniyu. Abhir came out of trauma, thanks to Abhimaniyu

But she has never acknowledged Abhimaniyu for his good deeds and has taken him for granted because you did bad to me, now whatever you do ..it will count towards paying back your one bad deed..

But madam herself has not tell proper sorry to Abhimaniyu for leaving him and punished him for 6 years and after custody also gave him miserable life that he wanted to die. She left no option for him.

Originally posted by: Emeralues

He said that only to Ar, it would be too disrespectful to declare in front of eveyone else that this will be marriage in name only. even though everyone knows that he is marrying for Ruhi. First time also, Ar said I know things will change once we get married and he had no comeback to that. This time too, MJ hoped this will become normal marriage and made Abhi do all sorts of things and he had no comeback to that as well. So Abhi spoke respectfully of Ar saying he will marry her and will never repeat what he did before. It was hard to watch but he was right in doing the way he did.

It's a known thing that they haven't clarified Ak's position yet. They just started revealing it. She is indebted to Nav and I don't mind her remembering him that way. But If she is remembering him as 'oh my saiyaan' ' mere hums afar' and then feeling shy with Abhi doing rasams with him then yes she is two timing him. So I think the pregnancy track will clear it.

You are extrapolating again.....the situations are not the same at all.

Abhi never gave any false hope to Arohi or told her to hold out on hope that he can love her someday.....he was very clear about his absolute love for Ak and how he will never be able to love anyone other than Ak in his life. He didn't even turn to look at Arohi unless Ruhi was in the vicinity and they were doing some activity for Ruhi....his entire focus was only on being a coparent to Ruhi. It was Arohi who started making eyes at him in between based on instigation from Manjiri who ofcourse always kept hoping against hope that they will fall into a normal marriage even when she saw the obvious signs of Abhi still being hung up on Ak.....

Manjiri was in a delusion about thinking Abhi-Arohi would ever work and she admitted that herself....the whole family admitted that there was never anything couple-like about them and it was a compromise through and through.

Ak's situation is totally different.....she is marrying and making 100% promises to someone she's already been married to before....this is not what Abhi did in Arohi's case...he never gave her any false hope either in their previous failed engagement or in this one that happened for Ruhi. He always said he will try to fulfill his responsibilities - never spoke anything about holding out some hope for love. Abhi never got any FBs of Arohi.....meanwhile Ak is getting plenty of FBs of her past with Abhi while claiming this is just dosti and one day it can become more than dosti maybe so keep your hope alive.

I'm not even getting into what level of moving on she did with Nav....lol even keeping that aside cuz whatever it was, it's the past now and he's dead....even if you objectively look at what Ak is doing - giving assurances to someone that one day she MAY love him and feeling no qualms that this guy loves her and expects so little from her....lol it's just making her look really bad. Arohi never loved Abhi but Ak knows Abhi loves her and is still ok with letting him be strung along indefinitely

Originally posted by: Neerasi29

Thank you...how you put it sounds better..today's dialogues sort of irritated me...they make Nav sound like her greatest love and I get total disconnect with it...Nav did good for her arguably. But Abhi did loads of things too... everything good become just zero and WD was all there was left..

Originally posted by: Anu234

It took this many years and months for his realisation so don't you think we need to wait for sometime for her realisation and also we are getting her points in monologue

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

She has not started treating him better!!!

It's that abhi is mute now and she is not getting a chance to lash at him!!!

The moment abhi opens his mouth, she ll be ready to demean, insult, hurt him.. 😕😕

Originally posted by: Anu234

It took this many years and months for his realisation so don't you think we need to wait for sometime for her realisation and also we are getting her points in monologue

Abhi's realization took time, because there was no communication at all. He couldn't really figure out what went wrong exactly. In his mind, white day wasn't even present. All he knew was that he lost Neil, Ak and their babies and he mourned all of them for six years. The moment Ak came back into his life, we see his heart starting up again. We saw him crying for three days straight in kasauli trying to come to terms with everything. And most importantly, it was the actual pain of Ak. When he saw how much pain he had caused her, that's what changed him.

But Abhi's pain has also been revealed by now. His pain of losing six years with his son. His pain of not being a good husband to Ak. His pain of failing at his relationships. I think when he finally broke down after Abhir's rejection, that was the optimal point for Ak to recognize his sufferings. For her to actually tell him that their relationship was good, but it didn't survive because of insane circumstances. He was going on and on about how he failed at his relationships, how his love was not enough etc, but she just nodded along! Uske baad bhi, her one track mind could only acknowledge that he feels bad as a father.

Then over and over again Abhi has shared his feelings. Not once has Ak spoken up. At best she gives him consolation that you have changed, you are a good person now. So her compliments are also double sided that in the past he was some horrible monster, but now he is a good person. Abhi is still shown confused that was their past actually that bad. But he is too scared to confront her now.

I am not saying that there won't be a realization from her end. I really hope there is. But the thing is, nothing new can be revealed to cause such a realization anymore. Abhi had two big shocks, first in temple confession when Ak asked him about WD and how he treated her, and second Abhir's truth when she told him about the phone calls. But Abhi has already revealed everything he feels. Still nothing.