Originally posted by: yellomellow
To me, Akshara's dialogues and her behavior towards Abhi-Abhir relationship comes off as jealousy. She has no reason to feel this threatened by a child finding comfort and solace in his own father. It must bother her that Abhi never needed her to bond with his own son lol.
I always thought it was odd that how the makers inserted Abhi into her marriage from the earlier episodes lol. Now, she is actively inserting herself in Abhi-Abhir's relationship when she isn't needed or asked. Abhi never felt the need to remove or replace the Sharma's relationship with Abhir. He was never jealous or insecure about their bond. He wanted to create his own space separate from anyone else and he did it lol. The insecurity and jealousy Abhinav-Akshara exhibited towards Abhi makes perfect sense now. Abhi can create relationships on his own so he doesn't need a readymade or fake template hence her jealousy. She hide behind the fake Sharma family unit because she can't stand alone.
The disconnect is there, but I doubt the team cares enough to resolve anything. Honestly, I wouldn't be shocked if everything swept around the rug like Manjiri's accident to move forward with the wedding.
Exactly this! She has been showing jealousy towards their bond from the beginning? Why? I don't understand. Which mother feels this insecure I don't know. Like she is acting like he is Abhir's step mother rather than his real father.

, I’m just going to ignore - just like how I ignore her scenes 
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