Originally posted by: Krinya
I strongly disagree with this.
Nav wasn't her biggest mistake , he was the best choice she made given the circumstances.
I am not saying Nav the person is wrong for her, I am saying the choice to make someone else Abhir's father and erase Abhi from his life is. That is the problem from the beginning.
I don't see any reason why she should acknowledge abhimanyus pain. Abhim was her ex who threw her out of his life like garbage ... He started thinking only when he saw abhir isn't happy living with him. Before that he was living in his own bubble of happy father son family and totally under his mother's spell.... If akshara ignored his existence he also ignore hers . Both r equally to be blamed for custody and what ensued. But luckily both came to their senses by realizing their mistakes.
Lol what false narratives are here. First we are discussing why Ak should apologize for her own actions. Abhi apologized for his, that is done and dusted. Why is everything compared to what Abhi did or didn't do. Ak is a person, and like a person who supposedly has empathy, yes she should care about how he feels and how everyone feels. Its basic human decency not to spout hurtful words just to break someone down.
Also there was literally no bubble either for Manjari or Abhi. They both knew this would be a difficult thing regardless. They just thought he would adjust given time, which he didn't get anyways, so its not worth discussing.
She got him to the level of suicide? 😲 6 yrs bk she was in the same condition but presently it was abhim who is solely responsible for his miseries. If he was.contemplating suicide , it's his own narrow.mindset and negative thinking..he has ruhi , his family, his ma , his patients, his hospital , his social status , and he wants to end his life bec abhir wants to live with his parents ? Something which everyone was warning him since custody that a 6 yr old won't adapt to the new life/ relations so quickly... That's the reason why audience cud never connect to him..he is not too much different from akshara..she lies to avoid difficult situations while he weeps and want to end his life the moment going gets tough 👎🏼
No suicide is not because of narrow mindset or limited thinking. You obviously have not seen all the episodes completely but Abhi has actually explained what he was thinking multiple times. He has never wanted to end his life before this. He has always fought for whatever he believed in, something Ak herself talked about. But it is the countless insults and demeaning by Ak who he loves, that got him to that point. Abhi has never demeaned Ak or her love, he questioned her actions, not her motivations. He said what she did was stupid which led to a loss of life, not that she is the worst wife ever, never knew how to be a wife, never supported him, blah blah blah. This has been step by step with everything he has gone through that led him to that low point in his life. And Ak is hugely responsible for it. Abhir rejecting was the last straw, but all the rocks before that were thrown in by Ak.
Akshara giving abhinav the status of abhir father wasn't the reason abhir rejected abhim..abhim was away from abhir & akshara bec of his own mistakes on wd and not listening to her distress calls in anger...abhir will accept abhim slowly when he makes an effort and this was true even if abhiv was Alive
Disagree completely, but this is what everyone is talking about. Ak replaced Abhir's father. Some people think she is wrong in this and some people don't. This is what she has to apologize for basically.
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