AbhiM is redeemed.. Akshara how and when? - Page 5

Originally posted by: LoveHC

Having 0 expectations from writers regarding Mrs Sharma. Read whole thread. People have shared screenshots. Since I’m catching up - not sure if this apology is for father change? If anyone has seen pls share. If it is, well and good. Even if it is - that’s barely enough as it won’t bring back past 6 years. Never has she tried improving Abhir Abhimanyu bond.

And if it isn’t - then she better apologise for father change as what Abhir is dealing with currently is entirely her fault. At least Mr Sharma had some conscience left and he said before and after leap at least 2 times let’s tell Abhimanyu truth. This woman didn’t

Regarding how I as a viewer want her apology-

No dramatics. Just a heartfelt sorry to Abhimanyu and Birlas. And her telling Abhimanyu that she knows saying sorry doesn’t mean anything if she doesn’t repair her blunders. So I just want her to say now my actions will speak. And actions - repairing and healing Abhir Abhimanyu bond, apology to Birlas and Manjiri for Neil and 1 twin and not understanding Manjiri’s pain as a mother, apologies to Ruhi and Arohi for Neil, actually becoming Ruhi’s strong support after Arohi, healing Abhir fully, having 0 expectations from Abhimanyu from now and fully taking all initiatives and healing him completely by going with him for his therapy sessions too as I’m sure he too has been in depression and trauma for 6+ years

@Bold: Yes. All of this..! Then we can consider this her redemption.Right now she comes off as a poised goddess showering her bacha hua graciousness on Manjari and Abhi. I wanted her to look guilty at the very least in last episode. Guilty of depriving these two ppl of their 6 years with son and grandson. Manjari deserves her apology for Neil’s death as does Arohi. Ya we all can agree Neil’s death wasn’t her fault but he and the twin were the collateral damage in her pursuit to mahaantha..! She needs redemption big time!

Originally posted by: lagjagale

I honestly don't expect an apology from Ak anytime soon. The past eight months have been Abhi's slow but steady realization and redemption and the final apology was shown only after all of that. So similarly, it will be a slow realization for Ak and she will work towards healing Abhirmanyu anyways cause she has to. Abhir needs a father and without Nav, Abhi is her best bet. So she will heal their relationship and support it from this point onwards.

The only realization I see for her is once Abhirmanyu are properly in father son relationship and she sees how good of a father Abhi is. Then she may apologize for depriving him of that for so many years and thinking he would be a bad father because he was a bad husband. So that will happen but it will be only after everything else.

As of right now none of this leads to a reunion or anything. Just Abhira journey for coparenting.

IMO, Abhi was not a bad husband. It was only on WD, he did wrong with Akshara!!! He has been suffering since then, he realised he was wrong, and he has been redeeming.

But Akshara made sure to erase Abhi from abhir's life!!!

And we are seeing the consequences now!!! That kid is deprived of both father's now!!!

Akshara is solely responsible for everyone's misery!!! And she has no guilt, regret, realisation!!! And I'm sure the makers are going to completely whitewash her using abhirmanyu!!!! Both being Akshara's bhakts!! 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: Ambajee

@Bold: Yes. All of this..! Then we can consider this her redemption.Right now she comes off as a poised goddess showering her bacha hua graciousness on Manjari and Abhi. I wanted her to look guilty at the very least in last episode. Guilty of depriving these two ppl of their 6 years with son and grandson. Manjari deserves her apology for Neil’s death as does Arohi. Ya we all can agree Neil’s death wasn’t her fault but he and the twin were the collateral damage in her pursuit to mahaantha..! She needs redemption big time!

In my view nowhere her mistakes begin when Abhimanyu knew of abhirs truth. They actually began with her catching a random bus and vowing never to come back and impulsively deciding to change father after 1 phone call. If Abhimanyu is held accountable for each and every blunder so should Akshara

Honestly for me personally, her mistakes started when she/Neil decided to get out of the car to fight off traffickers with police help just 10 mins away. You simply don’t get to become ninja warrior on impulse when u have two more lives at stake not counting her and Neil’s.😵

Originally posted by: PhoenixRising

Abhimanyu’s apology today was heartfelt. Akshara still has a long way to go before she realizes and is truly sorry! The one you mentioned was more of pity/sympathy than an apology.

Love this post...even I felt Dil se nahi nikla...didn't feel it genuine ..

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

Yeh sorry muh se tab nikla, jab abhi ne abhir ko Sacrifice kar diya tha!!!

Usse pehle Mrs sharma ne bohot kaand kiye hai, jiske liye Aaj tak sorry nahi bola hai.. bolna toh dur, usse realise bhi nahi hua hai.. 😂😂😂

She hasn't even realised to herself that paternity fraud was wrong and all complication are coz of her one decision..

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Because her biggest mistake was Nav, and even acknowledging that would completely invalidate his existence. So they never made her even acknowledge Abhi's pain or anything. She has hurt him repeatedly over the past eight months. She has insulted his love, his family, his upbringing, his everything basically. She got him to the level of wanting to take his own life. After all of this, if there is no apology or even acknowledgement, then there is no possibility of the audience connecting with her character anymore.

I strongly disagree with this.

Nav wasn't her biggest mistake , he was the best choice she made given the circumstances.

I don't see any reason why she should acknowledge abhimanyus pain. Abhim was her ex who threw her out of his life like garbage ... He started thinking only when he saw abhir isn't happy living with him. Before that he was living in his own bubble of happy father son family and totally under his mother's spell.... If akshara ignored his existence he also ignore hers . Both r equally to be blamed for custody and what ensued. But luckily both came to their senses by realizing their mistakes.

She got him to the level of suicide? 😲 6 yrs bk she was in the same condition but presently it was abhim who is solely responsible for his miseries. If he was.contemplating suicide , it's his own narrow.mindset and negative thinking..he has ruhi , his family, his ma , his patients, his hospital , his social status , and he wants to end his life bec abhir wants to live with his parents ? Something which everyone was warning him since custody that a 6 yr old won't adapt to the new life/ relations so quickly... That's the reason why audience cud never connect to him..he is not too much different from akshara..she lies to avoid difficult situations while he weeps and want to end his life the moment going gets tough 👎🏼

Akshara giving abhinav the status of abhir father wasn't the reason abhir rejected abhim..abhim was away from abhir & akshara bec of his own mistakes on wd and not listening to her distress calls in anger...abhir will accept abhim slowly when he makes an effort and this was true even if abhiv was Alive

Originally posted by: Ambajee

Honestly for me personally, her mistakes started when she/Neil decided to get out of the car to fight off traffickers with police help just 10 mins away. You simply don’t get to become ninja warrior on impulse when u have two more lives at stake not counting her and Neil’s.😵

Absolutely! Heck, Abhi is held responsible for buying a drink to Abhinav as it led to his death ultimately Abhir lost his foster dad, Roohi lost her father who she never got to meet, uska kya! double standards at its heights!

I’m amazed at how Abhimanyu wanting to commit suicide due to single incident of Abhir wanting to stay with Sharmas is being called out. Abhimanyu didn’t want to commit suicide by 1 incident. His life is a constant series of rejections and trauma since childhood -

- Never being prioritised by Manjiri in front of Harshvardhan

- Harshvardhan in Abhimanyu’s adult life considered him only an ASSET - a top surgeon who Birla hospital needs to bring more patients and profits. Can we ignore Harshvardhan melting down seeing hospital ward condition more than Abhimanyu’s life being in danger. Ya he may have loved Abhimanyu genuinely as son but more than Birla hospital and own reputation- never!

- Akshara rejected him brutally for Arohi though he knew she loves him

- Before marriage Akshara always prioritised her family than Abhimanyu (million incidents)

- Abhimanyu has whole family 🤣biggest joke. All he ever had was Neil and Manjiri and later Akshara. And now kids. That’s it. Anand Mahima are more of mentors. Mahima is always scheming. Shefali is slippery can’t trust. Parth - no real bond shown

- Goenkas have treated him as trash whenever their both princesses - who are useless in my opinion - have ever faced slightest inconvenience

- Akshara left him for a year with no message and he suffered abandonment trauma. She came back and divorce nonsense started (though he started it she gave in easily making true his worst nightmare true again that their relationship was never that important for her)

- Lost Neil and kids and had to be the rock of the family and Manjiri for 6+ years and he still is

- Found 1 kid is alive and his existence is replaced

- Faced rejection from Akshara again and heard her spit venom on his existence constantly for months on end

- Had to undergo extreme stress of doing surgery on own son

- Abhir rejected him as father and expressed wish to stay with Sharmas

There may be numerous things I may be missing. But thought this needs to be said as he isn’t self pitying due to 1 incident - which is a very false narrative