Originally posted by: Moonks
so I understood this, I always believe that world works in two ways, one how it should be and what it actually is, we all preach about how it should be but what we all forget is what it actually is, and we should not join them together because we all have different principles in life, I know what I am saying is not making any sense but do you know why I shipped RuJay even after his cheating act, I have seen that happening in real life and trust me it’s so different from what we think it is, you can still have your happiness, forgive and move on but don’t forget and trust is how this works, trust is a gradual process, it does not come with a relationship neither does respect comes from a title, I have dealt with this manhandling and cheating stuff enough to know this that it is not the end of anything, it is a phase, and at the end of the day we can have different views because that’s how a society function but we can’t judge a person for doing the thing we won’t, I would understand if Ruhi would forgive DJ in future and will move past every bad thing because at the end of the day it’s not my decision to make, it’s hers. I may not agree with it or I may but that’s the limit of my indulgence in that relationship and life and same goes with everyone, people making different choices than they should doesn’t make them toxic, us not accepting their decision is where toxicity enters at least for me.
And now come to Drona, so he has Choice and he made the choice what was best for him, then why the hell people show that he was forced to make that choice? This forceful glorification is what makes me angry, there is nothing wrong in thinking selfishly accept that and move on instead of making a guy take the blame of everyone’s decision🤔
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