ABHIR ABHINAV SHARMA rejects being ABHIR ABHIMANYU BIRLA. - Page 19

Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan

I am not sure why you have used mostly examples which just shows he was good in fulfilling his professions oath. No one said he is not a good dr. And he loves his family that also no one denied.But he loves his Mom too much for whom he abandoned the love of his life at the most critical juncture. He failed as a husband that is what I am saying. He was a good lover I am not denying that.

He was not the only professional in Birla hospital. He could have made a choice and referred another doctor . People choose to see him as a doctor so anything he does it is his duty. But people can not accept that he is human being and a father and a son as well.

I have respect for anyone who love their parents. Had he left his sick mother and ran after his wife, people would have called him "Juro ka Gulaam" . A ruthless son. AK had the whole Goenka clan who were willing to support her, who did Abhi and Manjari have. First Anisha and then Neil and the twins. How much can a person tolerate. AK would not have died if she had only listened and had given Manjari and the Birlas a little bit of space to moan their loss. All AK saw was her own loss. She did not see what Abhi had lost, she did not feel Abhi's pain.

Originally posted by: AvantikaP

@Bold he was scared and insequire that he will not be allowed to see the Sharmas again. When Abhi assured him that he will take him to see his mother, why didn't Abhir trust him. Firstly the Sharmas filled his head with insequrities that they not incapable of looking after him and just because Abhi has more money he can fulfil his needs. Secondly AK never lost an opportunity to come screaming at Birlas. The right thing to do was to put her own differences and insequrities aside and speak to Abhi. I am sure Abhi would have listened and agreed. When Abhir told AK not to tell anyone about her being his music teacher why didn't AK tell him that she will tell Abhi as he may understand, Why agree to the secrecy

AK was so wrong not to let Abhi know that one of the twins is still alive. She could have passed the message through Goenkas. She did not. Abhi fathered that child and he had the right to know, Atleast his faith in mahadev would have been intact. Abhi can still exercise his right and drag the matter to the court and make matters worse but it takes alot to do what he did in yesterdays episode

Well kids are allowed to make such important decisions then people should stop hiring lawyers and just come together and seek the child's opinion.

There should not be any family law

Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan

I think it has been clearly shown why Abhir did not trust him about going to visit his mother. It was because he heard Manjari say otherwise and also revealed that too Roohi. About the contents that you wrote in the middle there is no point in repeating again and again but I will say in short. It was a Domino effect triggered by AbhMs actions 7 months back.Abou the the last point abt famiky law I will say it actaully did not matter had AbhiM did not listen to Abhirs wish. Whatever transpired the last few days was enough for AbhiM to lose the custody had the Sharmas reopened the case. So family law was enough this time to fulfil Abhirs wish. Even last time the financial reasoning had no heada and tails but I will not debate against what producer showed as truth.

I totally disagree, it was the domino effect triggered by AK and AK alone and she is most welcome to cry and play victim and continue to blame Abhi for everything that goes wrong in her life.

Originally posted by: AvantikaP

He was not the only professional in Birla hospital. He could have made a choice and referred another doctor . People choose to see him as a doctor so anything he does it is his duty. But people can not accept that he is human being and a father and a son as well.

I have respect for anyone who love their parents. Had he left his sick mother and ran after his wife, people would have called him "Juro ka Gulaam" . A ruthless son. AK had the whole Goenka clan who were willing to support her, who did Abhi and Manjari have. First Anisha and then Neil and the twins. How much can a person tolerate. AK would not have died if she had only listened and had given Manjari and the Birlas a little bit of space to moan their loss. All AK saw was her own loss. She did not see what Abhi had lost, she did not feel Abhi's pain.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

Of course anytime. And yes in real life the rich parent only pays child support not get full custody lol

This. Like, I would have still understood if such a decision was in Abhimanyu's favor if Abhinav was on the other side and Abhir wasn't allowed to chip in his two cents.

But the show literally giving Abhimanyu,the biological father who had no clue the kid even existed 6 months ago and has no prior experience of actually raising him, FULL CUSTODY when the mother is alive and well, mentally stable and physically able was SUCH A JOKE😆

Like only on ITV can we see such clownery of legal matters and justice.

Originally posted by: OnTheBlock

This. Like, I would have still understood if such a decision was in Abhimanyu's favor if Abhinav was on the other side and Abhir wasn't allowed to chip in his two cents.

But the show literally giving Abhimanyu,the biological father who had no clue the kid even existed 6 months ago and has no prior experience of actually raising him, FULL CUSTODY when the mother is alive and well, mentally stable and physically able was SUCH A JOKE😆

Like only on ITV can we see such clownery of legal matters and justice.

Mere poore career ka joke bana diya iss show ne :(
I be telling my coworkers and they’re like why don’t they hire us for some legal script writing, we’ll do it for free so our profession doesn’t look like a comedy show 😂

Isn't every thing is clowny

Police will easily believe every thing usually characters ( FL) stories !

Legal system🤣No need to talk further

Drs will act accordi g to instructions by villains, surgeries... well ML and FL will recover from it " lightening speed"

Most of the shows FL will face difficulty in " conceiving " but later that will happen🤣

Seriously , agar iske baat makers ne abhira ko ek karenge tho,

it will be like an insult towards abhinav's selfless love .

Agar makers aur writers ne pehle se abhinav ke character ko

thoda strong,bold aur economically powerful dikha sakti thi

toh uss character ko isse shyada appreciation mil sakti thi.

Kyun makers har leap era ke baad female leads ko itni poor ,

bebas condition mein dikhati hai? kyunki aaj kal log strong,

bold,witty,powerful,successful female leads dekhna pasand karti hai.

Just because the main male lead is handsome,sexy,hot& angry youngman

most teenager girls uss character ko pasand karegi.But maturity is

when we realise yeh angry young man ki love story real life mein

hamesha possible nahi hai ." Aur jahaan aurat ko issat milegi ,

wahi wo khush rahega aur pyaar bhi dheere ho jayega" .

I don't know kitne saal abhira shaadi ke baad ek saat rah payi.

[ i mean anisha ke death ke baad separation,phir bhi alag hui thi,phir neil ke death ke baad akshu ki condition ko undekha karke usse ghar se dhakka diya tha]

Socho akshara 6 saal apni bache ke saath ek aisi aadmi ke saath

rahti thi jo usse respect karti thi,usse support karti thi

uske liye khade hoti thi,uske liye lad sakti thi,

aur apne bache se itna pyaar karti thi without expecting anything in return.

Then of course akshu usse accept karegi na ,then why are abhira fans blaming her.

Agar ye sab kisike real life mein hote toh,jo aurat jinke liye

self respect important hai,woh abhinav jaisa ek insaan ko hi chunega .

life sirf pyaar pyaar se nahi chalega , agar rishte mein sammaan , issat,

acceptance nahi milegi toh uss rishte mein rehne se kya fayda hai .

{ jo log woh yeh kahenge ki abhinav ki story bhi real life mein possible nahi hai -uska jawab ; agar real life mein kisika first love , first marriage disaster ban gayi toh iska matlab yeh nahi ki usse life mein second chance nahi milegi . kitne logon ki second spouse acha hota hai . apni partner ki past ko bhi respect karke usse apni zindagi mein accept karti hai , pyaar karti hai , issat deti hai ]

here pehle main leads ki dream wedding ke baad the male lead was like pariwar uska, ghar uska, maa uska , rishta uska , biwi ka tho kuch nahi hai . woh uske ghar ke maamlon mein interfere nahi kar sakte . agar uss ghar mein kuch bura hua tho manyu apni maa ki ek statement sunkar hi usse blame karti thi . seriously shaadi ke baat ladki ki rishta sirf pati se nahi balki uss pariwaar se bhi jud jathi hai.

As a teeneger apni future ko lekar meine already decide kar chuki hun ki

I don't need an immature , agressive , impatient , impulsive boy in my life .

I need a mature man who will give me respect , who will understand me , who will accept my flaws ,who can take a stand for me even infront of his own family .

ye sab ek fictional imaginary story hai,toh issliye log main male lead ko

support karti hai.Agar yeh kisiki real life mein horahi hai toh aap kisko support

karenge . Yeh saari red flags pehle hame achi lagegi,par jab zindagi aage chalegi,

tab unke saath rehna mushkil hoga.And that manjari is the biggest red flag.

She was manipulating manyu even after winning the custody that , agar abhir

ko uske parents se door nahi rakhi toh woh manyu aur birla house ko

accept nahi karega and he was just listening to her first . Even arohi bhi

usse kaha tha ki woh decision galat tha. So if he took a right decision on

his own will ,then it will be the one to handover abhir back to his

parents, to his happy family.Kyunki abhir phirse birla house mein

rahkar apni parents ke liye tadapte hue dekh kar manyu bhi kabhi

khush nahi rahegi...

aur abhir woh uss ghar mein adjust karne ki koshish ki . but socho wahan uski dida har wakt usse apni maa baap se door rakhne ki saazish kar rahi thi, unka cousin brother usse taunt kar rahi thi ki eventually uski parents usse bhool jayega . unhone khud dekha aur dida se pucha why were you shouting at my mom. . the day when he got a chance to visit his parents she took him to an outing along with ru and shivu . when they came back, by seeing how the mothers were welcoming their kids , he dearly missed his mom . and that sorry of his dadda can never heal the pain he felt . So of course yeh sab usse affect karega na . uss ghar mein sirf aru aur ru usse samajh sakti thi . pehle hi ru kaha tha ki billa boy yahan kabhi khush nahi hoga.

abhi finally made a right decision not because of a big heart , but he realized that he can't take over abhir's heart completely , he can't have the pure bliss of father son bond like abhinav and abhir has . in one of the previous episode where akshu passed llb and abhir went to meet them , the three of them were hugging and crying , finally become happy again and celebrated her victory with full joy .

abhi could only watch that in a distance ..

its only the fault of yrkkh makers and writers , not the actors and characters .

they couldn't give justice to those characters which gave the show a life..

Originally posted by: Noorain13

Mere poore career ka joke bana diya iss show ne :(
I be telling my coworkers and they’re like why don’t they hire us for some legal script writing, we’ll do it for free so our profession doesn’t look like a comedy show 😂

Same!

I told one of my colleagues about this and he looked at me unamused,definitely judging my taste in shows lol and said 'Ambani uska chacha hain kya? 😳🤓 Don't even answer.. Tabbhi aisa mazak nahi karta koi court' 😆

Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan

I too have respect for people who loves his/her parents. But one needs to balance relationships also. On that day he did not ask AK for space. He signed divorce papers and you know that is a quite big thing for married women. Then he threw her out ( does not mean literally pushed ) with his harsh words and allegations. At that condition he could have called the Goenkas to come and take her but he did not choose to do that. And though I understand it was a hard day for him too and I could have given a pass if it was restricted to only a single day. He decided to ignore AKs calls day in and day out for months just because his Mom will get triggered. Did not care what physical and emotional health AK will be in.And ofcourse at the end he hammered the final pin on the coffin by saying he does not care about her or her children. This is what producer showed and please dont ask why AK did not message him. I will just choose to answer that the producer did not add the plan which allows messaging in AK or AbhiNs phone

If it comes to balacing how DID AK balance her family,Goenklas and Birlas and Sharmas,. On that day he did not AK for space but Manjari asked her to get of her sight. But noone can tell anything to AK. She was pushed because she deserved it, For her it was only, me myself and I. Why should Abhi call Goenkas, he can not leave everything and everyone and nurse and pacify AK, She was born with a brain,

Really I have no time to waste because as usual when the difficult questions are asked the blame is put on the producers.

I am woman and have had my own share of problems but I stand proud because inspite of the difficulties I have never cried victim.

And here I am saying that I have no ounce sympathy for AK or whatever was done to her, or women like AK who can cry victim and do mammta jaap. Because it is only due kind of women females are called a weaker gender,

I hope Manjari gives AK another earful.

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