help needed!

hi evry1, this is my first post in this forum and i need sum help with a situation im in.

there is a guy in 2nd yr of my colj who i lykd for ages bt i didnt knw him. eventually he found out one of my group of frends lyk him so i went and told him bt made it clear lyk i wasnt trying to force him into anything.

a few days later he aded me on msn and we tlk almost evryday now for the past cuple of weeks for lyk hour at a tym. bt wen i see him in collej he will say hello bt then not look at me and tlk to my frends insted! and if we wlkin past he will shout my frends names and smile bt ignore me! im so confused does he lyk me or not?😕

Umm at first I thought that he would be scared or hesitated to talk to you or tell you that he loves you but then my second thought was that when he has a green signal from you already then why on earth would he hesitate to speak to you...

The next time you chat with him on net, ask him straight away that why he does that? Tell him that you have no probs if he doesn't want to get into a relationship with you... but atleast he should not avoid you like that in college.

Ask him that if he has no probs chatting with you on net then why does he act so differently in college? Is it that he can't face you or what?

The only solution to your problem is that sit down and sort it out with that person.

he culd be calling your friend but waniting to get your attention... if you get what i mean.. just relax ask him like shizajaved said if feel confortably that way 😃

That sort of happen to me once but for me it was that both of us were shy to talk... We use to chat a lot but when we meet it would be just a hi and hello.. All i can tell u is to go to him and start a conversation and see where it leads ;)

Or u can just ask him when u chatting with him as to why he ignores u in college and talk to u well on net... Just dnt end up in a conclusion before talking to him.. :)

I was about to suggest you ignore him. Lol. Yeah, I agree with the others you should probably talk to him about this.

U noe tht guys have aweird mentality right? 😆
Its very difficult to undertsand them....
The same thing used to happen to ma friend..
he used to be rude to her n all..but he was nice to us...
She dint noe.ut we did tht he had a humongous crush on her,,
but he cudnt gather his coyrage to talk to her..he used to feel shy..tho t dint luk like tht......
i used to think why does he behave like this...
but its just he used to feel super shy _she was totally unaware bout it}....
Aaand also cause he wanted to show her tht
he doesnt take much bhaav.....
But i dunnoi abt ur sityuation
maybe he's shy....
does ur covnersation onlien go well?
if it does maybe ur in luck..he's shy,,,, 😃
If not...He is a idiot. he doesnt noe how tio behave....
But the latter doesnt seem like it....
hope all goes well...

thanx evry1 so much-i askd him about it and he was lyk oh i didnt c u lol and then ystrdy he tlkd to me twice in persn:D ok the first tym was onli hello bt i felt so happy 😆

Originally posted by: angeleyes141

thanx evry1 so much-i askd him about it and he was lyk oh i didnt c u lol and then ystrdy he tlkd to me twice in persn:D ok the first tym was onli hello bt i felt so happy 😆

aah so alls well?
COngrats...😊😃