Resurgence | Arshi FF | Thread 2 | thread 3 link posted on page 150 - Page 80

Originally posted by: kizh72

Bang on! Arnav in my book is an idiot and like I said in my comment for the first part, so much for the astute businessman. He was a sitting duck. Not saying that what La and Manali did deserves any excuse, it was wrong, full stop, and no one deserves to be taken advantage of like that. But so much of his issues are his own, I strongly feel he has got this victim complex, maybe it is the defense against the wrong he did against someone? He is the "I know best" kind of character. He just went ahead and made all those decisions (I do admire that he does have integrity, is ready to do the right thing by La in supporting the child financially, and her during the pregnancy), without any thought to Khushi. Just assumed he was right, he basically took her for granted. She gave her all, and he just took everything. Even expecting that ultimate gift, of understanding from her, when it comes to the divorce. But he was ready to give the benefit of doubt to La. Why? Because she is from a so called modern rich milieu?!! He seems to be the height of hypocrisy and misogyny also now. Somebody needs to give him one whack!

As always..🥰.

Yup. Said it before . He is no different from the men of the village he abhors. Just packaged better.

Originally posted by: bakwas_serial

#2 did not bother you ! It is a drunken sex..and she wants him to accompany him to the doctor!. She is not 18 or a virgin . She is a grown woman. I am lost. Not once in his musing is the woman has no self respect, Tashi.

#3 career word is used..I don't have strength to search

This La is a bi*ch, I call him BL for a reason. I despise her, but you know this Arnav has some real issues when dealing with pregnant women. Something about his past that bothers him so much that he ignores misery of his wife of 10 years and runs around doing this BL’s bidding because of his guiltttt. I hate his sense of guilt.

He had no idea how he survived the stress of last couple of months. He had lost Khushi, was sure that he had ruined his own and another woman’s life in process and had his entire life and reputation in jeopardy. There had been a constant throbbing in his head. He couldn’t sleep. And when he gave in to medication, he woke up in cold sweat.

Sorry stand corrected, it’s lunatic, he thought he had ruined another woman’s life. But would add he thought because he is aware of the truth now (lies about her pregnancy and leaking of his divorce news).

Originally posted by: You-Know-Who

Sorry for butting in, but for me the fact that he accompanies her to the doctor actually says that he is an upstanding person. Whether she is a grown woman or not, dealing with the news of unwanted pregnancy is not easy. When Lavanya came to him telling him she was pregnant, he acknowledged that she needed emotional support. I think as readers we know Lavanya’s truth and hence we can see her acting. But Arnav at this point does not know that! He has always thought that Lavanya has a clean image (Rmemeber Aman found out her PR keeps her image clean even in Bollywood), so now imagine that Arnav has always known Lavanya to be extremely professional, has a clean image in the industry (darling of the industry), knows/remembers some flashbacks of him having slept with her, and is told that she might be pregnant. I think it’s basic humanity to go the doctor with her…

I personally think that under the guilt of his cheating, he was just too emotionally wrecked to even consider there was any wrongdoing! Only after Aman comes to him with proof is when he is faced with that reality.

I talked about La asking him to go a doctor.

I would agree. If it was not a rave party that she hosted. I would agree if when a person is asking repeatedly please send for my driver. If she did.

She instead wrapped her hand around his neck and kissed him. Next morning she told him. .."I came on to you. Excuse is both are drunk.

"The man is married. She knows. She does not care. She has stake on him..because her pill did not work and she got pregnant in drunken sex.

She a "grown woman" wants to keep baby..her responsibility. .

Of course I understand the guilt. What stumps me his first response to Aman and he only shut up after Aman's rebuttual.

Anyway let us agree to disagree.."you -know-who"

Originally posted by: bakwas_serial

#2 did not bother you ! It is a drunken sex..and she wants him to accompany him to the doctor!. She is not 18 or a virgin . She is a grown woman. I am lost. Not once in his musing is the woman has no self respect, Tashi.

#3 career word is used..I don't have strength to search

When he cried in front of his building he mentioned he ruined his life and another woman's life and as tashi mentioned he was only thinking about Khushi

The career part is initially when he got the photos and he didnt know the truth of pregnancy

Originally posted by: bakwas_serial

I talked about La asking him to go a doctor.

I would agree. If it was not a rave party that she hosted. I would agree if when a person is asking repeatedly please send for my driver. If she did.

She instead wrapped her hand around his neck and kissed him. Next morning she told him. .."I came on to you. Excuse is both are drunk.

"The man is married. She knows. She does not care. She has stake on him..because her pill did not work and she got pregnant in drunken sex.

She a "grown woman" wants to keep baby..her responsibility. .

Of course I understand the guilt. What stumps me his first response to Aman and he only shut up after Aman's rebuttual.

Anyway let us agree to disagree.."you -know-who"

His reaction to that heavily bugged me too, i mean L didn't know that he was thinking of divorce beforehand, why didn't he stopped to think that what if, lets say hypothetically, everything was fine between him & khushi, and this ONS had happned and la came with the false i am pregnant thing, what would have happened then?

I think i gave him a pass thinking that the man is anyways f cked up in his mind, and this additional episodes has only made all this worst for him and he basically is not at all in a condition to take or do or say sane things/decisions regarding his personal life.

Also he blackmailed manali with everything but not this, why?

Originally posted by: tashi26

oh it did bother me big time, then his mothers word in his musings were irritating me like hell.

This La is a bi*ch, I call him BL for a reason. I despise her, but you know this Arnav has some real issues when dealing with pregnant women. Something about his past that bothers him so much that he ignores misery of his wife of 10 years and runs around doing this BL’s bidding because of his guiltttt. I hate his sense of guilt.

He had no idea how he survived the stress of last couple of months. He had lost Khushi, was sure that he had ruined his own and another woman’s life in process and had his entire life and reputation in jeopardy. There had been a constant throbbing in his head. He couldn’t sleep. And when he gave in to medication, he woke up in cold sweat.

Sorry stand corrected, it’s lunatic, he thought he had ruined another woman’s life. But would add he thought because he is aware of the truth now (lies about her pregnancy and leaking of his divorce news).

I still think this part was for khushi or someone else. but definitely not lavanya...in this whole musing he never thought about her in feb 2016. If this would have been before revelation i would agree but i tend to go with your first assessment that another woman is khushi, first being Anjali

This was so emotional and amazing

Originally posted by: Pujakrishna

His reaction to that heavily bugged me too, i mean L didn't know that he was thinking of divorce beforehand, why didn't he stopped to think that what if, lets say hypothetically, everything was fine between him & khushi, and this ONS had happned and la came with the false i am pregnant thing, what would have happened then?

I think i gave him a pass thinking that the man is anyways f cked up in his mind, and this additional episodes has only made all this worst for him and he basically is not at all in a condition to take or do or say sane things/decisions regarding his personal life.

Also he blackmailed manali with everything but not this, why?

that reaction was irritating,. I agree but i doubt he was in a mental condition to 'Think'. Khushi has just moved to umanagar, he was reeling from the shock of her easy acceptance, his whole guilt on the ONS and baby thing, he was acting out of character here. you cannot always think logical in such scenarios

not that it is an excuse

yes the one thing that bugged me is there is no confrontation of fake pregnancy with La, she literally made him run few times due to her supposed illness. even if he doesnt think he was set up in panchgani, why he didnt atleast ask her once why she faked the pregnancy?

thats why i thought i might have missed it

Originally posted by: Ashviniv

I still think this part was for khushi or someone else. but definitely not lavanya...in this whole musing he never thought about her in feb 2016. If this would have been before revelation i would agree but i tend to go with your first assessment that another woman is khushi, first being Anjali

No guys, that kart is definitely for Lavanya. He is not thinking in terms of present. He is thinking of all the stress he has gone through in last couple of months and up until Aman told him, he did go through the guilt of ruining Lavanya’s life.