Abhimanyu ka dard! - Page 6

Akshara has given no reason not to trust her post leap.

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

we all know they have a history and they also may have be in camaraderie for Abhir but still why is he not able to accept that Ak rejected him thrice and said she loves her husband ! His looks in the court on her gave cringe vibes ! Yesterday in the car he said Akshu 🤢 and then his over action holding his heart ? Who does that ? And he totally forgot that he is engaged to Arohi ?

The day Arohi gave that treadmill speech, he started ignoring her totally. Why she is still in BH only makers know.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

One-sided love has been explored in Indian cinema in all of its forms. No one needs consent to have feelings for someone; they do need consent for realizing those feelings. Abhi asked for consent, he asked if she still loved him, and she said no, and he dropped it. He can't control his feelings, but his actions itself seem pretty controlled. The point they are trying to show is that he still loves her but has built the Mrs. Shrama barrier, so he doesn't do or say anything to disrespect that.

And yeah...I am sure he would have flown off the handle if some guy like him was after Ak. That's a normal response. That Abhinav is a saint for not flying off the handle? That Abhi should be more like Abhinav? Would you like him if he was more like Abhinav?

He is who he is, and Nav is who he is, and we all know some people like Abhi and some people like Nav.

One-sided love is not healthy. In any way. Just because it's romanticised in cimena doesn't mean it's okay lol. If we are bringing up cimema, 500 days of summer was literally about how one-sided love is harmful to both parties.

If one-sided love had some boundaries and respect for other person's consent, autonomy, and personal relationships, that'd still be something. But Abhimanyu has repeatedly intruded upon Akshara's personal life.

I need not Hindi cinema to tell me that loving someone else's husband/wife romantically is wrong especially when you're their ex and the other person is not in a forced, unwanted relationship with their current partners lol

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Originally posted by: Deltablues

One-sided love is not healthy. In any way. Just because it's romanticised in cimena doesn't mean it's okay lol. If we are bringing up cimema, 500 days of summer was literally about how one-sided love is harmful to both parties.

If one-sided love had some boundaries and respect for other person's consent, autonomy, and personal relationships, that'd still be something. But Abhimanyu has repeatedly intruded upon Akshara's personal life.

I need not Hindi cinema to tell me that loving someone else's husband/wife romantically is wrong especially when you're their ex and the other person is not in a forced, unwanted relationship with their current partners lol

. Ofc one-sided love is not healthy, and neither is Akshnav's relationship that, is built on Ak wanting to move on from Abhi instead of actually wanting to be with Nav. Neither is basically any relationship in the show. I am not arguing the virtues of one-sided love, I am explaining that it is accepted in society to a certain extent, and basically, any itv show shows one-sided love.

Where exactly has Abhi intruded?

. Right and wrong hardly matter in a show where literal crimes are overlooked.

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Gonna chime in and say it's perfectly human if someone is in love with someone's else spouse esp if they had shared a past. It happens all the time. Feelings aren't in anyone's control and they don't go away easily. Literature, both fiction and non fiction have shown that some feelings indeed go beyond the realms of what is acceptable to society within a frame of time.

For example, it was 'wrong' for a man to love another in the past but now it's not.

Similarly it is human for a ex husband to still be in love with his ex wife (whatever that definition of love maybe lol).. BUT not at the cost disrespecting the boundaries the other person has set for you. Not at the cost of absolute indecency shown as asking her present husband to 'return' his 'cheez'. Not the cost of asking a married woman to leave her family to come back to him.

Silently loving a married man/woman is alright cause nobody gets to know and you are not hurting anybody in that process. Is it unhealthy,sure. But it's human. People fall in love for whatever reason. However, it's when you actively try to break up a married woman's family,asking her stupid questions... that is wrong. That is INDECENT.

That's line that divides a decent man from an indecent man. Abhimanyu crossed a line that day esp when they were at a temple. Maryaada. Not only did he disrespect Akshara but also a holy place. The significance of asking a sindoor wearing married woman to leave her family for him isn't lost to anyone. Matrimony is considered sacred and Abhimanyu is no pious man after trying to tarnish it's worth IN FRONT OF THE GOD. I would understand this behavior from a hormones fuelled teenager who doesn't know better.. Not from a grownass 40 year old. This is where it's unacceptable, indecent and WRONG. It cannot be clubbed under LOVE.

He didnt respect marriage, he didn't respect Akshara, his supposed object of affection, he didn't respect the gods... So..of what value is this 'love' which knows no boundaries of respect and autonomy. Abhimanyu wants Akshara. He doesn't love Akshara. Love without respect is just.. Want.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

I am not sure what exactly your point is. Ofc one-sided love is not healthy, and neither is Akshnav's relationship that, is built on Ak wanting to move on from Abhi instead of actually wanting to be with Nav. Neither is basically any relationship in the show. I am not arguing the virtues of one-sided love, I am explaining that it is accepted in society to a certain extent, and basically, any itv show shows one-sided love.

Where exactly has Abhi intruded?

And lol, again, with the moral policing. Right and wrong hardly matter in a show where literal crimes are overlooked.

Good lord, everything on this forum is moral policing when it refers to any of Abhimanyu's actions. Wishing to move on from an abusive relationship and putting yourself out there is unhealthy in a comparable way to being so much in love with someone else's wife that you ask the man to 'return' the woman to you as if she were an object to barter between two men— he loves Akshu so much that he priortises her autonomy and wishes vis-à-vis their relationship from the beginning. Lol

Then, showing up at your ex's marital house unannounced, and insisting on staying with her (currrent family) despite her asking you to leave is not intrusion into their personal life of course.

Then, butting into private discussions between the ex and her current partner is not an intrusion lol

Then, obviously not calling out your own mother for asking insinuating to your ex's current husband to leave her so that you could have your happy family is very selfless.

Everyone in this show just asks the men to either leave/marry/reconcile with the women for xyz reasons lel

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Yes there is no switch off button for love but the most important, essential thing in romantic love is consent lol.

@bold Abhimanyu ka yhi hai.. Day 1 se haath, paav, muh dho ke he's after AK 🤪

Bas fark itna hai Akshara has grown up n realized importance of actions over words, companionship over singing jaaniye & respect over teenage love in a relationship.. Isiliye ab show ke hero ki cringe harkate aur highlight hoti hai 🤣

Originally posted by: Sherlockian

TRP has been constant for the last few months.

Wasting your energy pal tryin to give logical explanations where clearly they won't be paid any heed to

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

The way he was trying to race with Abhinav to reach her before him is just ewww! We all know they have a history but still he should know his limits and he totally forgot that he is engaged to Arohi ? If he is not interested why can’t he say that to her and free her from this love less relationship? Why is this Arohi not leaving that BH is above my understanding! I don’t think she is expecting anything from that house or AbM but she is just continuing to live there as she was doing from last 6-7yrs!

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Imagine Rekha running for Amitab infront of Jaya 🤣🤣