I dont think Teji was wrong. - Page 2

Sharing what I posted earlier in EDT here for reference.

Three four times in the past those FB scenes were shown in KA to viewers, where Ehsan tells Katha how Viraj's death got scandalized in media with headings 'Earthcon CEO Viraj found dead with cardiac arrest in the bedroom of a prostitute' which also left deep scar on teenager Viaan.

Later Katha searches net, to dig those old articles on Viraj & gets disturbed before 50 years anniversary event, that's how she recognizes Seema's name and face.

Later Viaan tells Katha during Lonavala return trip about Seema briefly, 😒on how he became judgmental for several years about women that most are 'gold diggers' 'seducers' 'home breakers' who are after rich successful men for luxuries, this is due to Seema's hot affair for her own benefits with his father, which was repeatedly fed into his brain right from when he was just a 12 years boy who saw his father leave them suddenly.😔 (that's when Viraj has last fight with Teji & left home never to return alive)

Here Viaan is more affected after knowing both sides truth now, because neither was Seema a cheap woman, nor seducer, nor gold digger, nor was she the main trigger for fights between his mom & dad when they lived together, which Viaan was brain washed wrongly by Teji/Farah & media right from his teenage.

Execution of this revelation episodes could have been much better, if narrative was more from Viaan's POV as a teenager who got embroiled in elders decisions, but not to point or whitewash who is wrong Teji, Viraj or Seema?

Also writers didn't clarify properly if divorce notice was given to Teji by Viraj's lawyer even before he met Seema or before he left home as a final resort to end his relation.

If Teji refused to divorce Viraj for long, not only because of her love but also because she wanted his name, fame, wealth, status, Earthcon legacy all for herself & son undivided and was scared that Viraj may remarry and have another happy family,then she may be greedy selfish person too.

Because as per what's shown & said from till now, it seems many years before meeting Seema as his staff in Earthcon office, Viraj clearly wanted to go separate with Teji, they had constant fights with NO love left from his side, but Teji didn't want to separate from him.🤔 At that time Viaan was a much small kid, but seems Viraj still kept living under same roof detached from Teji unhappy, ONLY for son Viaan sake but Viaan never had a clue about this.

It is said later Viraj after many years met Seema, got emotionally attached to her, found solace in her companionship. In that new FB scene, Seema was shown telling Teji that she didn't cross any lines with Viraj yet, she just wants Viraj's love nothing else from him, everything else Teji can keep.

After Teji refused to sign on divorce papers (even after Viraj & Seema telling Teji they both are in love openly, with no cheating from behind), seems Viraj got fed up and left house finally, only after that he started living with Seema in another house having a physical relationship & started a new family, while his divorce case was still running in courts.

Legally though Teji was still Viraj's wife, seems Viraj didn't start physical relation with Seema while he was living with Teji & Viaan under same roof, 😳neither did Viraj hide anything about Seema with Teji nor has he back stabbed her (that's what Viaan was telling Teji when confronting her that Viraj was honest & told everything upfront about Seema to Teji).

Here both Seema & Teji were educated, smart & matured women who made some choices & decisions around Viraj, whatever be those, fact is their respective children faced traumatic childhood & teenage NOT normal ones. Since Viraj had a sudden death he escaped responsibility for his actions,😳but both mom's are responsible for not putting Viaan & Vanya thru some counselling / therapy sessions stating them all truths by not hiding/twisting past things. Their kids life could have been much better, with less prejudices & bitterness then.

Originally posted by: Neutral2

It is hard truth of life that for making relationship, it require two people consent but for breaking relationship only one people consent is enough.

You can say Viraj is selfish but Viraj and Teji relationship was not working for sometimes, probably years. They might be staying together only for Viaan and Teji one sided love. When seema entered into Viraaj life, he thought he also has the right to live happily rather than staying in bad marriage. Things don't go well, of course Teji is of no fault. More than 16 years of marriage, no woman will be able to digest it. What Teji did is to use her child to force Viraj to come back. Again Teji is no wrong. While Man has money to offer to his second wife, woman at Teji's age has nothing to offer to new husband. The best possible way is to emotional blackmail Viraj that if he left, he will not be able to meet his son.

Viaan should understand this after all he also not able take No from Katha. Viaan did a grave mistake in his life at the age of 32-33. What Teji did is nothing in front of what Viaan did. Instead Viaan is blaming Teji for his own grave mistake. He think what he become is because of mother. That's not true. Teji never taught Viaan wrong thing. He never taught Viaan to disrespect woman. Instead she opened NGO especially for women. What Viaan did to Katha, it is his own thinking. No one is responsible for his ONS offer other than himself. It is said if a person under 20 do some mistake, half of the responsibility goes to parent. But Viaan was at his 30. 10 year is enough to change ideology and personality. Viaan was 15 when his father left Again this is not tender age which would affect him so badly that gives him traumatic experience. Viaan should not blame Teji for his own mistake.

Teji is wrong in these two instances if she refused a divorce and used her son to force her husband to stay in loveless relationship.
just because they were married for 16 years, teji can force to stay married either for her or for her son. I won’t even blame the husband if he goes for EMA in this case.

Originally posted by: LAV2725

Also writers didn't clarify properly if divorce notice was given to Teji by Viraj's lawyer even before he met Seema or before he left home as a final resort to end his relation.

If Teji refused to divorce Viraj for long, not only because of her love but also because she wanted his name, fame, wealth, status, Earthcon legacy all for herself & son undivided and was scared that Viraj may remarry and have another happy family,then she may be greedy selfish person too.

Because as per what's shown & said from till now, it seems many years before meeting Seema as his staff in Earthcon office, Viraj clearly wanted to go separate with Teji, they had constant fights with NO love left from his side, but Teji didn't want to separate from him.🤔 At that time Viaan was a much small kid, but seems Viraj still kept living under same roof detached from Teji unhappy, ONLY for son Viaan sake but Viaan never had a clue about this.

It is said later Viraj after many years met Seema, got emotionally attached to her, found solace in her companionship. In that new FB scene, Seema was shown telling Teji that she didn't cross any lines with Viraj yet, she just wants Viraj's love nothing else from him, everything else Teji can keep.

After Teji refused to sign on divorce papers (even after Viraj & Seema telling Teji they both are in love openly, with no cheating from behind), seems Viraj got fed up and left house finally, only after that he started living with Seema in another house having a physical relationship & started a new family, while his divorce case was still running in courts.

Legally though Teji was still Viraj's wife, seems Viraj didn't start physical relation with Seema while he was living with Teji & Viaan under same roof, neither did he hide anything about Seema with Teji.

Here both Teji & Seema were educated, smart & matured women who made some choices & decisions around Viraj, whatever be those, fact is their respective children faced traumatic childhoods & teenage NOT normal ones. Since Viraj had a sudden death he escaped responsibility for his actions,😳but both mom's are responsible for not putting Viaan & Vanya thru some counselling / therapy sessions stating them all truths by not hiding/twisting past things. Their kids life could have been much better, with less prejudices & bitterness then.

I don’t think there is EMA or great white washing in this case. Teji seems awful to force her husband to stay in marriage and there by ruined her son’s childhood. She should have gone for a divorce and then co parenting. Both family should have been happy.

I like this, mothers are not always angels !!

Originally posted by: SakZ

Teji is wrong in these two instances if she refused a divorce and used her son to force her husband to stay in loveless relationship.
just because they were married for 16 years, teji can force to stay married either for her or for her son. I won’t even blame the husband if he goes for EMA in this case.

Not sure how this 16 years came up, when Viaan was 12 years boy Viraj finally left Teji & house that much only is clear & yes Seema was much younger than Viraaj.😳

We know maths, age, years etc. go for toss in TV serials,but still.

Earthcon celebrated 50 years anniversary recently. So had its founder architect Viraj Raghuvanshi still been alive, he must be atleast 73-74 years old man now.

This hints (as I mentioned in other EDT), Viraj might have been about 40 years when Teji gave birth to Viaan.Indicates Viraj married late in those times & Teji married an already successful architect, a rich businessman Viraj.😛 If they both fell apart love within few years of their marriage, means their son Viaan could be some 4-5 years boy then?

With or without Seema in his life, Viraj would have still fought divorce case with Teji because for many years he was unhappy in his married life, that much Viaan understood after knowing full truth,😒so he felt guilty for hating Viraj & Seema all these years, with filled up vengeance.

Originally posted by: SakZ

Teji is wrong in these two instances if she refused a divorce and used her son to force her husband to stay in loveless relationship.
just because they were married for 16 years, teji can force to stay married either for her or for her son. I won’t even blame the husband if he goes for EMA in this case.

@bold I hope you are kidding.

Viraj is enjoying his life with other woman and Teji is left with jealousy and insecurity.

A man can get much younger wife after divorce but woman will have difficulty (almost impossible) to get new husband at the age of above 37 with a kid. In no way Teji is wrong in refusing divorce.

Also isn't individuality is lost when you come into relationship. You can't take decision alone in marriage. Viraj choose to separate while Teji decided if he left he will not able to meet their son. Nothing wrong. Viraaj has still the option to go to court instead he choose to have another baby. Why Teji has bear this nonsense.

Originally posted by: LAV2725

Not sure how this 16 years came up, when Viaan was 12 years boy Viraj finally left Teji & house that much only is clear & yes Seema was much younger than Viraaj.😳

We know maths, age, years etc. go for toss in TV serials,but still.

Earthcon celebrated 50 years anniversary recently. So had its founder architect Viraj Raghuvanshi still been alive, he must be atleast 73-74 years old man now.

This hints (as I mentioned in other EDT), Viraj might have been about 40 years when Teji gave birth to Viaan.Indicates Viraj married late in those times & Teji married an already successful architect, a rich businessman Viraj.😛 If they both fell apart love within few years of their marriage, means their son Viaan could be some 4-5 years boy then?

With or without Seema in his life, Viraj would have still fought divorce case with Teji because for many years he was unhappy in his married life, that much Viaan understood after knowing full truth,😒so he felt guilty for hating Viraj & Seema all these years, with filled up vengeance.

So Viraaj left when Viaan was 12 and he died when Viaan was 15. 3 years, he is with Seema and no media knows about this. In these 3 year he didn't get divorce. Lol can't blame him for affair with another woman. Viraj and Seema has a daughter at that time and no media cover this.

I am not. It is a bullshit argument to say one should stay married and should never get a divorce for any reason, be it children, one sided love, married for long time, wife is too old to get married again etc etc.

why we are expecting a man to be in a loveless marriage because his wife cant find a man for herself and she is insecure ?!! Why would we want a child to be raised in that environment?!

I would always prefer a divorced couple doing co parenting than a toxic couple in a forced marriage.

Yes every decision that affect both/child in a marriage should be taken by both. But falling out of love is an individual choice. So one can choose to give a divorce for whatever reason.
As per your logic one can’t take a decision on his own right? then how come she can take a decision on her own to refuse a divorce and continue a commitment ?

Just because Teji loves and wants her husband in her life doesn’t make it right to refuse a divorce and use her child to force him. Just because viraaj wanted a divorce doesn’t make it right for Teji to refuse parent visiting.

Viraj could have approached court for a divorce. I am not sure why he didn’t do that. He not going for a court doesn’t make what teji did right.

Teji could have easily avoid this nonsense by giving a divorce and agree for co parenting. Single life is way better than having a husband who doesn’t love you.

She is a fool if she expects her husband will be faithful to her if she force him in marriage.

Originally posted by: SakZ

I am not. It is a bullshit argument to say one should stay married and should never get a divorce for any reason, be it children, one sided love, married for long time, wife is too old to get married again etc etc.

why we are expecting a man to be in a loveless marriage because his wife cant find a man for herself and she is insecure ?!! Why would we want a child to be raised in that environment?!

I would always prefer a divorced couple doing co parenting than a toxic couple in a forced marriage.

Yes every decision that affect both/child in a marriage should be taken by both. But falling out of love is an individual choice. So one can choose to give a divorce for whatever reason.
As per your logic one can’t take a decision on his own right? then how come she can take a decision on her own to refuse a divorce and continue a commitment ?

Just because Teji loves and wants her husband in her life doesn’t make it right to refuse a divorce and use her child to force him. Just because viraaj wanted a divorce doesn’t make it right for Teji to refuse parent visiting.

Viraj could have approached court for a divorce. I am not sure why he didn’t do that. He not going for a court doesn’t make what teji did right.

Teji could have easily avoid this nonsense by giving a divorce and agree for co parenting. Single life is way better than having a husband who doesn’t love you.

She is a fool if she expects her husband will be faithful to her if she force him in marriage.

@bold Same applies for woman. Why we are expecting woman always giving up and do what the man want. She doesn't want divorce then how can you label as wrong. She was doing what was her right because divorce happen with mutual consent. If one want divorce then you have to go to court and fight for freedom.

Pls all those confused get a clarity, by the time of Viraj's death, divorce case filed by him against Teji was still running in courts for some years, with Teji refusing divorce.

When Vanya truth came out, it's shown that Teji & Farah panic & call their old lawyer to bury that divorce petition. They threaten him those case details & documents should never come out especially Viaan should never know.😲 Lawyer assures he took care of it long back, not to worry.

But seems Jeetu bhai & his wife plus Seema help Katha with old lawyer of Viraj. So Viraj's Lawyer shared that old divorce petition copy with Seema, which Katha gave to Viaan & reading that shook him😒