Virat's life : The worst life - Page 19

Originally posted by: Deltablues

"that man really didn't slapped her after hearing this much instead he swallowed his tears, whose wife didn't allowed him to touch her for 5 long years till her heart also started beating for him, even she didn't liked when she was called his wife, for her their marriage was deal but what about Virat's life"

Virat is mahaan because he did not slap his wife (though he denied her food, locked her up, kicked her out in the middle of the night.)

Virat is mahaan because he did not touch his wife without his wife's consent for FIVE WHOLE YEARS. (What is the act of touching someone without their cosent called?)

What superhuman standards of conduct were expected of Virat!

Truly godlike, average men cannot meet his standards.

Okay so let's not discuss alot- just few clarifications.....slap wala point was about when Sai indirectly called him a stud (judgemental) in Mahabaleshwar after what all efforts he took for her, truly normal na......and point to be noted is ,everything we hear is an opinion not a fact everything we see is a perspective not the truth so with this.....The second point you addressed was wrt married life......not rape that you pinched......he had his expectations of family and a lot from his wife, generally what a normal guy would have had but he didn't care.....and last one the one who started this thread wasn't me it was my a/c but not me.....so just killed sometime on this, you know what ,I really respect you though I get angry many times, may be I am wrong I can be but ma'am having out of the world understanding of aspects is what I don't understand and in this the answer is ITV FL oriented dramas so pls forgive me for this.....and let me tell you Virat was a normal human, problem was that only but definitely if you will asking a guy like me or anyone..... majority ans will be ---nobody is like Virat and can't be, I won't be giving explanation over this because there is no meaning and about what all you marked in brackets, you know the reason........ actually I am not a woman na so gap is definitely there.....🤓 thank you for replying.....

Originally posted by: Ashane25

Okay so let's not discuss alot- just few clarifications.....slap wala point was about when Sai indirectly called him a stud (judgemental) in Mahabaleshwar after what all efforts he took for her, truly normal na......and point to be noted is ,everything we hear is an opinion not a fact everything we see is a perspective not the truth so with this.....The second point you addressed was wrt married life......not rape that you pinched......he had his expectations of family and a lot from his wife, generally what a normal guy would have had but he didn't care.....and last one the one who started this thread wasn't me it was my a/c but not me.....so just killed sometime on this, you know what ,I really respect you though I get angry many times, may be I am wrong I can be but ma'am having out of the world understanding of aspects is what I don't understand and in this the answer is ITV FL oriented dramas so pls forgive me for this.....and let me tell you Virat was a normal human, problem was that only but definitely if you will asking a guy like me or anyone..... majority ans will be ---nobody is like Virat and can't be, I won't be giving explanation over this because there is no meaning and about what all you marked in brackets, you know the reason........ actually I am not a woman na so gap is definitely there.....🤓 thank you for replying.....

You might want to consider what "normal guys" do if their wives do not consent to xyz whatever — maybe divorce them? Maybe just respect their right to consent?

So Virat was superhuman in his conduct na. See I agree.

Originally posted by: kavitha_r

At the end of the day everyone are responsible for their actions. Karma does not spare anyone.

Kavitha ji actually I read and came across this thread just few days back, it was actually my cousin who used it as Clover so don't get confused, but you know in ITV there is nothing called karma if you are FL.....am I right????

You were respectful with your message but many of the things I didn't find up to the mark and somewhat insensible, so sorry I don't agree with Clover's every point but I don't even agree with most of your points.....the way you indirectly called Virat reason for Kamal Sir's death and Sai's imaginary independence and about illogically comparing two areas of Sai and Virat was truly blind,

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Where was I contradicting you? Normal guys, as per you, cannot wait around five years for their wife's consent— these are not my opinion but you yourself have stated this. You might want to consider what "normal guys" do if their wife do not consent xyz whatever — maybe divorce them? Maybe just respect their right to consent?

So Virat was superhuman in his conduct na. See I agree.

Why can't they...... definitely you can die as virgin being married infact it's pride not guilt for a man&-- a true sigma ....as per me marriage is love not lust so it's totally ok to be in this relationship ,divorce was never an option but not a loveless marriage (as per me) again I can be wrong.....man marries a woman not a kid ,here I can't be wrong....Virat was truly human didn't you see how he got ignited when Sai was fake flirting with Amey being married and in officer's family...... actually you again misunderstood..... superhuman is not this infact you overated stuffs, it's about being in a marriage where you need to understand that if I will gonna hug or by mistakely touch my wife, ain't I a cheap guy???? Because even this wasn't allowed--- so an ideal married life specially when Sai was about to kiss him in honeymoon cruise.... A marriage where you are allowed to give but don't expect anything back get insulted and abused( this is allowed), I think I was really wrong to call him a human....you definitely agree with a little twist not the one I stated but you imagined or assumed whatever it was..... actually what you considered this na that wasn't consent factor but the overall chapter of ghum and Virat......I got it!!!

Just think once a different version of ghum where Sai was respecting Virat's consent for the rest 5-6 years when she was aging......and wanted a kid but Virat hadn't even accepted her.....

Originally posted by: Ashane25

Why can't they...... definitely you can die as virgin being married infact it's pride not guilt for a man&-- a true sigma ....as per me marriage is love not lust so it's totally ok to be in this relationship ,divorce was never an option but not a loveless marriage (as per me) again I can be wrong.....man marries a woman not a kid ,here I can't be wrong....Virat was truly human didn't you see how he got ignited when Sai was fake flirting with Amey being married and in officer's family...... actually you again misunderstood..... superhuman is not this infact you overated stuffs, it's about being in a marriage where you need to understand that if I will gonna hug or by mistakely touch my wife, ain't I a cheap guy???? Because even this wasn't allowed--- so an ideal married life specially when Sai was about to kiss him in honeymoon cruise.... A marriage where you are allowed to give but don't expect anything back get insulted and abused( this is allowed), I think I was really wrong to call him a human....you definitely agree with a little twist not the one I stated but you imagined or assumed whatever it was..... actually what you considered this na that wasn't consent factor but the overall chapter of ghum and Virat......I got it!!!

Just think once a different version of ghum where Sai was respecting Virat's consent for the rest 5-6 years when she was aging......and wanted a kid but Virat hadn't even accepted her.....

Firstly, love and consent are not mutually inclusive concepts. People should ask their loved ones for their consent regularly.

And if you think that people shouldn't be in loveless marriages then isn't divorce the only recourse?

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Firstly, love and consent are not mutually inclusive concepts. People should ask their loved ones for their consent regularly.

And if you think that people shouldn't be in loveless marriages then isn't divorce the only recourse?

Coloured- absolutely true but what is the meaning of this.....neither I am a kid nor anyone is..... didn't you find any kind of difference between what is a normal marriage and what Virat was part of, I don't think so after 10-12 years, when I will be getting married.....it will be anyhow similar to what it was of Sairat....no way....Divorce was not available for Virat.....poor guy ,it was his condition and M factor plus he loved her what to say then about romeo.......he was meant to be with her for trp and female audience entertainment ,as we say--virtual world and business......any other guy should have divorced because normal life (if not ideal being IPS) was waiting but he chose that so I am not allowed to interrupt in his decisions 😂😜☺️.....this illogical show is closed G1 so there is no meaning of practical discussions.....Virat was restricted for being with her so what can we do.....here ML don't get new FL bu the other way round..... regressive SP shows....no equality at all......we can't change anything, system works like this here in startup and entrepreneurship ppl are teaching this , so let this out of the world drama be itself in reality nobody tolerates this much......

Originally posted by: Ashane25

Kavitha ji actually I read and came across this thread just few days back, it was actually my cousin who used it as Clover so don't get confused, but you know in ITV there is nothing called karma if you are FL.....am I right????

You were respectful with your message but many of the things I didn't find up to the mark and somewhat insensible, so sorry I don't agree with Clover's every point but I don't even agree with most of your points.....the way you indirectly called Virat reason for Kamal Sir's death and Sai's imaginary independence and about illogically comparing two areas of Sai and Virat was truly blind, I can be wrong but a programmed woman can be biased not a college boy.....

Just as Sai was indirectly responsible for Samrat's death Virat was indirectly responsible for Kamal's death. I already mentioned the reason. Virat didn't approve Kama"s resignation but requested him to continue.

It was only at a later on Kamal refused to take retirement. I am not a female shominist. Sai is a flawed character. No second thoughts on that.

Having said that, I don't justify most of Virat"s actions like manhandling her, starving her, throwing her out of the house at the middle of the night, locking her inside the room. Even after making up with each other he never thought from Sai"s viewpoint.

He supported Pakhi's illegal surrogacy and bailed her out.

He always doubted Sai when she communicated with any other guy, be it Ajinkya, Jagtap, or Satya.

But when Sai did the same in Shruti track, Virat reacted in the same way.

Virat was responsible for his own misfortune..

Virat was an IPS n as allowed mental Harassment against his wife.

He asked her to cook in house just because kaku wanted inspite of the fact that she has to study hard n her studies would have hampered if she wasn't so intelligent.

He never told his ex strictly to stop bothering him not insult his wife.

He was a grown up guy with good jo but he never stopped kaku n his father from I'll treating his mother. Such a loser. A nice son would have left house with his mother.

He didn't told his brother that his fioncee love someone else n ruined his brother's life.

He fooled patralekha with fake promise n never allowed her to properly move on.

He didn't told his wife about Shruti n went to hotel by using husband wife tag n wanted his wife to believe him..

Originally posted by: Ashane25

Yes, this is what I always wanted to discuss a man whose kakasaheb left him in his childhood, whose mother used to be tortured by his own father and family, whose sister got mentally ill because of betrayal pain, whose brother left him because he felt cheated by him though that wasn't the truth it was great patralekha who cheated him, whose brother even died in saving his wife, whose character was always doubted by his wife she even said him a character less guy during the night when he really found his brother after one long year and she also said that he is feeling bad after having his brother back because he will no longer be able to enjoy the ride with two girls and that man really didn't slapped her after hearing this much instead he swallowed his tears, whose wife didn't allowed him to touch her for 5 long years till her heart also started beating for him, even she didn't liked when she was called his wife, for her their marriage was deal but what about Virat's life, his expectations,he was ips and belonged to a reputed family he could have easily got married to a matured girl but God has planned something different for him, he used to do everything for sai as wife infact more than wife but sai didn't realise his love infact insulted him during his wedding anniversary, he was literally getting abused by her wife I am seeing this first time on ITV that a man get abused and he just use to get angry and then silence, his wife once in a lifetime by him was called anath and she left with his baby because the mother who really taken care of that child was not the desired person near his son though that lady was worst but things have changed, whose wife and son got in an accident and he blamed himself for that though his wife was living and had also given birth to a little girl and Virat was never been able to see her if god didn't wanted to even the child he adopted was latter happen to be his own son and now the track is also going towards him getting away from his son also are all these not a pain then what really pain is?

Everyone has got ups and downs in their lives. Kakasaheb leaving the world was inevitable in the show. Even Sai lost her mom after she was born. Kamal Joshi took care of his daughter single-handedly. She was happy in her mayaka and her marriage with Virat took place unexpectedly. If Sai doubted Virat's character, even he did the same. That too three times. He always makes the same mistake. Virat was the one who told Sai that his marriage with her is a deal. So Sai reminded him of that.

When Virat began to love Sai, he never told her that he lobes her till she confessed her love for him. Thanks to Devyani. Even Sunny helped Virat to realize his love for Sai. He didn't love Sai as much ad his Kaku.

Yes, Ninad tortured Ashwini and it went for long. Even Sai was never in the bed of roses after entering as a Bahu. Except for Ashwini, Shivani, Devi, no one gave her the rights of a DIL but they kept enforcing their rights on her.

They didn't even want her to study and accomplish her dreams. Virat went against them and that was the only thing he did for her.

Originally posted by: naaznin

Virat was responsible for his own misfortune..

Virat was an IPS n as allowed mental Harassment against his wife.

He asked her to cook in house just because kaku wanted inspite of the fact that she has to study hard n her studies would have hampered if she wasn't so intelligent.

He never told his ex strictly to stop bothering him not insult his wife.

He was a grown up guy with good jo but he never stopped kaku n his father from I'll treating his mother. Such a loser. A nice son would have left house with his mother.

He didn't told his brother that his fioncee love someone else n ruined his brother's life.

He fooled patralekha with fake promise n never allowed her to properly move on.

He didn't told his wife about Shruti n went to hotel by using husband wife tag n wanted his wife to believe him..

I won't be writing something too much....you were right to an extent but sorry many of the points are biased so I don't agree.....and this thread wasn't opened by me so I am not the right person for your reply it was my account but not me.....then also let me say one thing in joint families a lot of things needs to be tolerated not only you but your loved ones also.....and you can see your own points, Sai wasn't an easy girl to live with I applaud Virat for that.....Virat never forced Sai for household but wanted to contribute if possible nobody marries a kid but a woman.....Sai wasn't considering him as husband but accepting everything from him and wasn't giving anything back...Pakhi was in a situation when he wasn't allowed to do anything but just allow her to share her end till Samrat comes.....a nice son never takes his mom away from his father when she herself doesn't want to infact sort out issues between them which he did in mimo track though it needed a start from his wife....Pl was rubbish to even think that Virat won't be moving on when everything was visible in front of her you can't force someone to love you....in Shruti track and Mahabaleshwar, Sai doubted him for no reasons even passed out judgements when he was literally doing everything for her first anniversary then result day when she broke his phone after two visits.....I don't know why female audience blindly follow FL oriented dramas which are so biased that there seems no logic but emotional creativity.....FL is glorified for nothing.....Ml don't even get dialogues.....