Virat's life : The worst life - Page 20

Originally posted by: kavitha_r

Everyone has got ups and downs in their lives. Kakasaheb leaving the world was inevitable in the show. Even Sai lost her mom after she was born. Kamal Joshi took care of his daughter single-handedly. She was happy in her mayaka and her marriage with Virat took place unexpectedly. If Sai doubted Virat's character, even he did the same. That too three times. He always makes the same mistake. Virat was the one who told Sai that his marriage with her is a deal. So Sai reminded him of that.

When Virat began to love Sai, he never told her that he lobes her till she confessed her love for him. Thanks to Devyani. Even Sunny helped Virat to realize his love for Sai. He didn't love Sai as much ad his Kaku.

Yes, Ninad tortured Ashwini and it went for long. Even Sai was never in the bed of roses after entering as a Bahu. Except for Ashwini, Shivani, Devi, no one gave her the rights of a DIL but they kept enforcing their rights on her.

They didn't even want her to study and accomplish her dreams. Virat went against them and that was the only thing he did for her.

Actually I gave your reply previously in above message if it goes properly then ok but if not then koi naa....and just see your message with Virat's POV I bet it will not be same anymore.....

Originally posted by: Ashane25

Actually I gave your reply previously in above message if it goes properly then ok but if not then koi naa....and just see your message with Virat's POV I bet it will not be same anymore.....

Yes, you replied, but you only commented about Sai being adamant and disrespectful to elders. But the same stubborn wife helped them in the union of her in-laws.

Just because she left the house, you guys pounce on her and give a clean chit to Virat despite changing sides even after getting the evidence against Pakhi.

If Sai is stubborn, Virat is no less. BK, needless to say. She always wants things her way! BK should get respected despite what she did to her daughter and child. Sai should do Mangalarti BK for bailing out criminals like Pakhi.

Pulkit was not a cheap guy. He took care of Devyani like a child knowing that she was mentally ill. It was Sai who made little Harini accept Devyani as her mother in such a way that it was easy for her to accept.

Let me tell you something I actually wrote main stuffs in coloured way.....and what I believe is feminism is okay but it should be with the grounds of equality not biased mentality and definitely not an unnecessary fight to go against man and take their place...why I wrote this I don't know whether you will agree it or not but just see what all you wrote.....

Where is the equality in the first place? In your eyes, Virat is a victim despite his wrong decisions, and his other misdeeds which I have already mentioned. Whatever he does is rasleela and Sai's action is character dheela, regardless of the intent.

when Virat manhandled(not even level 1 offence) Sai was insulting elders, shouting unnecessarily, stubborn for non sense infact was wrong when he cared about her security and was calm, as far as I remember even spewed poison..... by saying him that he didn't do anything for me just used Kamal Sir's name to manipulate villagers and marry me.....

That does not justify Virat manhandling Sai. Virat knew how his elders were treating Sai. They only wanted her and Usha maasi as free servants. They never gave her the right of a DIL, yet they question her of where she goes. That is not fair on their part. If Sai is stubborn BK is no less. That old lady lived her life. Why doesn't she let others live their lives? It was hard for Sai to accept him as her husband as it was short notice for her and she never looked upon Virat in that way. He blamed Sai for his job being at stake.

I think you know what does it mean and how much pain it can give you, specially the great elders of CN who were igniting Virat for doing something wrong then he lost control (actually controlled) when Sai was mannerlessly disrespecting him.....

Yes, I know. But the only difference is you are justifying them of their misbehavior to a ghar ki bahu and I don't favor that. What did the so-called great elders of CN do to command and demand respect from her? Did they treat her the way they treated PL? Have they ever been affectionate towards Sai? Did they ever understand her feelings? They kept planning and plotting against her and played a victim card before Virat is a bigger fool not to hear from the other side. Typical police mentality.

So who was wrong here..... Wasn't Sai wrong????Virat was wrong and he was sorry and never did that again but what about you who was mainly origin of all that.....the same way reasons go for others I think you must not be denying that any other normal woman in place of Sai would have easily understood Virat's conditions as an elder son of family and his blind love for her...for surrogacy track I agree that Virat was deemed not negative but not positive what he actually was.....

Virat doubted on Sai's character when Ajinkya entered their bedroom and he did the same mistake in Jagtap's and Satya's case. But on the other token he never confronted Pakhi for entering their room during the odd times. Virat blindly loving Sai is laughable for me. If he loved her blindly, he would have taken a stand for her at the most decisive moment. Fine, he bailed out Pakhi according to Bhavani's whims, but he should have left CN with her and the baby.

Just see devkit case any person in her place would have understood that doors of CN are closed for me (this point eliminates whatever happened there it was just victimizing drama of ITV) ,after what all I did with him specially behind his back ,as definitely in his eyes pulkit was not a right person at all- atleast till the actual truth comes out or she would have arranged truth factors so why should I blame Virat for anything.... Pulkit wasn't there from last 10years when Devi tai's life was hell and came with a daughter named as harini who used to term Madhuri as ma.... neighbours were in doubt about their relationship, college register also said the same thing and elders of family was also saying wrong things about him.....so in all these you will be seeing your love..... making your mentally ill sister being married to a cheap guy who can do wrong things with her then.....you can't imagine his anger, Virat did nothing means nothing and a lot more, but I think you can see yourself... Virat was a different guy; his life would have been different if he would not have got to GC and resort.....he deserved something else, but people around him and the ones with whom he got associated....made his life hell he had his set of flaws but it was understandable and acceptable.....

Yes, Devkit did realize that doors were closed for her, but then it was Sai who convinced Bhavani to accept her. Though she hated Sai, she could not refuse. Pulkit was not suitable for Devyani in Virat's eyes till the truth came out, but the problem with Virat is that he blindly believed the evidence that got planted by Bhavani and co. He never bothered to listen to the other side like any other IPS officer. He bagan the investigation only after Sai went to GC. Virat ultimately got a matured woman like Pakhi who kept calling him a matured person each time she suspected him and came to the police station during working hours only to give him food that became a ridicule for his juniors. If you say that manhandling and throwing two ladies at the middle of the night is understandable and acceptable then how will you react if the same thing comes to your sister or daughter? If you say their husband and inlaws were right then I will say that it is all said than done. I don't accept that regardless of whether it is in the real life or reel life. If he claims to love Sai, he would have looked at the same thing from Sai's viewpoint. Rest of the things are bullshit.

The ultimate Truth...

Yes, Sai is a flawed character. But it does not mean that Virat and other characters are saints. But it is wrong to point out the flaws of only one person.

I won't be giving lot of gyaan on this but don't you think that Sai was mainly wrong and reason for all this....in some cases her intensions were right but what about actions and in some it was reaction not action so am I allowed to blame????

Sai's only mistake was she cared for people who were nice to her and Devyani was one of them. BK always got Devyani injected and almost made her a vegetable. Where was Virat at that time? Devyani was already married to Pulkit, but her family did not accept that marriage and kept the couple away from each other for many years. I agree that Sai's ways were wrong but her intentions were right. CN always gave a toxic environment for women, be it a daughter or a DIL. It was especially a hell for women who didn't agree with BK. There was no other way to give a good life to Devyani. Even Ashwini suffered a lot till Sai helped her in sorting out the things with Ninad. Karishma was never allowed to put her views by Sonali. Mansi didn't have much say in CN.

He supported Kaku and his Family's repo....it wasn't his wish to bail her out on the cost of Sai and Vinu both Sai and Virat should have opted for other ways...

If a DIL goes to jail family reputation will go down and if a DIL leaves the house did that not hamper the family's reputation? It was a false honor. Whatever Pakhi did was a criminal. Virat knew that Pakhi wanted to keep Vinu only for herself, yet he stood for the wrong. He also got suspended for supporting the crime, at least for a while.

It wasn't only restricted to communication, I guess.....Sai's cheap flirting(immoral) with Satya in his cabin was proof of that.....even JT used to stalk her and everyone was doubting her because JT was a part of her life and Savi.....I kinda agree for Ajinkya but he had his big end and reasons where Sai crossed lines to an extent, which nobody understood.....

Sai never flirted with Satya. She never had romantic moments with him. She only blew out the dust from his eyes, which anyone would have done in her place. She would have done that for anyone in that position. Virat moved on with Pakhi instead of searching for her. Jagtap was a criminal, but he reformed a lot and was nice to Savi. In Ajunkya's case, he was insecure. That's it. Even Sai was insecure when Pakhi used to barge into their bedroom, but why could Virat not understand that?

She did this both in Mahabaleshwar and Shruti with no backup/reason just passed judgements not even asked ......

Did Virat ever tell Sai that he loves her before Mahabaleshwar trip? He didn't even confide to any of the family members about giving his name to Shruti. Ashwini did tell Sai to ask Virat whether he loves her as a wife and the latter wanted to ask him. Giving his name to his friend's wife is a big decision and he should have told Sai and his parents about it. Had he done that, he would have got family's support.

I am still saying I can be wrong but see it once from this side...... because of what you will be replying to and a lot of views I have already read it so there is no meaning.....what I believe is a female audiences just sees things and accepts them emotionally not practically without understanding the other end whenever they directly blamed Virat it was always a totally biased and unorganized answer.....I am not saying that he didn't do anything. He also had his share of faults, but others were more wrong, and if see the equation of Sai with Virat, she never satisfied it till the second marriage, and in surrogacy, Virat was the somewhere understandable problem is Virat never used to do anything for him but for others for which he got punished and this point didn't go with Sai.....as generally in FL oriented dramas......

There is nothing right or wrong, but you are looking from Virat's perspective. Virat's anger towards Sai is somewhat correct, but nothing can justify his manhandling, starving his wife, throwing her out of the house in the middle of the night without her luggage, and locking her in the room. I don't want to repeat these things. He has been rash, which is a hard fact and immaturity on his part. Virat is at least 10+ years elder to Sai, yet he behaves like a scavenger and that too is an IPS officer. Even Samrat told Virat that locking a person inside the room is domestic violence, and he should know that as a police officer. Sai wanted to go to the library as she had to get more information to prepare for her exams and Virat should have been sensitive about her needs instead of locking her in the room to complete the rituals. It is not an FL-oriented drama, but it is an old female lead drama designed for the great Bhavani Nagesh Chavan, and everyone should listen to her whether she is right or wrong.