Abhi and Akshara’s communication issues

So thought of this topic after seeing the precap where Akshara gets mad at Abhi after Manjiri ripped Abhir’s book because he wrote Abhinav Sharma for his fathers name and asking why Akshara is here when she should be here on weekends.

One of the biggest reasons for arguments in Abhira’s relationship before and after marriage was their communication issues.

The first time their communication issues appears is in the initial episodes of their love story where Abhi didn’t properly communicate with Akshara that they love each other.

Then Manjiri’s hit and run- Akshara assuming whoever was in the room in the hospital was Abhi and sharing the truth then.

Next Neil’s identity revelation. Tell my why Akshara was confronting Manjiri first when Manjiri was avoiding and telling her to stay out of this. Akshara’s relationship to Birla family is through Abhi- she is his wife first and then she has other relations with everyone else in the family. When Akshara was being suspicious about Manjiri’s behavior, she should have shared with Abhi first.

Same again with Anisha’s affair revelation- while watching the episodes - I kept thinking take Anisha to Abhi and discuss her affair in front of him. Yes she was worried how would a Abhi take it hearing someone say his sister is having an affair while being engaged to someone else. Abhi gets mad at her but always says Akshara would never intentionally say or do anything that would harm others.

Again with the Kera’s blackmail for Abhi’s hand surgery- she should have just agreed in front of Kera but once his surgery was done, she should have found someway to communicate with Abhi on what happened. He even said she left nothing behind for me, no note, nothing about her whereabouts. It was shown that he didn’t believe Akshara left when he was told until a video was shown of her leaving with Kairav.

Akshara after the 6 year leap is shown as fierce and no longer keeps quiet when someone is disrespecting her . That she has learned from her first failed marriage on what not to do.

So tell me why in the precap, she is still having communication issues, why she isn’t being straightforward with Abhi even though he asked what happened- instead of answering him- she goes like now I’m worried Abhir will turn out like you. Why can’t she say your mother asked on what Haq I came here, that I should be coming here on weekends only- tell me why your mother is saying all this when you the father with sole custody told me that I can visit anytime I want. I don’t remember your mother getting custody of Abhir and the court ordering that I need her permission to visit.

Also, someone tell me why I am still analyzing these episodes and being so focused on this show which is supposed to be entertainment but instead is adding onto my stress 🤦🏽‍♀️.

Mr. Harshad Chopda - I blame you, you made me a fan of yours and now I have to deal with this stressful show of yours.

It’s after years I’m watching an Indian drama again and it had to be one of most stressful drama.ugh I always hate watch ongoing dramas but I get addicted🤦🏽‍♀️.

I agree, jaise Abhim gusse mein bina communicate kiye seedha divorce papers muh pe maarta hai, aur jab Akshara usse call karti hai to phone nahi uthata, aur jab Akshara usse baat karne ki koshish karti hai (For eg when Kairav puts restraining order, or during Neil paternity reveal arc) to wo baat nahi sunta, I agree communication is not their biggest quality😆

Well it’s too late now to fix, so I hope the track progresses with healthy coparenting among the three parents.

They can't even communicate but as per few they have soul wala love 🤣

There is no fixing buddy, Yahi communication gap to show mein drama laa raha hai😆, inko aise hi chalana hai

Bas ek soul involved hai, meri soul, jo marr chuki hai ye show dekhte dekhte😂

Well thats what makers showed. But whatever Abhira is done with and this from an Abhira fan😅, I just hope for healthy coparenting between the three parents.

Sach toh yeh hai ke communication hoga toh story move nahi hogi yeh ITV ka funda hai.

But as per story Abhimanyu has shown better communication skills than Akshara people are still stuck on a day forget other days and how smoothly he can talk to Aarohi even. So clearly the issue is with Akshara more.

Why i say Akshara coz soul wale love ka toh pta nahi but she has a communication and hiding problem with the Humsafar too.

I don't have to type and remind people of all the things she hid. The communication level was so good that he wasn't aware of the ex's name only, that his wife sings and basically anything about her life before.

Even now they lack basic communication like hey i feel insecure, i didn't like you laughing with ex, i feel destiny is something else and so on.

So clearly it's not just Abhira but everyone sab ke sab

Yeah I feel Akshara more than Abhi.

This isn’t relating to my topic but I see Manju is in your picture. Did you like her new hairstyle in the episode, Manju has red hair in front of her regular dark hair.
Actually all the ladies in Birla house seem to have red highlights , after seeing Manju’s new hairstyle- I was looking at everyone’s hair and red highlight gang is Arohi, Shefali, Nishtha- I’m not sure about Mahima.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Sach toh yeh hai ke communication hoga toh story move nahi hogi yeh ITV ka funda hai.

But as per story Abhimanyu has shown better communication skills than Akshara people are still stuck on a day forget other days and how smoothly he can talk to Aarohi even. So clearly the issue is with Akshara more.

Why i say Akshara coz soul wale love ka toh pta nahi but she has a communication and hiding problem with the Humsafar too.

I don't have to type and remind people of all the things she hid. The communication level was so good that he wasn't aware of the ex's name only, that his wife sings and basically anything about her life before.

Even now they lack basic communication like hey i feel insecure, i didn't like you laughing with ex, i feel destiny is something else and so on.

So clearly it's not just Abhira but everyone sab ke sab