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Posted: 2 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Abhinav as a character has been hugely glorified and even his mistakes are hidden behind the mistakes of other characters so it seems like he is the perfect everything. But no, he is not.


He is not a perfect father or husband. I know people who are, and none of them need this much constant validation or glorification to make it seem true. A father doesn't just love their kid but thinks about their future and actively makes decisions to improve it. Nav being middle class is not the issue, but having no upward trajectory in his career or wanting to improve at all is. Furthermore, he is also responsible for the custody case as much as Ak and Abhi are, but in every situation, Ak ends up taking the majority of the responsibility even though Ak-Nav are supposed to be partners.


He is def not a perfect husband. He is supposed to be Ak's partner but falters in a lot of cases due to his own insecurities. He is emotionally weak and requires constant attention and validation. He doesn't respect her POV when it comes to his own family. He manipulates Ak when she is being stubborn or ends up taking unilateral decisions and overrides her opinion.


Just because someone says this person is a perfect father and husband (i.e. Ak), doesn't make it true. He is not an ideal by any means, and I def would not want such a guy. Someone I can have no real conversation with cause we don't match up intellectually at all, or someone who has no ambition and wants to go nowhere in life but still needs validation that he is successful and a good person constantly, someone who makes every situation about his own ddp, someone who has no friends apparently, someone who keeps emotionally manipulating me to do things, etc.

in summary a husband is perfect if he is educated at my own parallel rich and good looking all this come with another attribute of divorce if you see examples around people even marrying the most eligible bachelor land up into a divorce. So every good thing comes with a poison but no problem you have to risk something to get it
Posted: 2 years ago
#12

Wow.. Yes they could have easily manipulated abhir but chose to paint themselves bad.. Never thought from this perspective.. Lovely ❤

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Posted: 2 years ago
#13

Heart gold ka ho ya aluminum ka , court ne gira diya na mooh ke bal . No one is above law , no matter how much people fret over their delusions.

Posted: 2 years ago
#14

He was portrayed as common man who we see regularly and every day….. he’s not a perfect person. He has flaws and emotional. It’s not a thing to be ashamed of and y people feel connected to him he’s he’s like a boy next door and he was like a person in every middle class family and people can’t tolerate it they just want big bad boy main lead who is arrogant rich and has attitude, anger issues. That’s perfect mandate for everyone. However, I feel abhinav character is similar to this OG natik so legacy audience are more connected to him. It’s OK to have flaws and emotions because nobody’s perfect. It is reality.

Posted: 2 years ago
#15

And as court said about financial situations may be judge to bribe who knows what’s in writer’s mind.

Edited by oh_nakhrewaali - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
#16

We just tired to being a parrot. Repeating just same thing every day. White day is not forgettable at all. He got what he did. No one can forgive this except some girls. Will prefer dumb, orphan, not well educated, over sensitive over a confused guy.

Edited by oh_nakhrewaali - 2 years ago
Posted: 2 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: Priyrabha

We just tired to being a parrot. Repeating just same thing every day. White day is not forgettable at all. He got what he did. No one can forgive this except some girls. Will prefer dumb, orphan, not well educated, over sensitive over a confused guy. Is it hard to understand for some people?

Yeah Atleast he respects his partner. will not inpose his views or force her to do things his way or kick her out in crucial moments or divorce her like maggi noodles or use her like punching bag to take his frustration out

Edited by Annabethhoney - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Peacelover15

When a character like this written which is not just well written but equally well enacted a good sorted man a wonderful husband and an amazing father ppl usually find it difficult to relate but that doesn't make the character bad.


Ppl who left yrkkh have restarted to watch it just for him.. For his bond with his wife Akshara and his fatherhood towards Abhir.. I'm so happy he is getting immense love on Twitter, Instagram and everywhere..


I totally ship Akshnavir


Sorry I beg to differ he is not a well written character.


Infact the dailogues given to him contradict your statements like sorted. Ref: Precap.

That's no sorted man thoughts ever.


A sorted man would have known his place in the life of the people he built a family with and doesn't need constant reassurance not only from his wife but her immediate family who he met recently.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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It’s Lower court decision and can be easily upturned in higher court. Hope you maintain the same position when that happens👍



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Edited by oh_nakhrewaali - 2 years ago

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