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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: OnTheBlock

Who's asking them not to lol.


But then they must address spousal abuse and the reason she did what she did. Why she felt the need to make Abhinav the legal father. Spousal abuse and seeking shelter.


That itself would make Abhimanyu unfit for complete custody.


The problem isn't why these particular issues arent brought up.. The problem is why the dramatic part of court case is being wrapped up without the drama part of it. Why they are rushing through the most important track of the leap.


We already know from the promo Abhimanyu got full custody which is just unlikely anyway. Indian law mother will always have primary custody/joint custody in case of a divorce unless she's extremely poor or mentally unstable.. Unfit to raise a child. So Abhimanyu winning full custody is an ITV fable at best. But how they reached that conclusion should have been executed better.

Have you heard about Shalin Bhanot and Dalijit?

The victim went public with proofs of physical abuse, domestic violence etc.

Family court gave Shalin a clean chit with only visitation rights.

Since we are discussing about fictional characters, the court will consider triggers or reason for divorce.

Judges in India are pretty stoned hearted.

As far as the abusers in the Birla house are concerned, both HB and PB aren't living with their wives. Shefali has the option to opt for divorce.

Maybe the omission of the biological father in the birth certificate and simultaneously hiding Abhir paternity formed the base of argument.

Or else the precap is a bloody dream.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: OnTheBlock

Yes it's all speculation when it comes to Akshara's abuse lol. Its something I've found quite amusing on this forum 😆 especially when it was textbook spousal and familial abuse.


Abhimanyu should be grateful Akshara did not file a case against him on white day. It would have landed him in jail immediately. Oh well, another perk of being the ML.


In another version, Akshara should be grateful that Abhimanyu didnt file a case against her for signing divorce paper and running away with a new man and hiding her pregnancy from him.

This would look more plausible, since she didnt go to the police in fact she was caught by PK police and nav came and claimed that she was his wife. Then they together forged legal papers at birth of Abhir.

You want a dhamakedaar custody case this is how it will look for the accha admi who will be booked for kidnapping and an accomplice in hiding a child from his father with not so acchi mumma of her betu.😆😆😆


The part of evidence is completely true. I agree. A known reality that domestic abuse victims find it hard to prove it in court. I do believe witnesses can be of huge help then.


In the end, the court will always take into consideration what the mother did to safeguard herself and her child.


Why? Why should she seek asylum elsewhere. A good man wanted to help her and she took his help. She felt protected under his care.


Lord the expectations from someone who's gone through a traumatic miscarriage,then added emotional upheaval of divorce, called a murderer and thrown out of her home... LOL indeed 😆


My reply in bold.

My expectations from leads are when they do wrong they accept their part of mistakes, apologize and make life of ppl around easier. Or else they are just cameos with extra scenes.

The end.😆

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: OnTheBlock

Yes they will scrutinize the case in detail for a grieving father but won't do the same for a miscarrying mother who was physically and emotionally abused that day lmao.


Abuse victims are allowed to seek shelter wherever and with whoever they can.


It's more of trying to escape her abuser but alright 😆


Abhinav is Abhir's legal father still. Abhimanyu is the biological father.


Abhir and the legal department of nation both hate abuse of spouse/mother. (Just real though cause unfortunately ITV doesn't give a rat's a-- about a woman's abuse. They wouldn't even call it or acknowledge what is truly was. Perks of the abuser being the ML)

@bold - when did this happen? from what we have seen - she was trying to call him (and only him) to inform about the surviving baby. she did escape goenka’s though by lying and keeping them in dark. And even when she had met Abhimanyu for the first time since leap - she had a small monologue while making jam where she was upset at herself for not being able to tell him the truth about Abhir. Later when makers decided to make Abhinav a parallel lead- the narrative changed and during their confrontation she said she never intended to inform him.

What Manjiri and Abhimanyu did on white day to Akshara was very wrong. I too felt she needed care and kindness. But Akshara the superwoman who had already miscarried one twin fighting goons, felt it best to live on her own with little or no money after being nearly molested, thrown out of hostel in the middle of night, and even going to jail(being well aware of her pregnancy). One could say she suffered more than white day by not taking help from her brother/family. So when she doesn’t care about herself or her pregnancy- what gives her the right to blame others?

Abhimanyu blamed her for Neil and his kids deaths- should never have happened to any woman esp in her condition. However, he too has been continuously blamed post leap by Manjiri-Arohi for not prioritizing Ruhi and by Goenka’s for disturbing Akshara-Abhinav’s marital life. He has been living like a zombie with no motivation in life for 6 years. He has been erased from his kid’s life. What more suffering do you want for him? People say he listens to Manjiri- but don’t see that she is the only one who pays attention to him or his pain - when Abhimanyu said case is the best option, Akshara was quite instead of offering a better solution which she didn’t have else he would have considered that alternative - isn’t he human like others - or his only purpose in life is to be of service to Goenka’s and their broken siblings- save their lives, save them from each other, save them from Mahima, save their kids, save their spouse, treat them for free? While all the Goenkas treat him like a use and throw napkin. At least Abhimanyu tries to rectify his wrongs. Akshara till now has zero realization of how she messed up everyone’s lives.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

@bold - when did this happen? from what we have seen - she was trying to call him (and only him) to inform about the surviving baby. she did escape goenka’s though by lying and keeping them in dark. And even when she had met Abhimanyu for the first time since leap - she had a small monologue while making jam where she was upset at herself for not being able to tell him the truth about Abhir. Later when makers decided to make Abhinav a parallel lead- the narrative changed and during their confrontation she said she never intended to inform him.

What Manjiri and Abhimanyu did on white day to Akshara was very wrong. I too felt she needed care and kindness. But Akshara the superwoman who had already miscarried one twin fighting goons, felt it best to live on her own with little or no money after being nearly molested, thrown out of hostel in the middle of night, and even going to jail(being well aware of her pregnancy). One could say she suffered more than white day by not taking help from her brother/family. So when she doesn’t care about herself or her pregnancy- what gives her the right to blame others?

Abhimanyu blamed her for Neil and his kids deaths- should never have happened to any woman esp in her condition. However, he too has been continuously blamed post leap by Manjiri-Arohi for not prioritizing Ruhi and by Goenka’s for disturbing Akshara-Abhinav’s marital life. He has been living like a zombie with no motivation in life for 6 years. He has been erased from his kid’s life. What more suffering do you want for him? People say he listens to Manjiri- but don’t see that she is the only one who pays attention to him or his pain - when Abhimanyu said case is the best option, Akshara was quite instead of offering a better solution which she didn’t have else he would have considered that alternative - isn’t he human like others - or his only purpose in life is to be of service to Goenka’s and their broken siblings- save their lives, save them from each other, save them from Mahima, save their kids, save their spouse, treat them for free? While all the Goenkas treat him like a use and throw napkin. At least Abhimanyu tries to rectify his wrongs. Akshara till now has zero realization of how she messed up everyone’s lives.

This is exactly how a capable lawyer wil argue.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Salutethearmy

Have you heard about Shalin Bhanot and Dalijit?

The victim went public with proofs of physical abuse, domestic violence etc.

Family court gave Shalin a clean chit with only visitation rights.

Since we are discussing about fictional characters, the court will consider triggers or reason for divorce.

Judges in India are pretty stoned hearted.

As far as the abusers in the Birla house are concerned, both HB and PB aren't living with their wives. Shefali has the option to opt for divorce.

Maybe the omission of the biological father in the birth certificate and simultaneously hiding Abhir paternity formed the base of argument.

Or else the precap is a bloody dream.

Seriously ? A child who is happy with his parents , real or adopted or in step relation, one who is praying for his mother to win his custody , why would the court grant custody to the father for this reason ke the child was lied to ? A 6 yr old kid?😆 Kuch bhi .


Frankly I'm not interested in the reasons bec itv anything is possible..but in reality no court would grant the full custody to the father unless the mother is financially or mentally incapable of bringing up the child. But again, who r we to argue abt the court of law ? May be they will tell us when the epi airs. If need be akshnav can approach the higher court .

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Krinya

Seriously ? A child who is happy with his parents , real or adopted or in step relation, one who is praying for his mother to win his custody , why would the court grant custody to the father for this reason ke the child was lied to ? A 6 yr old kid?😆 Kuch bhi .


Frankly I'm not interested in the reasons bec itv anything is possible..but in reality no court would grant the full custody to the father unless the mother is financially or mentally incapable of bringing up the child. But again, who r we to argue abt the court of law ? May be they will tell us when the epi airs. If need be akshnav can approach the higher court .

U know our country's judicial system, aur apne vakeel bhai behen ko salam.

A minor's custody in India will be given to the mother only. However there are certain exceptions like prejudice, intent, false representation of facts which works against the litigants.

Presentation is crucial in any argument.

In Abhira's case both parties can twist narratives.

Family, high court phir Supreme court.

lower to higher jaa sakte hain.

However don't think the makers are in a hurry ?

probably Harshad wants to quit or they have a fresh story in mind for Sharma parivaar?

Fastrack courts also take time, thanks to the huge backlog.

Yahan Sunday tak track khatam.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

@bold - when did this happen? from what we have seen - she was trying to call him (and only him) to inform about the surviving baby. she did escape goenka’s though by lying and keeping them in dark. And even when she had met Abhimanyu for the first time since leap - she had a small monologue while making jam where she was upset at herself for not being able to tell him the truth about Abhir. Later when makers decided to make Abhinav a parallel lead- the narrative changed and during their confrontation she said she never intended to inform him.

What Manjiri and Abhimanyu did on white day to Akshara was very wrong. I too felt she needed care and kindness. But Akshara the superwoman who had already miscarried one twin fighting goons, felt it best to live on her own with little or no money after being nearly molested, thrown out of hostel in the middle of night, and even going to jail(being well aware of her pregnancy). One could say she suffered more than white day by not taking help from her brother/family. So when she doesn’t care about herself or her pregnancy- what gives her the right to blame others?

Abhimanyu blamed her for Neil and his kids deaths- should never have happened to any woman esp in her condition. However, he too has been continuously blamed post leap by Manjiri-Arohi for not prioritizing Ruhi and by Goenka’s for disturbing Akshara-Abhinav’s marital life. He has been living like a zombie with no motivation in life for 6 years. He has been erased from his kid’s life. What more suffering do you want for him? People say he listens to Manjiri- but don’t see that she is the only one who pays attention to him or his pain - when Abhimanyu said case is the best option, Akshara was quite instead of offering a better solution which she didn’t have else he would have considered that alternative - isn’t he human like others - or his only purpose in life is to be of service to Goenka’s and their broken siblings- save their lives, save them from each other, save them from Mahima, save their kids, save their spouse, treat them for free? While all the Goenkas treat him like a use and throw napkin. At least Abhimanyu tries to rectify his wrongs. Akshara till now has zero realization of how she messed up everyone’s lives.

All valid points ...


But we need to understand that when she left abhimanyus house , and aimlessly boarded the bus , she had no intention of settling down ..when she learnt about her pregnancy , the first person she called was abhimanyu ..she had the intent to go bk to him but he only said chali gayi ho meri zindagi se dobara laut ke kabhi mat aana ..it wasnt like his phone was unreachable or they didn't get to talk ke she should try again and again.....so much hatred for the girl he claimed to love ? ..in the most difficult period of her life , she wanted him to be on her side , was it so wrong? This is what she said in the promo at that time ...



When abhir was born, she not just erased his name from the birth certificate , she erased his love , his identity from her life ..khoon ka rishta hi kaafi nHi hota meant just that..when she needed him the most , abhinav was with her not abhimanyu ."she didn't try enuf" means nothing..she tried and she failed..why would she try again and again for the person who wasn't ready to pick her calls even? His mom was getting panic attacks with her name flashing on his phone...if therrz nothing he cud do, she also wasn't left with the option to contact him again... Everyone is responsible for what happened..goenkas , birlas , akshara and abhim. Akshara nai gayi , goenkas chale jaate uske paas ..abhim nahi gaya , akshara aa jaati uske paas..



If it's unfair to call abhim an abuser , akshu also wasnt a murderer . In 6 yrs , akshu never wanted to go bk to abhim but he wants her back and now his mummy too..it says a lot ...lying to a child abt his paternity can never be equal to white day events.



As for abhimanyu and his haq ..yes it's fine if he won the custody but he can't win abhir completely ..the same way akshu was wrong to believe that she can erase abhimanyus existence from abhirs life. They may say anything but they will realise it soon, abhir will suffer a lot and the reason is not lies or identity crisis or white day truth..he will be conflicted between akshara abhimanyu and abhinav.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: OnTheBlock

What even was that court scene 😭💀


How the hell did Abhimanyu get full custody when after white day abuse was brought up in the muted scenes. (I always thought it would never see the light)


I understand why the arguments were muted because there was no possible way Abhimanyu could be shown winning full custody otherwise.


But still, this is disappointing. Why is DKP ruining one track after another. Wasn't this supposed to be THE TRACK. Custody track should have gone for a week. The arguments, the back and forth- the revelations, the flashbacks. That is where the DRAMA is. They muted the whole thing and will wrap it up by tomorrow.. Unbelievable.


They are really eager to start Abhir and Akshnav separation era and complete Abhimanyu's whitewashing when he gives him back to the Sharmas. But this was such wasted potential.


Can't wait for Manjiri's karma to hit her in the face though when she realizes all the riches of the Birla house cannot make up for the absence a son feels without his parents.


So true Lolzz, but it was laugh worth actually 🤣

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Krinya

All valid points ...


But we need to understand that when she left abhimanyus house , and aimlessly boarded the bus , she had no intention of settling down ..when she learnt about her pregnancy , the first person she called was abhimanyu ..she had the intent to go bk to him but he only said chali gayi ho meri zindagi se dobara laut ke kabhi mat aana ...so much hatred for the girl he claimed to love so much ? ..in the most difficult period of her life , she wanted him to be on her side , was it so wrong? This is what she said in the promo at that time ...



When abhir was born, she not just erased his name from the birth certificate , she erased his love , his identity from her life ..khoon ka rishta hi kaafi nHi hota meant just that..when she needed him the most , abhinav was with her not abhimanyu ."she didn't try enuf" means nothing..she tried and she failed..why would she try again and again for the person who wasn't ready to pick her calls even? His mom was getting panic attacks with her name flashing on his phone...if therrz nothing he cud do, she also wasn't left with the option to contact him again... Everyone is responsible for what happened..goenkas , birlas , akshara and abhim. Akshara nai gayi , goenkas chale jaate uske paas ..abhim nahi gaya , akshara aa jaati uske paas..



If it's unfair to call abhim an abuser , akshu also wasnt a murderer . In 6 yrs , akshu never wanted to go bk to abhim but he wants her back and now his mummy too..it says a lot ...lying to a child abt his paternity can never be equal to white day events.



As for abhimanyu and his haq ..yes it's fine if he won the custody but he can't win abhir completely ..the same way akshu was wrong to believe that she can erase abhimanyus existence from abhirs life. They may say anything but they will realise it soon, abhir will suffer a lot and the reason is not lies or identity crisis or white day truth..he will be conflicted between akshara abhimanyu and abhinav.

@bold - Exactly! And not just him but Ruhi too. I hope both the kids get together and teach these crazy grownups a lesson! Not liking the current custody track but hopefully we’ll get to see both kids’ growing bond with each other if they are under the same roof.

They could have gotten lawyers to negotiate a coparenting agreement rather than fight a case where no matter who wins - Abhir will lose!

Regarding lying to a child - the issue could create complexes in Abhir when he grows older - but she was honest with him and did say she will tell him once he is older - so will let that pass - but the problem is that she didn’t even consider how Arohi-Ruhi will be impacted when she heard of their alliance - it would have been alright if she remained quite like she usually is but instead openly supported that alliance - and only a few days before that she was so concerned for her sister that she was ready to travel to Udaipur just to see her after the electrocution accident. Her keeping Abhir hidden - partly understandable intentions- have led to complications in everyone’s lives.

If they knew before, Abhimanyu-Arohi could have considered the impact it would have on their priorities and decided if they still wanted to go ahead with marriage - but Akshara took away that option from them. They had just begun being friends and Abhir’s truth which came out too late created a conflict of interest making it all the more harder for them to either move ahead or back. Didn’t Akshara want happiness for her sister or at least Ruhi? And even if Arohi has done many mistakes - Ruhi is an innocent child - but Akshara didn’t speak up for her sake either.

Even during Abhir’s treatment her first priority was hiding the truth rather than informing his doctor - so even if one accepts her emotional state 6 years back - I see no reasonable justification for her to not come out and tell the truth herself in such situations where it would have made a difference. And with all the mess between Akshara Abhimanyu and Arohi - Goenkas, Birlas and Sharmas - everyone will be impacted that’s why I said her lies have messed their lives. Just as Abhimanyu had 6-7 months to call her back or go look for her, Akshara has had 7 years to speak up.

Unrequited love, break-ups, moving on and heartbreaks- thats just life. But children shouldn’t have to suffer because adults can’t handle their feelings - which is why I feel every one is at fault to some extent.

Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: OnTheBlock

Yes they will scrutinize the case in detail for a grieving father but won't do the same for a miscarrying mother who was physically and emotionally abused that day lmao.


Abuse victims are allowed to seek shelter wherever and with whoever they can.


It's more of trying to escape her abuser but alright 😆


Abhinav is Abhir's legal father still. Abhimanyu is the biological father.


Abhir and the legal department of nation both hate abuse of spouse/mother. (Just real though cause unfortunately ITV doesn't give a rat's a-- about a woman's abuse. They wouldn't even call it or acknowledge what is truly was. Perks of the abuser being the ML)


Par as per rishta k court ab toh legal father bhi Abhimanyu hoga 😂😂

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