Maa ki mamta - Page 8

thank you for your kind words 🥰

I know I shouldn’t take it seriously lol. But some fictional characters and stories can trigger ppl with traumatic past, even if the characters are not in the wrong. Just watching those incidents and few of those traits can trigger memories from our own past. I’m not saying that’s the case for everyone, but it has been for me.

And trust me! I don’t think of AbhiM as a bad person. He’s good at heart, and I have empathy for him. it’s just that some of his traits/actions reminds me of my past.

AbhiMs, AbhiNs breakdown and AKs anxiety attacks can be triggering to watch which is why I would highly recommend makers to think about giving a trigger warning at the beginning of such episodes.

I just don’t have the heart or the patience to watch all the episodes from the beginning of gen3. 😁

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Hey no why would i judge:)

First of all i am so sorry to hear that it resembles your ex husband and it's triggering for you.

But i would suggest not to make impression of a fictional character only by what you hear.

But during their marriage they had their up and down.

Incidents where both were wrong, incidents where akshi was wrong only, incident where abhimanyu was wrong.

What happened the day known as white day was wrong. Abhimanyu was wrong that day and everyone agreed to that. Infact so does the character abhimanyu that he was wrong.

But calling him a abuser with abusive behaviour cycle would be wrong.

Moreover, it's a fictional character it's better to take it lightly.

I hope you are in a better place now ❤️

Originally posted by: chaipaani

This is not the answer as well. This is more of a summary of what happened.

Did abhimanyu knew for a year that she left coz of Khera ki condition and all. That's not the point she left without saying anything we knew she wasn't happy herself, we knew what she did for him but did he?

Answer is no and he felt like she didn't choose him, he couldn't sleep, his anxiety worsen, he developed self harming so was it under spousal abuse or not?

Yeah I'm not the one to talk about abuse but

he would have anyways gotten the anxiety and sleep deprivation due to his handicap but he can't reason it out bec he just refuses to see the bigger picture and fixes the blame on akshara every single time..

if he developed all those tendencies bec akshu acted without consulting him, he first needs to give up his medical license, go for therapy , do some meditation bec what you just described doesn't sound like symptoms of a normal person ..It actually reinforces my belief that he doesn't go crazy randomly, he is crazy. He needs treatment. With these symptoms he shouldn't be getting abhirs custody also . 😒

Like..he developed anxiety when akshu rejected him..again when he was marrying arohi..again when akshu set up a party for his parents.. again when Neil's adoption truth was out..again when khera came..again when he met her in kasauli? That's a lot.

Originally posted by: Krinya

Yeah I'm not the one to talk about abuse but

he would have anyways gotten the anxiety and sleep deprivation due to his handicap but he can't reason it out bec he just refuses to see the bigger picture and fixes the blame on akshara every single time..

if he developed all those tendencies bec akshu acted without consulting him, he first needs to give up his medical license, go for therapy , do some meditation bec what you just described doesn't sound like symptoms of a normal person ..It actually reinforces my belief that he doesn't go crazy randomly, he is crazy. He needs treatment. With these symptoms he shouldn't be getting abhirs custody also . 😒

Like..he developed anxiety when akshu rejected him..again when he was marrying arohi..again when akshu set up a party for his parents.. again when Neil's adoption truth was out..again when khera came..again when he met her in kasauli? That's a lot.

And getting a panic attack coz you stopped your ex from eating a shakarkandi from which he is allergic to is a sign of a normal person?

Also, doesn't Akshara use to have panic attack and yet became a music therapist - keyword therapy.

Damn i never realised that having anxiety issues can be a roadblock in becoming a Doctor.

Originally posted by: yellomellow

Some people completely missed the point.

It doesn't matter what Abhi did or didn't do. Nor is it about her moving on. Instead of fighting her own battles or actually moving on she used a child to settle scores. Whatever happened between them was between adults, but she willingly and gleefully brought an child into. Just like how Manjiri used Abhi against his father she is doing the same.

Abhi didn't make the decision for them. It was all their choice, but Abhi and Abhir have to face the consequences for a decision made without their knowledge or consent. It's about her and Abhinav's complete disregard for Abhir's feelings. Even now Abhi senses that something is off with Abhir. Whereas, the mother that almost died giving birth to him is more concerned about her husband's feelings. Abhir was close to telling Abhi that he is still looking for his real father, but he ran off to find Ruhi. That seems like a child that is struggling with his emotions. He wants to know and talk about it, but he is suppressing his feelings because his mother told him to. That's gaslighting lol.

Also, not everything is about Abhi, but some people are obsessed with his character.

Anyway her kids were never her priority and she is like this from her pregnancy phase.She has habit to give preference to others on the cost of her children/child.

Originally posted by: Krinya

Yeah I'm not the one to talk about abuse but

he would have anyways gotten the anxiety and sleep deprivation due to his handicap but he can't reason it out bec he just refuses to see the bigger picture and fixes the blame on akshara every single time..

if he developed all those tendencies bec akshu acted without consulting him, he first needs to give up his medical license, go for therapy , do some meditation bec what you just described doesn't sound like symptoms of a normal person ..It actually reinforces my belief that he doesn't go crazy randomly, he is crazy. He needs treatment. With these symptoms he shouldn't be getting abhirs custody also . 😒

Like..he developed anxiety when akshu rejected him..again when he was marrying arohi..again when akshu set up a party for his parents.. again when Neil's adoption truth was out..again when khera came..again when he met her in kasauli? That's a lot.

This part is an assumption what if he did not. What if he with time accept the fact and moved ahead teaching medicine.

Also, the time period i am talking about is when his was missing in action.

Once she came back and everything was in open. He apologized too which she didn't. But yet if he blamed he accepted that he did wrong and said he wanna try again- but as per you and the spousal abuse expert this was also his one of the wrongs. Maybe i am not saying anything.

I am not even stating that what abhimanyu did was right or wrong.

My question is simple was what akshu did due to which he developed these traits falls under the category of spousal abuse coz as per the definition given by the one i originally asked this query it seems like it does.

You are tagged here coz you said allow me to answer and then gave me a summary of the show and second part mein how it's abhimanyu's fault.

I don't care i agree abhimanyu is a bad person, he never deserves akshu and is the worst spouse.

The questions still stands open what akshu did was it right? Was it not emotional abuse?

Originally posted by: chaipaani

And getting a panic attack coz you stopped your ex from eating a shakarkandi from which he is allergic to is a sign of a normal person?

Also, doesn't Akshara use to have panic attack and yet became a music therapist - keyword therapy.

Damn i never realised that having anxiety issues can be a roadblock in becoming a Doctor.

Lol wo medicine practice kare tho problem,nahi kare tho bhi problem

He also gets mocked for not working in a hospital now and taking leave to go be with his son😂

Originally posted by: Neha5785

Lol wo medicine practice kare tho problem,nahi kare tho bhi problem

He also gets mocked for not working in a hospital now and taking leave to go be with his son😂

He can take leave waise it's logical also coz sach mein uske baap ka hospital hai 😂

Woh aur uske pita ji k pass toh duniya bhar ka paisa hai. Toh paise ki chinta nahi hai 😂

Originally posted by: chaipaani

He can take leave waise it's logical also coz sach mein uske baap ka hospital hai 😂

Woh aur uske pita ji k pass toh duniya bhar ka paisa hai. Toh paise ki chinta nahi hai 😂

Wahi tho

Also he was working before tho paise aaya hoga

Ak ki tarah 10 jobs change karna nahi padega

Originally posted by: chaipaani

And getting a panic attack coz you stopped your ex from eating a shakarkandi from which he is allergic to is a sign of a normal person?

Also, doesn't Akshara use to have panic attack and yet became a music therapist - keyword therapy.

Damn i never realised that having anxiety issues can be a roadblock in becoming a Doctor.

Originally posted by: Neha5785

Wahi tho

Also he was working before tho paise aaya hoga

Ak ki tarah 10 jobs change karna nahi padega

Arey he’s been doing consultations for surgeries from the house. Fully work nahin stop kiya tha. He’s always been shown as a workaholic toh thoda WFH karne se duniya kaise khatam ho jayegi? 🤷‍♀️😂

He obviously doesn’t need to work for money. Jinko karna hai majboori mein for their finances woh apna dekhein na - how is that connected to Abhi’s work? 😆