Originally posted by: lagjagale
I disagree. I think she loved Abhi too in her own way. Both of them had expectations of each other and expectations of their relationship and both of them disappointed each other in that. Akshara doesn't love Arohi as much, she more so has an inferiority complex with her. Arohi has bullied her, their whole lives. Abhi despite Navra fans opinions, has never really bullied or insulted Ak. He has fought with her and tried to explain his side and just done a lot of what normal couples do but with the intensity of Abhimanyu Birla.
I think both Ak and Abhi have more expectations from each other so they are both worse with each other than with their families and hurt each other more than anyone else can. Now that Abhi has given up and hopefully stopped having expectations I hope he stops hurting. Ak's expectations are still there. That was her holding onto him.
extreme and unrealistic expectations are what destroyed their relation.
abhis expectation for akshara to atleast not sacrifice herself or her relations for others and suffer like his mother.
ak expectation that abhi will accept why she risked her, babies and neils life.
whereas abhi was brutally wrong in giving div . ak was unreasonable and unrealistic when she expected abhi as a husband and father and brother to accept the deaths and move on considering it as a mere circumstance.
the reason abhinav and ak pairing doesnt make sense is not because they are boring or aa is too good but because both of them has neither faced even 1% as a couple the difficulties the hurdles as preg problems, family problems evil sister aarohi in their six years which abhira had faced in few moments of their married life .
here abhinav and ak were like headless chicken when it comes to anyproblem regatding abhir , or like muskaans ring , gaslighting each other into praising oneself especially nav and then begging others for help.
i still think the day abhi operated his own son and nobody even cared or asked whether he was okay after surgery , the turmoil he felt when his sons life was in his hand . that shows abhis worth as a character.
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abhinav and ak had not even faced anything in this six years to be even called that their relationship was solid.
even now if ak and abhi stayed together alone like in kasauli away from aarohi and rest their marriage would be just as platonic .
thats where akshnav is plain and bland as a married couple..
unless ofcourse fixing a fan is considered a great feat in married life
Edited by SAOkr - 2 years ago
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